Issues

[Sheep]

I'm engaged to a guy who I love very much. We've only been engaged for about two weeks though and I'm not having second thoughts but I'm acting stupidly. I keep getting upset over the tiniest things, getting really self concious as if I'm going to let him down and he's going to realise I'm not as great as he thinks and change his mind. This is made worse when he says I'm not the cheery, happy-go-lucky girl I was a week ago. For the past two days I've been moody with him, sort of backing off and really blowing hot and cold and then last night I was happier untill he showed me photos of where we are going to live and every other one had his ex in it. One of them was of her completely naked which he says he didn't realise was still there. He tells me they're just good friends now and that it didn't work between them because thats all it ever was. I'd never been jealous before of exes but suddenly it's all hitting me. I know it's stupid because I love him and want to marry him but I can't seem to control it and I'm worried if I keep this up I'm going to ruin it. ... Sorry, just had to vent. xx

[Dadubwa]

You need to talk to him.

 

This guy obviously loves you, because he wants to MARRY you. Do you know how hard it is these days to have a good guy who wants to get married?

 

The ex thing...that's odd...that he had naked pictures, that he was showing you pictures of his ex's and 'where you're going to live, that's kinda strange to me. BUT maybe it was a true mistake.

 

Don't keep letting the bad thoughts of "there's someone better out there" haunt you. Everyone, and I mean EVERYONE has those feelings, we constently compare ourselves to others to make sense of who we are, and where we stand as human beings. It's only human nature. It's also in human nature to want to be loved....so let him keep loving you, don't push him away because you think he shouldn't.