am i in the wrong?

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a few weeks ago, me and one of my best mates, becky, were getting along absolutely fine, going shopping at weekends, having a laugh and generally doing what best mates do.

 

So just over a week ago, i get a txt from her after skl, saying that her and her business class were discussing me and my mate ben, and that she may have said that at her birthday meal she was seriously considering moving mine and bens table away from everyone elses cos we were being too 'pal-y'.

 

now, me and ben are really close friends, and he likes me more than a friend. now i like him more than a friend but i dont want to enter a relationship with him during final year exams and coursework. but people think were going out with each other, which were not.

 

Becky also txt ben to say that she was involved in a conversation about me and him, and that she hardly took part, and only said 2 words.

 

so already, she's lying to one of us.

 

another mate, greg, who was in her business class, and at the meal, said to ben that becky had said that i was 'taking ben for a ride', just cos he really likes me, and i still 'lead him on'.

 

im sorry but i value my friends, and i will treat them how they should be treated, he is soooo nice to me, so im really nice back. and apparently i cant do that cos im leading ben on.

 

so im annoyed at becky for a) lying to me, and b) blaming me for something that i dont do.

 

 

 

Now a few days later, she told me that her parents were going away for a week during easter, and that she didnt want to spend a week with her grandparents, so she was gona stay at home for the week. She asked if i was free on the friday and saturday of easter, and i said yes, so she said i was going to go round hers to keep her company. which is fair enough.

 

but then over the next week i realised just how much work i really had to do over easter, and how little time i had to do it. so i said to her, that i mite not be able to stay on saturday cos of my work, and she said that i can stay till saturday afternoon and then she'l drive me home. but i realised that i had to write up like 15 pages of notes on saturday, so i kinda needed the whole day. so she shouted out that she wasnt gona wake up early on saturday just to take me home. so i calmly said that maybe its easier if i didnt stay over.

 

she then started blaming me for the fact that she had to spend the next week with her family and g-parents, because she wasnt allowed to stay at home by herself for the whole week.

 

i said that she could invite other people over, and its her choice that she didnt want to spend the week with her g-parents, so its not my fault.

 

 

now we arent talking, and to be honest she's bitched behind my back, lied to me, blamed me for things that arent my fault or that i havent done, and she's being really selfish and self centred and now shes wondering why we arent talking.

 

am i in the wrong here?

i just wana know if im being too harsh to her.