purewil Posted March 21, 2007 Share Posted March 21, 2007 Now I know alot of people do it but, I can't understand what's so great about it. Me personally I couldn't do it...let's just say... I don't like to share. Can anyone tell me why, and how do people bring themselves to do something like that with thier spouses:confused: :confused: ? I'd have to be completely wasted to do something like that. Link to post Share on other sites
noxnoctisangela Posted March 21, 2007 Share Posted March 21, 2007 some people are just more sexually open than others...if its something you dont want to do then dont....if it is then do it....like i dont want to do it...though i have done it once but yea it was just trying new things...didnt care for it..not doing it again. it really depends on what your cup of tea is. Link to post Share on other sites
woodyman Posted March 21, 2007 Share Posted March 21, 2007 lol pretty much summed up right there...if it doesn't take your fancy, you wont like it. Like for me I love to share that feeling between just me and my girlfriend, sometimes it is fantasized about from both of us, telling each other about stuff we are doing...but thats as fr as it would go. Both far too scared to do any more !!! But yeah, if you dont think it is that great, no need to touch on it Link to post Share on other sites
loveknot Posted March 21, 2007 Share Posted March 21, 2007 Threesomes!!.lol what about sixsomes! Link to post Share on other sites
noxnoctisangela Posted March 21, 2007 Share Posted March 21, 2007 Threesomes!!.lol what about sixsomes! i think by that time its an orgy Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted March 21, 2007 Share Posted March 21, 2007 Not interested at all. There's no emotional connection. It's strictly sex instead of making love between caring individuals. Link to post Share on other sites
EllCee Posted March 22, 2007 Share Posted March 22, 2007 Yes, but you stay that like strictly sex between individuals is a BAD thing! If you are able to make that kind of detachment, you can get away with a lot of fun. I never thought I'd be interested, but I got talked into it by a SO, and it was a great time. Link to post Share on other sites
moredeborah Posted March 22, 2007 Share Posted March 22, 2007 I guess we do it because we're both very sexual people and it's exciting. Link to post Share on other sites
Plokette Posted March 22, 2007 Share Posted March 22, 2007 Yes, but you stay that like strictly sex between individuals is a BAD thing! If you are able to make that kind of detachment, you can get away with a lot of fun. I never thought I'd be interested, but I got talked into it by a SO, and it was a great time. Nice. Next you'll be advocating prostitution as harmless sex between consenting individuals to the gain of both. Both parties are diminished, and in the case of threesomes all three are. That is very hedonistic and simplistic thinking. Link to post Share on other sites
AnneB49 Posted March 22, 2007 Share Posted March 22, 2007 Nice. Next you'll be advocating prostitution as harmless sex between consenting individuals to the gain of both. Prostitution is not harmless...aside from the role the women play in the transaction...can you imagine how many guys give up their hard earned cash to these women...they should be saving their money for important things...buying a house...a ring...a birthday gift...a nice vacation...I mean come on there has to be a better way to spend that money... Link to post Share on other sites
manders0724 Posted March 22, 2007 Share Posted March 22, 2007 i understand what you mean...my boyfriend was always tryin to get me to have 3somes, but i always said no. why would i want to share my man? i may just have jealousy problems, or am insecure, but i would not share my man who i love with another girl Link to post Share on other sites
LittleWoman12 Posted March 22, 2007 Share Posted March 22, 2007 Prostitution is not harmless...aside from the role the women play in the transaction...can you imagine how many guys give up their hard earned cash to these women...they should be saving their money for important things...buying a house...a ring...a birthday gift...a nice vacation...I mean come on there has to be a better way to spend that money... I tried it and it was fun. But, I met a lot of nuts. The stories I could tell you. Link to post Share on other sites
1dw Posted March 22, 2007 Share Posted March 22, 2007 Nice. Next you'll be advocating prostitution as harmless sex between consenting individuals to the gain of both. Both parties are diminished, and in the case of threesomes all three are. That is very hedonistic and simplistic thinking. That is quite a jump from threesomes to prostitution. If both partners are willing to add a third partner, then how does that diminsih either of them? People who enjoy exploring their sexuality and are confident enough in their relationship to do so should be an example of the ultimate trust that can be obtained, not bashed. Link to post Share on other sites
Swingwithyou71 Posted March 22, 2007 Share Posted March 22, 2007 That is quite a jump from threesomes to prostitution. If both partners are willing to add a third partner, then how does that diminsih either of them? People who enjoy exploring their sexuality and are confident enough in their relationship to do so should be an example of the ultimate trust that can be obtained, not bashed. Yes threesomes are fun and entertaining for all involved. No one is degraded. How did we get from 3somes to prostitution? I mean, not that there is anything wrong with it lol Link to post Share on other sites
