Ireallyhatecheating Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 GFY.... The more I think about it the more pissed off I get. This whole thread makes me . Maybe someone can shove that spider you speak of up your azz. Loosen up a little deadgirl, I hope your hubby doesn't feel like he's banging a corpse! You can shove something up my azz, but I have a rule, anything more than a pinky is gay. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 it is not about respect...it is about genetic programming...those boys just can not control themselves...rutting is about passing your genetic material onto the next generation...the best spreads the most seed...i was just reading a magazine article about a make spider who breaks his penis off in the vagina of the female to block out the other boys who come after... the respect issue is as such...i would think that if my H were to see one of these "working girls" it would probably be because he does not want to involve himself in another relationship with another woman...he could roam without emotional commitment...that is mine!!! So what your saying, if I am reading this right, is that you don't care if your husband has sex with 100's of other woman as long as he doesn't become emotionally attached to any of them. Well, isn't he a lucky man!!! Would like to see your face if he actually told you he had been seeing hookers the entire time you have been together, BUT he never had any emotional involvement with them.......lmah......it would be priceless to see your face if that happened. Link to post Share on other sites
lorr Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 sure there is: frigid wives and g/f Its so sad when it comes to the stage that a man is so cowardly and desperate to even consider resorting to hooking up with a prostitute because his woman can't be half arsed to perform in the bedroom. If he can't handle it he should DUMP HER ARSE. Maybe he hasn't met the right woman who he's compatible with. But a prostitute- HELL NO!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Ireallyhatecheating Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 You're just a pig and you don't belong on this wonderful site! The least you could do if you had a frigid wife was to divorce her, take care of her financially and get yourself a normal girl! A real man wouldn't do that, though. A real man would look to make the relationship better. I don't think I like you very much. And you certainly aren't the alpha male. What have you done to make the relationship with you're husband better? Have you even in a playful way asked him if he fantasized about having another woman in bed with the two of you? Have you asked him if it would turn him on if you let him have sex with another woman while you watched? Does your tongue have any off limit areas? Have the words "nipple clamps" ever been talked about? You had better make sure your own house is in order before criticizing others. Link to post Share on other sites
Ireallyhatecheating Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 Ewwwww! Gross! You are talking about sex, not love and marriage! Your name says you are against cheating, but your words don't! I really hate cheating if I like the girl but she doesn't do enough of the things I like to be fully pleased sexually. I'm giving you ladies pearls here... Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 What have you done to make the relationship with you're husband better? Have you even in a playful way asked him if he fantasized about having another woman in bed with the two of you? Have you asked him if it would turn him on if you let him have sex with another woman while you watched? Does your tongue have any off limit areas? Have the words "nipple clamps" ever been talked about? You had better make sure your own house is in order before criticizing others. these things are about sexual choices, fantasy and perversions or mutual relationship options. THEY ARE NOT WHAT SETS A HOUSE IN ORDER. your perversions don't have to be someone elses for them to have a satisfied R and home. Link to post Share on other sites
Lezbean Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 I really hate cheating if I like the girl but she doesn't do enough of the things I like to be fully pleased sexually. I'm giving you ladies pearls here... I'm wondering how you would feel if your wife was not fully satisfied with you and sought out some well-hung, super lover instead of you. Would you be crushed, or would you be understanding.?They are HER needs after all. Can't you just picture her on top of him writhing in extasy. Riding like a wild banshee, kissing his neck and nips, rubbing his thighs, moaning and making gutteral sounds until she explodes in a quivering, massive orgasm. Link to post Share on other sites
AnneB49 Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 So what your saying, if I am reading this right, is that you don't care if your husband has sex with 100's of other woman as long as he doesn't become emotionally attached to any of them. Well, isn't he a lucky man!!! Would like to see your face if he actually told you he had been seeing hookers the entire time you have been together, BUT he never had any emotional involvement with them.......lmah......it would be priceless to see your face if that happened. I am sure he was with 100s of women in college...I did my share of playing then...that does not bother me, why should it bother me if he sows seeds now? as long as he causes no harm and brings nothing home...I do make him get a full spectrum of STD tests at his physical every 6 months... oh, and he can afford it...he makes more money than GOD...lucky ME!!! I can do all the shopping I want...no complaints from him...my job is basically all pocket money for me Link to post Share on other sites
