BlueSoul Posted April 6, 2007 Share Posted April 6, 2007 Every time when we walk past each other in college (where there are less people around, or no one around) she kinda smiles at me. Does this mean that she's interested? We went to the same school, the same secondary school, and college. Link to post Share on other sites
Author BlueSoul Posted April 6, 2007 Author Share Posted April 6, 2007 I guess my question was a little vague. Let me clarify. Every time when I walk past this someone (who I used to have a crush on), she mostly smiles at me, and this happened like about 4 times (around about). It was quite specific, I mean, we did went to the same elementary school, junior high, and now college. So, does this mean that she's "interested"? What do you female members think? (I'm I being vague again?) Link to post Share on other sites
LN99 Posted April 6, 2007 Share Posted April 6, 2007 Maybe she is just smiling at you to acknowledge you. Have you ever talked to her? Maybe next time you pass her and she smiles, say hello and then smile back. Then gauge her reaction. The key is to get to knowing her better and make yourself known. Get into a conversation with her. Otherwise, from what you described, I think she's just being friendly and wouldn't read too much further into it until you get to know her better. Link to post Share on other sites
bridget_jones Posted April 6, 2007 Share Posted April 6, 2007 Why don't you try starting a conversation with her. You went to school together. Ask how she's doing, what is her major? I went to a large college and would run into people I went to high school with occasionally, but I didn't hang out with them at all in high school, but you still know who each other are, 'ya know what I mean? so I might acknowledge these people on campus, simply because we have the "hometown connection" if nothing else. But it can't hurt to start up a conversation. Why not? Maybe she does like you, maybe she doesn't know you well enough to determine that. Link to post Share on other sites
Author BlueSoul Posted April 7, 2007 Author Share Posted April 7, 2007 Yeah, I've been intended to do so, but frankly it's pretty rare for us to walk past each other. And maybe you're right that she smiles to acknowledge me. I have sort of talked to her though, just a simple "hi" or "you okay?" But obviously I know that's not enough effort. The thing is though I always have something in mind (my social life, college work, etc) and that I miss my chance to say hi to her first, or atleast a smile. I think I've completely thrown away the love, and proven myself that I'm a jerk. I have been attempting to do something to show my gratitude, and I did it by sending her an email. I didn't she she was proud of me knowing her email address telling by her expression and vocabulary. Link to post Share on other sites
Author BlueSoul Posted April 7, 2007 Author Share Posted April 7, 2007 Why don't you try starting a conversation with her. You went to school together. Ask how she's doing, what is her major? I went to a large college and would run into people I went to high school with occasionally, but I didn't hang out with them at all in high school, but you still know who each other are, 'ya know what I mean? so I might acknowledge these people on campus, simply because we have the "hometown connection" if nothing else. But it can't hurt to start up a conversation. Why not? Maybe she does like you, maybe she doesn't know you well enough to determine that. Okay I'll try Link to post Share on other sites
Author BlueSoul Posted April 8, 2007 Author Share Posted April 8, 2007 Okay I'll try But what if it's too late? And she now sees me as a complete jerk? Link to post Share on other sites
Author BlueSoul Posted April 10, 2007 Author Share Posted April 10, 2007 I guess I was kinda over reacting. Boy! I'm such a jerk! Link to post Share on other sites
RedneckRomeo Posted April 12, 2007 Share Posted April 12, 2007 If she smiles - she might be interested. But might just be smiling at everyone who looks at her to be nice. Hard to tell unless you talk to her and get to know her better. Strike up a conversation, and if the signs point to yes - ask her out. Link to post Share on other sites
Author BlueSoul Posted April 12, 2007 Author Share Posted April 12, 2007 If she smiles - she might be interested. But might just be smiling at everyone who looks at her to be nice. Hard to tell unless you talk to her and get to know her better. Strike up a conversation, and if the signs point to yes - ask her out. I kinda wondered before why she noticed me. In the last day of the 11th grade she specifically asked me to sign her year book, and the week before she asked me what college I was going to. I don't know why that happened to be honest, but it definately meant something. I'm wasn't against it, just something completely new to me . Link to post Share on other sites
Author BlueSoul Posted April 15, 2007 Author Share Posted April 15, 2007 What do you female members think? Whenever when you walk past a guy you like do you give them a smile? Man, I'm so confused! Link to post Share on other sites
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