MikeDD86 Posted March 29, 2007 Share Posted March 29, 2007 I really am just fed up with all this crap. To be specific I mean the luck with just finding a nice girl out there to be with. I'll admit I have just hiked up my standards because before I would just do it with anyone and always wound up with the aftermath feelings from her side and plus I would always run into psycho's and I have a hard time telling a girl that I don't want a relationship with a psycho (that being the girl) but just reciently like about a couple weeks ago I have hiked up the standards. And now I have undercover psycho's I can't seem to get away and I don't understand cause I am told by people that I am attractive, and great personality that women would love. But mabey it's cause I only go to a community college and I can't really meet people as I would in a 4 year school. but I dont' know what to do any suggestions would be appreciated. thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
What? Posted March 29, 2007 Share Posted March 29, 2007 As a graduate from a 4 year school, that really doesn't matter. IMO, the proportions are about the same, less ladies at a community college, but less dudes there too. Your chances are just the same. In fact, I would think it would be easier to find ladies at a CC since the classes are smaller and you see the same people more often. It doesn't matter what other people think, it only matters how you regard yourself. There is nothing wrong with having expectations with ladies you want to see. As Dick Vermeil would say, "she needs to fit the profile." Do not settle for anything less than you know you deserve, and in my experience, you usually meet the girl that turns your world around when you least expect it. But not always, so always keep the radar scoping. Got a buddy out there that always says there's someone out there for everyone. I believe that true, you just gotta get a little lucky in timing. You've got a good attitude, so just keep being you and everything else will fall into place at some point. Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted March 29, 2007 Share Posted March 29, 2007 It's not because of the college. This is the way the world is. I have the same situation. Better get used to it. A lot of women are psycho..... I really am just fed up with all this crap. To be specific I mean the luck with just finding a nice girl out there to be with. I'll admit I have just hiked up my standards because before I would just do it with anyone and always wound up with the aftermath feelings from her side and plus I would always run into psycho's and I have a hard time telling a girl that I don't want a relationship with a psycho (that being the girl) but just reciently like about a couple weeks ago I have hiked up the standards. And now I have undercover psycho's I can't seem to get away and I don't understand cause I am told by people that I am attractive, and great personality that women would love. But mabey it's cause I only go to a community college and I can't really meet people as I would in a 4 year school. but I dont' know what to do any suggestions would be appreciated. thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
knaveman Posted April 4, 2007 Share Posted April 4, 2007 I wouldn't say the women are psycho, just different when you're sober. In my experience anyway. Good things come in time, be patient and don't give up. There is no time limit, no matter what your mother tells you, on when you need to find a woman. Take time and do it right the first time. Link to post Share on other sites
Hitman10000 Posted April 5, 2007 Share Posted April 5, 2007 Alright, let's not put all women are psycho. Most are crazy but not psychotic. And there's a good reason they are crazy, look at tv/magazines...oversexed models everywhere. Plus their bodies are completely different from men. Link to post Share on other sites
peace_pipe Posted April 5, 2007 Share Posted April 5, 2007 I really am just fed up with all this crap. To be specific I mean the luck with just finding a nice girl out there to be with. I'll admit I have just hiked up my standards because before I would just do it with anyone and always wound up with the aftermath feelings from her side and plus I would always run into psycho's and I have a hard time telling a girl that I don't want a relationship with a psycho (that being the girl) but just recently like about a couple weeks ago I have hiked up the standards. And now I have undercover psycho's I can't seem to get away and I don't understand cause I am told by people that I am attractive, and great personality that women would love. But mabey it's cause I only go to a community college and I can't really meet people as I would in a 4 year school. but I dont' know what to do any suggestions would be appreciated. thanks. Hey man... you're not alone. I consider myself to be a great guy but have been put through the ringer by women myself a few times. Heck, my last girlfriend told me "you're a great guy, smart, funny, attractive...." this was after she cheated. You can't let it get to you. For me, I can be the strongest person but when a woman does me wrong, it used to destroy me. I would lose my job, become depressed, etc if my girl cheated or did me wrong. It took years but now I realize life must go on and if you become depressed it will only keep you there. Many, many women are messed up psychologically. Not ALL, but many. Do not let the negative behavior of these women affect you in a negative way. Many have had messed up childhoods and many others are stuck in a fairy-tale dreamworld of perfection. You just have to say f* it. Don't take too many things women do or say personally. Keep forging ahead, keep asking women out. Say 'oh well" and drink another beer if you get turned down, then NEXT! This is what keeps me going, you have to play the odds. Dating is kind of like the lottery, you have to invest a lot before it becomes rewarding. Link to post Share on other sites
Author MikeDD86 Posted April 11, 2007 Author Share Posted April 11, 2007 "Dating is kind of like the lottery, you have to invest a lot before it becomes rewarding." lol I really liked that quote thats really true though and have never thought of it like that before because I would think why bother when ur just gonna get shot down but if you don't play then you never win anything sort of speak. but thanks everyone for the reply's!! Link to post Share on other sites
Zona76 Posted April 11, 2007 Share Posted April 11, 2007 What you say reminds me of a time in my teen years when I dated a guy simply because I was bored and between BF's. There was nothing wrong with the guy. I just didn't feel anything for him. I suppose I should have stayed home and not lead him on... Link to post Share on other sites
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