1DeadB Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 I'm wondering how you would feel if your wife was not fully satisfied with you and sought out some well-hung, super lover instead of you. Would you be crushed, or would you be understanding.?They are HER needs after all. Can't you just picture her on top of him writhing in extasy. Riding like a wild banshee, kissing his neck and nips, rubbing his thighs, moaning and making gutteral sounds until she explodes in a quivering, massive orgasm. That's good stuff. Where are you from? Link to post Share on other sites
lorr Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 I am sure he was with 100s of women in college...I did my share of playing then...that does not bother me, why should it bother me if he sows seeds now? as long as he causes no harm and brings nothing home...I do make him get a full spectrum of STD tests at his physical every 6 months... oh, and he can afford it...he makes more money than GOD...lucky ME!!! I can do all the shopping I want...no complaints from him...my job is basically all pocket money for me Oh how we love to brag! Wander if you would be saying these things if he were dead broke:rolleyes: Link to post Share on other sites
Lezbean Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 That's good stuff. Where are you from? Colorado. We are sexy here LOL. Link to post Share on other sites
AnneB49 Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 Oh how we love to brag! Wander if you would be saying these things if he were dead broke:rolleyes: I am not broke and we have enough in savings that we will never be...so I will never worry about that...and it is not bragging it is just to point out my worry free status... Link to post Share on other sites
lorr Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 I am not broke and we have enough in savings that we will never be...so I will never worry about that...and it is not bragging it is just to point out my worry free status... Let me get this straight- Your husband screws other women, your okay with it, and he gets STD checks every 6 months,and you brag about both of you having money. I have to say you are a laugh a minute. You should be a comedian:lmao: Link to post Share on other sites
AnneB49 Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 Let me get this straight- Your husband screws other women, your okay with it, and he gets STD checks every 6 months,and you brag about both of you having money. I have to say you are a laugh a minute. You should be a comedian:lmao: I did not say he screws other women...I said if he did I would be OK with it...I really don't know...but half of married men AND women screw people besides their partners...there is a good chance you s/o is too...it is reality...one must accept it or be miserable all the time... Link to post Share on other sites
VinaAmez Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 I did not say he screws other women...I said if he did I would be OK with it...I really don't know...but half of married men AND women screw people besides their partners...there is a good chance you s/o is too...it is reality...one must accept it or be miserable all the time... That's something one must accept! I don't think so. Sleeping with someone else while married IMO is unacceptable. Your okay with being cheated on? If my H did that the marriage would be over before he knew it. Hi guys, I'm new here but I'm so amazed at the resources that you have here. This seems like a place that I can share and not be judged. Wow. Maybe some can help me with a problem that's been eating at me. Over the past year, I've discovered the world of escorts or prostitutes. I never thought I would experience that dark world but my relationship of 10 years has become stale and boring. My SO seems to feel that she needs to ration out sex as if its going to break and she's so afraid to experiment with me. Its not like I'm asking for farm animals or for us to wear a suit of armor like some Black Knight. I just want frequent lovemaking in any other place besides our bedroom. Its become so predictable. Anyway, my bestfriend introduced me to his "hobby" of seeing escorts. He told me that it would help my relationship since it would take away a lot of the sexual tension between us. I tried it and he was actually right. My SO and I are getting along much better now that I "hobby" and I think our sexlife is better because I don't expect so much from her. The problem is that I don't feel guilty. I know I should but I just don't because I'm finally happy again. Am I crazy? Yes you are crazy. Stop this and work on your marriage. When you get caught, she will more than likely end it with you. Why not just tell her how unhappy you are in the bedroom - And, both of you should go to couples therapy. I'm sure there are needs of hers that you are not meeting either. It's more than her not wanting alot of sex. It takes two to keep the flame going...Talk to her. Good advice and probably the only sane one I've seen. Link to post Share on other sites
AnneB49 Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 That's something one must accept! I don't think so. Sleeping with someone else while married IMO is unacceptable. Your okay with being cheated on? If my H did that the marriage would be over before he knew it. you would give up a loving and secure relationship with kids, dog, house, and financial security...all because for 30 min your H put his willie in someone else's mouth... now that is silly to me... Link to post Share on other sites
