Bored..feel like ringing up the ex.

[Mydish1]

I've been stuck in a trance of school/work, that i just feel like going out and doing something different for a change. I'm over the ex, but oddly I just miss her.

 

me and my ex had nothing but great times when we were together. And how it ended was pretty stupid actually. I wont go into details but after a period of blowing me off and me calling it quits, she decided she wanted to be friends (basically keep me in the backburner). I knew it and couldnt do it so I truly did NC and said "see you around".

 

A few months later she tried several times to get back together with me and was very upfront about it with but I ignored her advances.

 

I want to get in contact with her and maybe even the possiblity of dating her again. I want those good times again, unlike any other girl she was always fascinated with me and always had high interest.

 

Do you guys think its worth a shot?

[polywog]

Do you know what she's up to? Meaning, is she still single? And do you really want to get back together, or are you just feeling nostalgic?

[Mydish1]

Do you know what she's up to? Meaning, is she still single? And do you really want to get back together, or are you just feeling nostalgic?

 

I dont know if she's single, but I remember she was always picky when it came to guys. Likely im just nostalgic i suppose, the thought of jumping back together doesnt sound too bad. Things were just easy with her, no games and we were always upfront about everything cause we talked a lot.

 

I guess the fact is I want to date again, but so far i havent come across anyone im attracted to - nor as fascinated to see me/ talk to me as much as the ex.

[bridget_jones]

I don't see the harm with giving her a call. I would make it light at first, like lunch or coffee...and suggest another get together the next week. Don't pressure her, I would at least have casual dates for about a month before you start mentioning getting back together, just enjoy dating again.