How to approach as a friend?

[yongyong]

So I see this girl sometimes in starbucks studying with her friends

(thank god, I can say 'next time' if I fail to talk to her like today:( )

 

I think if I approach her to be her boy friend and if this girl doesn't like my appearance, the game will be over.

 

So I want to know her but don't want to give her that kind of sign.....

(she might be interested in having me as friend. If she doesn't want me even as friend:lmao: ......)

 

Should I take time to get to know her first (have some short conversation everytime I see her for a month) and then ask her out someday?

 

How about asking her myspace or msn (she will feel more comfortable than giving a phone number) after talking to her?

 

 

She usually study with girl friends which makes harder to approach.

Is there any tip to talk to group of girls?

I read I shouldn't pay attention to only this girl I like to create jealousy?

 

any comments would be appreciated!

[Island Girl]

So I see this girl sometimes in starbucks studying with her friends

(thank god, I can say 'next time' if I fail to talk to her like today:( )

 

I think if I approach her to be her boy friend and if this girl doesn't like my appearance, the game will be over.

 

So I want to know her but don't want to give her that kind of sign.....

(she might be interested in having me as friend. If she doesn't want me even as friend:lmao: ......)

 

Should I take time to get to know her first (have some short conversation everytime I see her for a month) and then ask her out someday?

 

How about asking her myspace or msn (she will feel more comfortable than giving a phone number) after talking to her?

 

 

She usually study with girl friends which makes harder to approach.

Is there any tip to talk to group of girls?

I read I shouldn't pay attention to only this girl I like to create jealousy?

 

any comments would be appreciated!

 

First you have to make up your mind if you want to date her or be her friend.

 

If you want to date her - don't worry about the approach so much as actually making an approach.

If she says "no" she says "no" and then you know not to waste any more time thinking about her and you can move on.

 

If you want to be friends with her then make the approach and just be friendly. Make small talk conversation with her and her other friends. Just go slowly and realize you may always be just that -- friends. Nothing more.

[yongyong]

I want to date her but I don't want to scare her away with direct comments like 'I am fall in love with you'

[Island Girl]

I want to date her but I don't want to scare her away with direct comments like 'I am fall in love with you'

 

Okay -- do not tell her you are in love with her. You aren't. You don't even know her.

 

Great that you find her attractive but don't put her up on a pedestal. She's just a girl.

 

If you want to date her, approach her for a date. If she says "no" you are on to the next girl.

 

It is never a way "in" to start off as friends. You already have an agenda and it won't work that way, trust me. You'll just be stuck being her friend and watching her date other men.

 

And you don't want that.