VinaAmez Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 you would give up a loving and secure relationship with kids, dog, house, and financial security...all because for 30 min your H put his willie in someone else's mouth... now that is silly to me... Yes I would. I want nothing to do with a cheater and I'm not willing to take one thing over the other and say "Oh well I have other things". Cheating is cheating and if you don't see that as then that's fine. I do. A healthy relationship IMO shouldn't include other women. I don't share and that's not silly. There should be no reason for him to seek outside factors if the marriage is healthy. Link to post Share on other sites
AnneB49 Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 Yes I would. I want nothing to do with a cheater and I'm not willing to take one thing over the other and say "Oh well I have other things". Cheating is cheating and if you don't see that as then that's fine. I do. A healthy relationship IMO shouldn't include other women. I don't share and that's not silly. There should be no reason for him to seek outside factors if the marriage is healthy. this is like arguing with a bible banger about the existence of god...total waste of time...sooner or later it is likely you will have to reconsider your ideas or eat your words... Link to post Share on other sites
VinaAmez Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 this is like arguing with a bible banger about the existence of god...total waste of time...sooner or later it is likely you will have to reconsider your ideas or eat your words... Likely? Not all MM or single men for that matter cheat. But if your okay with it then fine. I'm not and there is nothing wrong with that. Link to post Share on other sites
lorr Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 you would give up a loving and secure relationship with kids, dog, house, and financial security...all because for 30 min your H put his willie in someone else's mouth... now that is silly to me... Please stop with the jokes already!Your killing me here:laugh: Link to post Share on other sites
VinaAmez Posted March 24, 2007 Share Posted March 24, 2007 So what your saying, if I am reading this right, is that you don't care if your husband has sex with 100's of other woman as long as he doesn't become emotionally attached to any of them. Well, isn't he a lucky man!!! Would like to see your face if he actually told you he had been seeing hookers the entire time you have been together, BUT he never had any emotional involvement with them.......lmah......it would be priceless to see your face if that happened. I agree and still it boggles my mind how some of you think this is a good thing. Unless some of you do it too, then I might be able to understand. In my point of view if someone is okay with your SO/H/W sleeping around with whomever, then that person also accepts the negative things that could happen. The door is wide open to a variety of things. Seems asinine to say they don't mind as long as he/she doesn't give them anything or become emotional attached. How do you regulate this? Sure you can have the person tested but how would you know if that person was attached? Sure they can agree to those terms and others, but what happends when things don't go as planned? That person could lie and you wouldn't even know it. Do some of you think it's worth it or do you accept and hang on to the person anyway you can? Link to post Share on other sites
rainfall Posted March 24, 2007 Share Posted March 24, 2007 you would give up a loving and secure relationship with kids, dog, house, and financial security...all because for 30 min your H put his willie in someone else's mouth... now that is silly to me... What is silly to me is that some women are willing to stay with someone who doesn't love them just because of money or kids. Link to post Share on other sites
prettyprincess Posted March 24, 2007 Share Posted March 24, 2007 Let me get this straight- Your husband screws other women, your okay with it, and he gets STD checks every 6 months,and you brag about both of you having money. I have to say you are a laugh a minute. You should be a comedian:lmao: Well there is nothing else in her life to brag about! LOL j/k No, I think what lorr was trying to get across is WOULD YOU STILL MIND HIS CHEATING if he were broke? But then it sounds like you are such a gold-digger, you probably wouldn't have given him the time of day if he were. Link to post Share on other sites
AnneB49 Posted March 24, 2007 Share Posted March 24, 2007 What is silly to me is that some women are willing to stay with someone who doesn't love them just because of money or kids. Can you read...I think I said "a loving and secure" relationship...sex is not love...it is certainly better with love in the mix...but it can be fantastic without... haven't you ever had a one night stand that you are still thinking about today that gets you all moist and bothered? Link to post Share on other sites
AnneB49 Posted March 24, 2007 Share Posted March 24, 2007 Well there is nothing else in her life to brag about! LOL j/k No, I think what lorr was trying to get across is WOULD YOU STILL MIND HIS CHEATING if he were broke? But then it sounds like you are such a gold-digger, you probably wouldn't have given him the time of day if he were. Gold Digger? where does that come from? You are so jealous that I can be free and open in my relationship that you have to resort to unnecessary name calling...My H makes a good income...but so do I, we will never have to worry about being poor...that is all... Would he not give me the time of day if I was broke too? maybe he is the one who wanted my gold...I know he want my honey we will never divorce either...because we are very accepting in our relationship...We have separate vacations every year...1 week each...I have a great time traveling with my girlfriends...then we always take a week for just the two of us, last year it was a whale watching cruise in Alaska...did not see many whales, as we hardly left the suite...and a third trip with the kids... Link to post Share on other sites
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