tubbizzle Posted March 19, 2007 Share Posted March 19, 2007 Ok here is the deal. This girl that i have been dating for 1/2 year had a fiance at during the first two months that we were dating. Before you guys flame on saying that i am a marriage wrecker, listen to my story first and focus on my problems. Anyway, this ex fiance of hers is a machinest (someone who works in a factory operating machines) by day and a bookie (yes, gambling bookie on the weekends). She had been wanting to leave this dude for over a year already, but did not do so because they were already engaged. And yes, engagement in Asian families are more serious than an American engagement. Finally 3 months ago, she got rid of him. Well, that was the good news, now the bad ones. I am not an american citizen. I came to the US to study and i am about to graduate and therefore cannot stay here unless i either find a job or continuing on my education. I have a goal of becoming a dentist since i was little and i have been working hard towards the goal but my DAT (dental admission test) grades reflect otherwise. Maybe a bad day? i dunno. So i am left with two options now. One to either get a job as a Medical Equiment Sales in the US while taking my DAT and applying for next year's cycle or two, go to Poland or China for dental school and apply for next year's cycle. Basically, i am willing to come back to the US to study if opportunity arises. I am thinking that the second would be a wiser choice career wise but i really do love this girl. I am now 24 and i need to stop leeching off of my parents. The only solution to that is to get into dental school ASAP. If i were to take the first route, i would have wasted a year in the case of not being accepted to the schools here in the US. This will be a huge risk to take since i will be basically losing out on 100k+ for the year that i would be practicing as apposed to stayin in the US just trying to make ends meet. Anyway, after finding out that i might not stay in the US and careful consideration of this matter, my girl broke up with me. She told me although she is not clingy, but she cant stand long-d. She said she needs her bf to be around and she needs to know that i am there both emotionally and physically. She just left for asia for spring break today, and im a mess right now. i am haven't gotten enough sleep for the past 3 days because of this matter. What should i do? what should i tell her to reassure her that i am the one. because i certainly believe in what we have now. And i might be coming back to study here in the US. Link to post Share on other sites
Author tubbizzle Posted March 19, 2007 Author Share Posted March 19, 2007 I have came up with a solution with my mom when i told her the situation today on the phone. She asked me if i would want her to be with me if i was in poland and i told her yes. She offered to pay for her tuition if my gf would ever consider becoming a doctor or a dentist. She said if i were to ever get married with her, my mom wouldnt mind just paying for everything. But in the case of us seperating after, she even offered that she would loan the money to her interest free and she can pay it back slowly after she is practicing as a dentist or a doctor. It is gonna be a diffcult task to try and convince her to come to poland with me and go to school there, but i am willing to try and find out. Any ideas how i can tell her about this exciting news? Link to post Share on other sites
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