Clavage666 Posted March 22, 2007 Share Posted March 22, 2007 Prostitution is not harmless...aside from the role the women play in the transaction...can you imagine how many guys give up their hard earned cash to these women...they should be saving their money for important things...buying a house...a ring...a birthday gift...a nice vacation...I mean come on there has to be a better way to spend that money... Aside from the role women play? What about the poor misguided souls who assume they can salvage their souls with such ladies and wind up dissatisfied, and even more empty of both money AND self respect? Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted March 22, 2007 Share Posted March 22, 2007 That is quite a jump from threesomes to prostitution. If both partners are willing to add a third partner, then how does that diminsih either of them? People who enjoy exploring their sexuality and are confident enough in their relationship to do so should be an example of the ultimate trust that can be obtained, not bashed. Eh? What has ultimate trust and confidence in the relationship, got to do with threesomes? It's about two people who have identical sexual appetites, involving a third. Don't equate any of this to emotions beyond lust and desire. Link to post Share on other sites
rainfall Posted March 22, 2007 Share Posted March 22, 2007 That is quite a jump from threesomes to prostitution. If both partners are willing to add a third partner, then how does that diminsih either of them? People who enjoy exploring their sexuality and are confident enough in their relationship to do so should be an example of the ultimate trust that can be obtained, not bashed. Just because someone doesn't want to bring a third party into their relationship doesn't mean they aren't confident in their relationship. It just means they are happy with only their partner and don't like to share. Link to post Share on other sites
justagirlforever Posted March 22, 2007 Share Posted March 22, 2007 Prostitution is not harmless...aside from the role the women play in the transaction...can you imagine how many guys give up their hard earned cash to these women...they should be saving their money for important things...buying a house...a ring...a birthday gift...a nice vacation...I mean come on there has to be a better way to spend that money... And who exactly are you to judge what other people may find value in and what they choose to spend their hard earned cash on and what they should see as "important" in life? What if they already have the house, the ring, the nice vacation, the birthday gift? You cannot impose your own moral values/opinions on that of another. Link to post Share on other sites
Clavage666 Posted March 22, 2007 Share Posted March 22, 2007 I tried it and it was fun. But, I met a lot of nuts. The stories I could tell you. But how do you feel NOW? Have you no shame?? Link to post Share on other sites
CNJNovitiate Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 I tried it and it was fun. But, I met a lot of nuts. The stories I could tell you. I love this board, it's such a freeing experience. I too turned a few tricks in my junior year at Rutgers. Paid my bills and then some. I did finally have a bad experience with a guy who kept saying he wanted me to grow out my pubic hair for his sick fetish. That was the end for me, lol:bunny: . Link to post Share on other sites
Plokette Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 That is quite a jump from threesomes to prostitution. If both partners are willing to add a third partner, then how does that diminsih either of them? People who enjoy exploring their sexuality and are confident enough in their relationship to do so should be an example of the ultimate trust that can be obtained, not bashed. It certainly is not quite a jump. Both are classic examples of sex for pleasure alone, not involving any emotional connection whatsoever. Did you even finish high school? Link to post Share on other sites
justagirlforever Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 Nice. Both parties are diminished, and in the case of threesomes all three are. Diminished in who's eyes exactly ? That's purely your opinion. And founded upon what exactly? Link to post Share on other sites
AnneB49 Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 And who exactly are you to judge what other people may find value in and what they choose to spend their hard earned cash on and what they should see as "important" in life? What if they already have the house, the ring, the nice vacation, the birthday gift? You cannot impose your own moral values/opinions on that of another. see some of my other posts...I am not all that moral...I was poking fun at the notion that prostitution is wrong...by making the use of a man's hard earned cash the "wrong"...I have no real issue if a woman wants to get paid for their time and services doing an in demand service...I mean there is a reason why it is known as the oldest profession......somehow humor is always hit or miss on the internet... Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 Actually, I have issues with prostitution because there is so much abuse and victimization (is this a proper word?) involved. If prostitutes go into the profession willingly and are not there for fear of their lives from pimps, high on crack and the rest that follows, I would agree that they can do what they want with their lives. Link to post Share on other sites
Plokette Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 Diminished in who's eyes exactly ? That's purely your opinion. And founded upon what exactly? usually diminished to their partners, to anyone who is aware of it, and often to themselves. yes it is my opinion, yours may differ, but that is the beauty of opinions. Founded on a moral code that most of us have been brought up with that sex for love isa beautiful thing while sex with no emotional attachment, especially when done in volume can be degrading. Most often it is seen in people who crave accerptance or validation in some way, and seeking it sexually while it appears to be an easy solution, rarely brings anything but more lonliness and humiliation. There are no absolutes, and certainly some people fall outside the mainstream, but more often this view is shared Link to post Share on other sites
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