Storyrider Posted March 31, 2007 Share Posted March 31, 2007 Excellent point. So... what are you doing tonight? Reading your posts. Link to post Share on other sites
pelagicsands Posted March 31, 2007 Share Posted March 31, 2007 Reading your posts. :lmao: You always know just what to say. Link to post Share on other sites
Ariadne Posted March 31, 2007 Share Posted March 31, 2007 Hi, Why should she put herself through the pain and confusion of casual fling with him? Well, it was just an option she may still have. Personally, if I'm in love with a guy I'd want to have sex with him. Ariadne Link to post Share on other sites
Author LoveLace Posted April 1, 2007 Author Share Posted April 1, 2007 Well I'm out of my funk now, friends! School, etc was really running me down for a minute...it happens..but I always get back on my feet...me and RM are getting along, even though I can't stand all the girls that come over..but nothin I can do about it! I was just beginning to feel unattractive or something, since I haven't dated in a while..but just in the last few days I've got 3 guys that are into me now! I did go out and have fun last night...making fun for myself has never really been a problem, I'm pretty independent, I've just been getting down about having less time for it between work/school. Last night I met the RM's girlfriend (one of them) who is only like 22 (he is 37), then I went out, unexpectedly met a cute guy and he came over to hang out later. RM was in his room with the chick, but I'm sure he heard me and my new friend messing around...whatever...anyway it was a night that I really needed! My confidence is back. But yes I still love my RM, and maybe by some miracle he does too..otherwise I'd say we just care about each other and we tried this, but I still don't want to keep living here. Everything that goes on here is too distracting for me sometimes. You never know if something new develops between us, but for now I want to focus on the guys who give me the kind of attention I desire. There's a chance that one of them could turn out to be something great. But I'm sure you'll be hearing more from me..there are 4 months left of our lease, something's bound to happen, good or bad! Link to post Share on other sites
LaDiva Posted April 2, 2007 Share Posted April 2, 2007 I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but I have read your other posts about him too. Sorry, he is not interested in you or he would have made a move by now. I think he is glad you are moving out because the situation is making him very uncomfortable and you are cutting in on his dating. Move on and find someone who IS interested in you. The whole thing sounds kind of creepy. He's out with chicks, probably getting some and you are at his house heart broken. A very bad situation for you. Move on with your life. He isn't interested. Sorry:( It's pretty clear to outsiders looking in. Trust me, he KNOWS you are jealous of his dates. I value everyone's opinion on here... really, I am glad that there is actually a website that caters to these sort of love questions! Although I am in a similar situation, I am objective about my response. Although it may seem to some that he isn't into her ( I mean, maybe he isn't or maybe he is, he is the only real person that can answer that question), but that doesn't justify his actions or show discredit to his behavoir. From what I have been reading so far about your obviously incredible affair is that he is sending SIGNALS big time your way. But for some reason it just isn't falling into place. It may not necessarily mean that he doesn't like you, it might just mean that he isn't ready to enter into such a serious relationship with you... but he knows that he just can't CASUALLY date you either, because of the history that you guys share... Please, Please keep me updated on this... and if you ever want to talk Lovelace, send me a message my dear. *hugs* Link to post Share on other sites
Author LoveLace Posted April 2, 2007 Author Share Posted April 2, 2007 I'd love to know more about your situation...if you would like to share it with me! This was an interesting weekend. His daughter was gone for the weekend so I was having to face us being alone again, possibly. But he went to bed pretty early that night, and I fell asleep on the couch. Later in the night he comes out and tells me he's having people over. So I got up to go in my room. I was curious and asked who was coming. He said "one of my girlfriends". Went to my room. I realized he just kicked me out of my own living room for this chick. Got up and went to the bathroom. I told him that him and his slut better be quiet! That was out of character for me, to say something bad about one of the girls. I had a few beers in me though. The next day I decided, I'm just jealous cuz he's getting some and I haven't in a long time. As I got ready to go out Saturday night, him and the girlfriend were there so I met her really for the 1st time. Thin and hot and young, of course. I had already decided that I was going to look hot and get myself a boy that night. To my surprise it actually happened! Met a cute boy and he pursued me before I even pursued him. We agreed we both just needed a night of no-strings sex. I hate to sound slutty myself; but I'm 30 and sexually peaking, and have had nothing for 6 months! So he came home with me; I hear RM in his room getting it on with the chick. Eck it makes me cringe. Anyway, me and my new friend got it on my room, and I was loud cuz it's been a long time, and it was sord of painful. It was such a stress release for me. RM called me on Sunday to congratulate me, since he's heard me whine for the last several months. I also implied that we shouldn't live together anymore because of it. If he thought this would change my mind about that, he is wrong. Sure its no problem to get a one night stand over there, but no guy will take me seriously as a GF if I live with a man! So RM and I laughed on the phone about the whole thing and we were both tired from the night before. I said "we should watch a movie tonight". He says, "Yea, I'm chillin tonight". So he picks up his daughter and they come home. He seemed abnormally quiet. Not cold shoulder, just quiet. Suddenly things feel different between us. Instead of staying in the living room with us, he went into his bedroom. He left the door open, got under his covers, and started watching his fave. DVD. This is odd for him...he usually hangs with us in the living room, and watches a movie with us. I peaked into his room and he said he was "laying down". He didn't even finish the movie though, and he came back into the living room. After his daughter went to bed, we started a movie. So we're alone on the couch in the dark again. I hugged him and said good night right after the movie ended. I can't stand the awkwardness of being alone with him. But I"m sure he noticed that my mood was WAY different than before, after finally getting some! I was much more laid back, relaxed, etc. I hope it made him realize that I wouldn't be happy as his roommate forever unless he started satisfying me! And he won't get any big moves out of me while he has a GF. Truth is I don't wanna move out, I love our relationship aside from the jealousy. Somehow I don't think he wants me to move out either. So if I tell him how I feel, it would be putting him in a position to choose between me and his young hot girlfriends. He was looking at me differently last night. I can't explain it, but now all of a sudden my desire to physically closer to him is even stronger than before. It sucks! Link to post Share on other sites
Ariadne Posted April 2, 2007 Share Posted April 2, 2007 I can't explain it, but now all of a sudden my desire to physically closer to him is even stronger than before. (That's because you heard him having sex) Ariadne Link to post Share on other sites
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