not sure where to put this...

[lilemiedp]

I'm not sure where to put this, so I am putting this here. I think I know the answer to my following inquiry, but I wanted to put it out on this board to see what everyone else's thoughts.

 

My ex texted me about a day ago with the following text message:

 

"Are you by chance on the pill?"

 

The next one asked how late I can stay out.

 

What does he mean by all this? I could really use some insight - this guy has been tricky to figure out in the past.

 

Thanks.

[LucreziaBorgia]

He wants to have sex with you and not get you pregnant.

[lilemiedp]

That's what I pretty much thought, too. Here's the kicker though: he's got a girlfriend. When I confronted him about why he asked me if I was on the pill or not, he said he was just "curious." Is he lying??

[LucreziaBorgia]

 

1. Here's the kicker though: he's got a girlfriend.

 

2. When I confronted him about why he asked me if I was on the pill or not, he said he was just "curious." Is he lying??

 

1. Even more of a reason not to get you pregnant.

 

2. No guy is "just curious" about whether a girl is on the pill unless he intends to sleep with her and make sure he doesn't get her pregnant.

 

You should tell the guy that he needs to get himself on the pill because for as far as you are concerned he can go f*ck himself. Then hang up on him. If he calls you again, tell him that your next call will be to his girlfriend.

 

Seriously, a guy will treat you only as bad as you let him. If you don't want this assclown degrading you by implying he wants to make you his booty call behind his girlfriend's back, then tell him to go F*CK OFF and leave you alone.

[shellys-trying]

this guy's a major loser.

If you know what's good for you, you'll tell him so.

Why lower yourself to his level when there's more guys out there, single guys!

[princessa]

Wtf that's so indelicate of him! Would you seriously give the time of a day to somebody who just asks you out for sex via a TEXT?! How lame.. he could at least have made the slightest effort to seduce you!

[Faith2]

When you get a mysterious question from him like that, simply reply with only four words: "Why do you ask?" and don't say anything else until he gives you a reasonable response. "Just curious" is not a reasonable response.

 

Don't drive yourself crazy by jumping to conclusions. Who knows - he might just be doing a "survey" of you in order to persuade his current girlfriend to go on the pill and stay out later.

[jmargel]

As a guy if I were to write that, I want to screw you. That and wondering if you are screwing someone else as well.

 

Stay away from him.

[lilemiedp]

Thanks for everyone's insight.

 

Everyone pretty much said what I was thinking, but its always good to get another opinion.

 

For some reason, I can't stop thinking about this situation. Which is awful, cause he doesn't deserve anything, not even a thought. I just feel like he should get his in some way. Like he shouldn't be able to get away with this, which is what is happening.

 

I feel so sorry for this girl he is dating. She has no idea he is lying and being so deceitful behind her back. It's not my place to tell her, but this girl is going to get hurt bad I am afraid. Unless she never figures it out. I just hate the fact that this guy got to hurt me so bad and is emotionally deceiving his girlfriend, by wanting to have sex with me and still thinking of me in that way.

 

Sorry for the small rant.