Boyfriend jeolous of sister

[Melissa]

I need some advice on how to handle my boyfriend being jeolous of my sister. My sister and I have a very close bond. I could sense that my boyfriend didn't like her but he would not admit it. He just says that he is not comfortable around her. She has never done anything bad to him. He thinks that she will take me away from him or something. I feel that he is being very selfish in trying to make me chose between him and my sister. We have been together for almost two years. I love my sister more than anything in the world, in a sisterly way. And I love him more than anything in a boyfriend way. He thinks I am chosing her over him. I don't feel a person can choose something like that. I hardly ever get to see her. We only talk on the phone. Before me and him meet my sister and I were inseparable. She had to come to grips with the fact that I had a new boyfriend and that I would be spending all my time with him but now he doesn't want to share me. It is so obvious that he is jeolous of her. I hate this. My heart feels like it is being torn between the two and I will have to say that blood is thicker than water.

[jade]

How many times have you heard guys say "Bros before hoes" It's time women started having that attitude. In other words, put your sister first. She has been and always will be there for you. This doesn't mean you can't be with your boyfriend, but just don't compromise when it comes to spending time with your sister. If he really cares about you, he will understand how important she is to you.

I need some advice on how to handle my boyfriend being jeolous of my sister. My sister and I have a very close bond. I could sense that my boyfriend didn't like her but he would not admit it. He just says that he is not comfortable around her. She has never done anything bad to him. He thinks that she will take me away from him or something. I feel that he is being very selfish in trying to make me chose between him and my sister. We have been together for almost two years. I love my sister more than anything in the world, in a sisterly way. And I love him more than anything in a boyfriend way. He thinks I am chosing her over him. I don't feel a person can choose something like that. I hardly ever get to see her. We only talk on the phone. Before me and him meet my sister and I were inseparable. She had to come to grips with the fact that I had a new boyfriend and that I would be spending all my time with him but now he doesn't want to share me. It is so obvious that he is jeolous of her. I hate this. My heart feels like it is being torn between the two and I will have to say that blood is thicker than water.