geminni Posted April 3, 2007 Share Posted April 3, 2007 hi, everyone. i would really appriciate a little feedback regarding my current situation with this girl. so here is a story: i have known this girl for a few years now, we have known each other from our youth years, but didnt really hung out, we met each other like 3 years ago, again, and we clicked in a sec. were talking, went for a coffee. etc... but she had a BF at a moment so after she told me that and that it would not be fair to him to go out with me, i just stepped back, and let her do her thing. so here is the present situation: i approached her, cuz we have mutual friend, and we went out. was told that she was very happy with my proposal for a date, we went out, had a great time, laughted, drank, talked, bla bla bla.... we clicked as we did the first time. all went great. i wasnt pushy or anything just let the things go their natural way. ( gentleman so i send her sms a day later just kind of simple thank you for a nice evening bla bla. no reply.... i call her like 3 days later we talk for some time, in the same enjoyable and funny vibe. when we were talking she said she is kind of old fashioned as far as goes calling a boy, so i asked : this means i should call ya first? she: yup. ok no problem with that:) a few days go by, i try to call her, no answer. another day goes by,nothing. i called again a few days later , no reply. send a message: whats up, did aliend kidnapped you or something. nothing.... now i am feeling stupid, cuz i dont want to come out a pussy and call her every fu*** day, if she doesnt reply. she usually returned my missed calls, but nothing. now: shall i call again or just wait for her to call or what, cuz i got a feeling i will come out as a freakin stalker if i call too much. but godamnitm, couldn't she just say it directly in the first place, if she doesnt want anything. dont know. the most disturbing thing is that we really kicked it off, and i know , some will think maybe she was just actin. dont think so, cuz you can tell if some1 is acting, it would be obvious. any suggestion would be much appriciated. thanks yall Link to post Share on other sites
LucreziaBorgia Posted April 3, 2007 Share Posted April 3, 2007 Honestly, I would simply stop calling her and don't sit around waiting for her call either. While she isn't coming right out and saying it, she is sending a pretty clear message through her actions. Link to post Share on other sites
bridget_jones Posted April 3, 2007 Share Posted April 3, 2007 Maybe your foul language turned her off to you. Link to post Share on other sites
EC Posted April 3, 2007 Share Posted April 3, 2007 When a girl is interested she will pick up. If she's ignoring you..well you get the point. I would stop calling her for a while. Did she just break up with her bf? If so how long has it been? Link to post Share on other sites
Author geminni Posted April 3, 2007 Author Share Posted April 3, 2007 yeah, she broke up with him, like a year ago or so... Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted April 3, 2007 Share Posted April 3, 2007 I agree. Stop calling her. Let her make some effort. Link to post Share on other sites
Author geminni Posted April 4, 2007 Author Share Posted April 4, 2007 i agree, so that is what i 'll do... Link to post Share on other sites
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