Cheating on my part

[Draket]

I dated this girl for 2 years, and granted it had its ups and its downs. I fell in love with her, and I still have feelings for her. She broke up with me on thanksgiving, wasnt happy about that. To make things worse, she found a guy 2 weeks after she broke up with me. He was younger than her shes 21 and hes 18. Plus he had a pregnant gf, and left her for my ex. Well in my eyes and everyone of my friends eyes, he was a f*ck up. Well we stopped talking for 3 months and then I saw her at a party, and we got to talking and began talking more frequently. Fast forward to now, i slept with her, while she was dating him, just once, i know its bad. Well she broke up with him, and I really dont know what to do. I love her to death and would do anthing for this girl, but she slept with me, i knew what i was doing was bad as well. Now that we are dating, am to tell her that I dont trust her because of what we did? What am I supposed to do? Ive never been in this situation, and I am an extremely nice guy. I really dont have a clue. Thanks a lot.

[Enema]

I don't think you "should" trust her.

 

Why did she break up with you the first time?

 

Sounds like she's a typical young woman, always wants to know what's out there or what she's missing.

 

The chances of you having a solid, stable relationship are very slim until she has satisfied her curiosity.

[Draket]

Well she didnt give me a specific reason. She just wanted time apart. Now she says she sees me being a better more stable choice for her? Shes very confusing. She doesnt confide in a lot of people. Shes also attaches easily.

[kepners]

mate in all seriousness the fact is ur thinking about it, means u know ur heads right. but its the heart that leads in situations like this.

 

there are ways, by basically backing off from her and pulling her out in to the open and get her to say her feelings for you etc,

to me if you can tell her how you see the situation then do it. for me, i couldnt say anything like that at the moment to the one i want. but if she starts a conversation then say how you feel.

 

in all honestly the fact is ur not sure and u know she will hurt you again. i would say let her come to you. if she dont,then u know it wasnt ment to be. Ur head will be right. if u knew it was a goer, you wouldnt be here asking

K

[precious_jenny]

U know,u got to move on,i dnt really think u need to trust her,bcoz she already did cheat on u,& once they do,they always do it all over again.. I know i should not be a judgemental one,but its really hard to believe a cheater anymore.. U are a nice guy,and u do deserve a woman who deserves ur love..dont try to waste ur time with this woman who doesnt know what she wants?? Dont try to lose hope,everything has a reason for this,she may not be the woman for u..Dont worry,God preserve a better woman for you,just have faith that u will find the right person.. Although it really hurts but just keep believing.. Have trust in yourself,be strong..U dnt deserve to be like this,i swear.. So,dnt lose hope,u can find her..Everything happens in a ryt time..she will come..dnt try to waste ur life with a woman who doesnt sdeserve u at all..

[Javelin]

There's a very apparent pattern in her actions, but I could be wrong.

 

1) She breaks up with you for him.

- She could have cheated on you with him and then broke up with you to date him.

 

2) She's dating him and sleeps with you.

- Now she has sex with you while dating him, then breaks up with him for you because he's a stump.

 

Leave her alone if you value your well being.

[Bree]

she sounds very immature. I know you love her but perhaps its best to move on to someone who will treat you better. Good Luck