aguynamedjoe Posted March 26, 2007 Share Posted March 26, 2007 I was wondering if someone could help me with a few problems i am having dealing with women. First off when i go to the bar or club i have the hardest time going up and talking to women because i feel like im intruding in their space and the only way i meet women is through friends like if i get introduced its happend a few times and we talked for hours but its that first part where you have to walk up and say something witty that i cannot do at all. Another thing that im horrible at is after that night talking to whoever it was i dont know when a good time to call her or if when i call her i should ask to go out again right away or what?? If anyone has any suggestions that would be amazing !!! Link to post Share on other sites
Fiona Posted March 26, 2007 Share Posted March 26, 2007 Forgive me, but are the women one finds in a bar, desirable? Link to post Share on other sites
What? Posted March 26, 2007 Share Posted March 26, 2007 Brother Joe, I am aggressively attacking the games. I hate 'em like nobody's business. If you meet a girl and are into her, call her whenever you like (I'd say 2 days if you really like her, but no set timeframe). If she feels the same way, she will respond. When you talk to her, get a feel of the convo and work it from there. I would also think to plan a repeat "chance encounter", meaning you'll be hanging out at such and such a bar next Saturday, maybe join up for a brew or what not. If that goes well, fire at will in asking for a date at any time. You'll definitely be able to guage how she feels that way, at least to a certain extent. Good luck, my friend! Link to post Share on other sites
Author aguynamedjoe Posted March 26, 2007 Author Share Posted March 26, 2007 Im not talking about dirty low quality bars, the main one i go to is called saddle ridge and its a country bar with line dancing and bull riding nothing like the typical bar scene people think of Link to post Share on other sites
konfuzd Posted March 31, 2007 Share Posted March 31, 2007 I think the biggest problem with the bar scene is that many guys think they have to have this flawless come on line that's just gonna sweep the girl off her feet. Let me tell you, we (the intellegent ones-which I assume you're looking for) see right through this, and it will end up having the opposite effect. Just go up to a girl, and say "hi, are you having a good night?" or something of that sort. If she's interested, she'll help carry on the conversation. If not, she'll give you a short one word answer and turn away. You have your answer, nothing gained, nothing lost, and move onto another. The truth is, you're in a bar, you know nothing about the personalities of the other patrons, so it is 100% based on looks. If she likes the way you look, you're in. There is no majical thing you can say to woo her in that atmosphere. Link to post Share on other sites
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