bubbles_mikaylah Posted March 26, 2007 Share Posted March 26, 2007 I am meant to be getting married in 2 weeks (from sunday), We have been arguig alot more in the last few months leading up to our marriage, Have other people experienced this before marriage... We hae been to couples councillig before xmas and everything was fine unti we got a border (trying to help out a friend) and she tried to hit on him... she moved out around 1.5 months ago but I din't actually find out the reason until 3 weeks ago.. and things have gone down hill from then. I know tha I love him with all my heart and hs daughter, we also have a 1 yr old son together... I am just feeling really confused.. hes not around much latley, I'm aways seeng to be the B%^$h and well yea I don't know... I am really paranoid about what peope think of me we are living apart for a few days (he is at his parnets with his daughter) to put some space beween us and to have a think and I am going nuts about what his parnets must think of me... I want to make this relationship work as I love him with all my heart, Any advice is welcome... Al these little dirt mounds are being turned into giganticmountains for no good reason and I can't stand feelig this way any more Please help us.... Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted April 19, 2007 Share Posted April 19, 2007 I am kind of in the same boat in that i am getting married in less than 2 months and everything has been fine until recently. I dont know if its what I should do and if I am even ready for marriage at all considering I am 21 and still going to school. I dont know what to do. I am at the point where I dont feel like we "click". You know? ****, I dont know. I guess if I am not sure, then I really am because I need to be 100% that I am doing the right thing. In your case, its possible that it is related to how close it is to the wedding. It sounds like he should have told you why she moved out at the time, instead of you finding out 3 weeks after-the-fact. I hope you called him on that one. One important thing is to block out what other people think of you or how they judge. People will always judge withou having all the information. Considering your last sentence, as in the 'mounds", I am feeling the same way. All the little differences about my fiance, or the annoyances seem to turn into fights. I dont know if I am finally thinking clearly, or am just scared of the marriage thing, which I know, because of my maturity, am not completely ready for. I just dont know.....good luck with your situation. I will continue to respond if you do. Let me know how things work out. I am meant to be getting married in 2 weeks (from sunday), We have been arguig alot more in the last few months leading up to our marriage, Have other people experienced this before marriage... We hae been to couples councillig before xmas and everything was fine unti we got a border (trying to help out a friend) and she tried to hit on him... she moved out around 1.5 months ago but I din't actually find out the reason until 3 weeks ago.. and things have gone down hill from then. I know tha I love him with all my heart and hs daughter, we also have a 1 yr old son together... I am just feeling really confused.. hes not around much latley, I'm aways seeng to be the B%^$h and well yea I don't know... I am really paranoid about what peope think of me we are living apart for a few days (he is at his parnets with his daughter) to put some space beween us and to have a think and I am going nuts about what his parnets must think of me... I want to make this relationship work as I love him with all my heart, Any advice is welcome... Al these little dirt mounds are being turned into giganticmountains for no good reason and I can't stand feelig this way any more Please help us.... Link to post Share on other sites
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