sugarush Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 Well, i am involved with someone who is lets just say rather difficult! They want me one min, dump me the next. So, cos we dont see each other its hard enough without the mind games! But prob is, i love them! And we all know we chase what we cant have and when we get it we usually dont want it... So, do i keep with it, or find someone new? Any help please! x Link to post Share on other sites
Sweetie2007 Posted March 25, 2007 Share Posted March 25, 2007 Well, without knowing the details of your relationship, it is hard to really tell you much. If you feel that you are truly in love with this person, then you need to talk to them, tell them how you feel, and see how they feel. If they are playing on-off-on-off games, then that says to me that they are not 100% faithful, and also that communication may not be super important to them... in a LDR, communication and trust are key, so IMO, you need to talk to them, just be upfront and honest, but nice too, and see what happens... Link to post Share on other sites
amaysngrace Posted March 25, 2007 Share Posted March 25, 2007 I agree you need to talk to him and let him know how you feel. Do it when you two are both calm and relaxed, not while you're arguing. Tell him how you feel. If he gets sidetracked and won't listen, calmly try again. If he still isn't hearing you and becomes defensive, then you need to leave him alone. Link to post Share on other sites
catrocks Posted March 25, 2007 Share Posted March 25, 2007 This person sounds immature - you need to tell them exactly how you feel and if you still get messed around after that then forget them, you deserve better than that, even if it hurts at first you will find someone who treats you right and doesn't play stupid games. Link to post Share on other sites
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