KarmaBytes Posted March 21, 2007 Share Posted March 21, 2007 Hi... there was someone at work that was interested in me... and at first i didn't realize it, truly i didn't... then when i did, it clicked in me... and the three months was full of flirtation, but then he left the job, without even telling me first, i had to find out through others, and the entire month of December he didn't talk to me, and i didn't pursue anything or email or IM. The month of Jan when he left, i had sent an email saying good luck but he didn't respond back. End of Jan he calls me and sets up a date, but we never go on it, i call him to remind him but he doesn't answer me back. So i just leave it be. Then Feb i call him and we dont get to chat, so i told him i'll call him back, and when i did, he doesn't answer the phone, i get the voicemail, i left a message, but he hasn't returned it. It's now middle of March, haven't heard from him, but he has been calling everyone else at work to say hi. Do you think i should take it as a hint? Just feel very sad, that i wasn't as important as i felt he was to me. I don't understand what happenned. I guess he wasn't really into me after all and led me on. i should have realized that long time ago. Just hard i suppose. I really liked him. Link to post Share on other sites
chryssy83 Posted March 22, 2007 Share Posted March 22, 2007 Eh, you didn't want a guy who won't follow through anyway! It's hard for guys to ask girls out, but it sounds like he knew you were interested and backed down anyway. His loss. There will be other guys....and that doesn't make you feel better now, but just know that you'll look back on this and it won't seem so bad. Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted March 22, 2007 Share Posted March 22, 2007 It's either what chryssy83 says or he's playing head games. Either way, I wouldn't bother following through with him. It can't be worth it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author KarmaBytes Posted March 22, 2007 Author Share Posted March 22, 2007 thank you so much for your replies. i can not tell you how better i feel reading your thoughts. You are right, in time i will see the difference and think to myself, what the heck was i thinking even giving him the time of day. i am so glad i found this place, it has really awesome people with great advice and even greater hearts. Thank you so much Link to post Share on other sites
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