(1)Be a slave to a rich man OR (2)Comfortable life with my equal.

[Girl.totally.lost.]

(3) Just because he is poorer doesnt mean he will be nice to you after marriage. And vice versa, just because he is flithy rich doesnt mean he will treat you like a slave.

 

Which should I marry? Opinions from married people plz.

[SydneyHeart]

I'm a bit lost by the question.

 

Which one do you love? Which one makes you laugh? Which would make a good father?

 

If everything is the same, I mean exactly the same and the ONLY difference was one was filthy rich and one was not, then go for the rich guy!

 

[Trialbyfire]

While money makes life easier, it also causes serious problems. Find someone you love and want to spend time with. The two of you can make your own money together, if you're motivated enough.

[Jane22067]

I think you have answered your own question. Other things the same, marry the rich guy.

[quankanne]

equal as in intellectually compatible, or equally broke?

 

frankly, I'd take the guy who makes me laugh and who, even after a couple of days of intense togetherness, doesn't get on my nerves because we "fit."

 

money is nice, but why waste your time trying to get someone else's when you can be independent and make your own? That way you don't have to share if you don't want!

[outofdarkness]

(3) Just because he is poorer doesnt mean he will be nice to you after marriage. And vice versa, just because he is flithy rich doesnt mean he will treat you like a slave.

 

Which should I marry? Opinions from married people plz.

I don't know exactly what your question is, but I would say that your life would be much happier if you were to marry the man that treats you w/ respect, kindness, love and compassion...Don't settle for less just b/c someone has money! This person could be intolerable...Money cannot buy happiness! I know that first hand. I would much rather be with a man who treats me well that doesn't have a fortune in the bank, then a man who is despicable and has millions!