Guest Posted March 28, 2007 Share Posted March 28, 2007 My gf and I have been together almost a year.... (next week is our anniversary). However, we both got into a pretty bad argument 2 1/2 weeks ago. I broke it off and now I want her back... Unfortunately, she appears to have moved on with other things. She knows that I still love her and I want to be with her, but she's too caught up with the hollywood scenes now. I miss her so much.... i dunno.... I guess i'm just venting for now. After last seeing her, I tried to rekindle the relationship by recreating a romantic night. She thought it was sweet, but she still appears to change... I'm trying to show that i'm there for her, but it hurts... Link to post Share on other sites
waitingforlove Posted March 30, 2007 Share Posted March 30, 2007 The problem is that YOU were the one who broke it off. Maybe the reason you now want her back is exactly because she appears as though she doesn't care anymore. Don't say "it hurts" now, since you have hurt her as well, you know. So if you continue to focus on your hurt, you're not going to make her feel like you really love her and care about her feelings. I'm afraid you might have to apologize to her and tell her that you really didn't mean to break up with her, that you only did it hastily. I know you hate to look like a "wuss," but you have to decide whether you want to "save face" or whether you really want her. If you really want her, you might have to get out of your own way. Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
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