What is going on here??

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Sooo much is going on it's hard to tell.. Ok so it starts off with I work doing broadcasting and I have this girl outside the booth area who sits in a area so she can see me in the booth whenever she feels like it.. Now I had No clue at first that she was really looking at all.. so a few weeks pass and I see she has a myspace profile.. So I was ok OK and she adds me and what not we did not talk the first few nights but back at the studio she sat with her sister this time in an area about 30 Ft away from my window, and in the 2 hours I was working out of the corner of my eye I saw them look AT least 20 times... both sisters would look near about the same time or one would look then the other would look.. SO... I've always noticed the older sister before and I thought maybe she liked me and all.. So the younger sister saw the message I had put up and she was like "I know Im being nosy but who should you have had your eyes on sooner for???" and I said her sister.. and she said "For real my sister?????!!!!????"

 

well Not only 2 days later I found her older's sister's profile on facebook and I see she is already taken (more on that later) and Im like OK.. what the heck is going on here... So I ask the younger sister are you mad? and she is like No... Anyways we started talking I did save all the messages but most of them go like her younger sister was telling me she wants to do photography (Thats a side hobby I do) and first thing I thought about when I heard her say that was Are you serious she hardly looks the type... But I told her wow thats great and blah blah... Anyways I said you should model you would be great for that.. and she told me she is too overweight and I said no she is not.. Anyways I ask her when her birthday was and she asks me and I tell her what my birthday was and asked her if I looked my age and she said sometimes you do and sometimes you don't.

 

Anyways I asked her what she wanted for her birthday and she said a list of things that were pretty much high cost items So I said I will keep that in mind and she said no you don't have to get those they cost a lot...

 

Anyways since this was in the Month of Feb. I asked her what she was doing for valentine's day and asked her if her mother would be mad if I gave her a rose. She said she had a valentine already but it was just a friend, so I said maybe I don't have one because i'm not good enough?

And she says "don't think that it's bad for your health"

 

And after that last message (out of like 30 messages in a 36 hour period) she slacked off a lot in sending me long messages back now.. and Most messages I send her she reads but does not respond unless I really leave an open ended question.

 

I can't remember (might be the key) and I forgot to add this in but I can't remember the date it happened.. She went from watching me outside my booth to somehow working a long side me in the booth and because the glass is one way and reflective when looking out the windows I caught her looking at the side of my face for about 5 seconds or so a few times.. I was like OK that must mean something...

 

Ok so a few more days go by and I would leave her messages and what not... But then she came into the booth one day and it was just me and her and she is making these large sigh sounds and what not.. and I'm no mind reader but I could tell something was bothering her.. I did not ask in the booth but I did ask when I got home and I asked "Lauren what's wrong sweetheart?" and her reply was "Nothing why?" I told her she just seemed to have a lot on her mind..

 

Then On March 12th I noticed she was gone from her list and it still stands today she is not on my list she removed me from her friend's list and very little talks much back to me when I write her... when I asked why she removed me this is what she said... "I deleted more people then just u i just need my space and i don't want to get in trouble for having a myspace so thats why i did it"

 

Ok so I left her alone for a few weeks and started to ask her older sister a few questions...

 

Like Was her sister really into photography and she laughed and said "No"

 

 

But anyways I let a few more weeks go past without saying anything because it was her birthday so I hand her the birthday card I picked out myself and I gave it to her and I told her in her ear "I did not forget about your birthday" and she seemed shocked and when I left she waved me goodbye...

 

Now I come around and ask "does your sister like me or something?"

 

The older sister says "No" and I say "Ok" and the next thing I know Her younger sister is changing her name like every hour on myspace saying love related things which I can't remember at the moment...

 

I guess what really pissed me off was I never got a thank you for the birthday card but she coulc wave at me going out after I handed her the card...

 

Anyways I was pretty upset with that and did not really say anything nor focused her way when she was in the booth... Finally she tapped me on the shoulder because she needed help making a cd copy and she forgot what a DVD from a CD looked like (I think she was faking it here since we went over it 5 times)

 

Anyways a few more weeks went by until we had to go to Uconn to do a video tour and her sister goes to Uconn.. I made sure I stayed far away... On the bus ride to the school she sat across the seat from me and a seat back.. on the ride back she sat in the same seat... HOWEVER when coming back from using the restroom she moved a seat up so it was no longer across and one seat back but it was directly across from me, Now still being pissed off with the birthday card I did not speak or look her way..

 

Now before she did all that we had to ask each person what they thought of the trip.. she was trying to hide from the camera but as I moved forward to the next camera I kept the camera on record and she was caught.. Did not really say much and so later that night when I got home I asked "How can a person who wants to do photography be shy like that?"

 

And she tells me "i ment something totally different and im not shy"

 

Anyways I left her alone again for about 2 weeks and I ask her a question for what I thought I overheard... that she wanted to work a camera... I ask her that and she tells me this

 

"Mike i have just seen me and u couldn't ask me that?? and no im not i don't want to"

 

That message back was pretty much the first time she called me By my first name... which kinda shocked me...

 

anyways I send her a message back saying how hard she is to approach and she sends me a message back saying "why is it hard u are grown you should be able to"

 

I sent her a message back but she just looked at it but did not say anything back.. So I go back deep into my inbox and find the message from Feb from when she last stopped talking really and I ask her "So what happened after Feb 11th?" And she responds almost instant saying "What are you talking about?"

 

And thats where I'm stuck at today.. If you did not get lost in the shuffle above it's been VERY confusing for me to understand this all Because (I did not really know at the time) I do weddings on the side and The girl's mother was the coordinator of the wedding so she was asking my prices and whatnot.. and she was like wow thats really good! in the meanwhile both daughters are looking back and forth at me and the mother... about a year and a half later is when I finally saw what was happening...

 

What should I do now? I've been trying to get her to open up.. but I don't want her to be turned off... but right now what is annoying is IF say we are in the booth alone again she wont speak to me unless I speak to her first.. She no longer sighs now that im off her friend's list but she still wont open up unless I speak to her first... However the other person in the booth she will speak with.

 

I think a few people set this up to be honest because when I found out she would be coming into the booth I was asked "How did you know about that?" and given the fact was we said we needed some extra help in the booth but how did she just go from sitting outside to now becoming a part of the booth?

 

Also her mother a year later still makes sure she says Hi to me every day we run into each other since that wedding I did.

 

I can't say I have lost much sleep over this but It's really been on my mind to try and settle and figure this out!

 

 

Anyone have any tips, hints or maybe might know whats going on??

 

 

 

 

[FONT=verdana, arial, helvetica][sIZE=2]And to summarize it up a bit more this is what I feel is happening...

 

1)The Mother has the Ok and does not mind me dating the daughter...

2)The older sister is telling the younger one to play hard to get..

3)No doubt about it she has been interested... and still might be[/sIZE][/FONT]