ack123 Posted April 10, 2007 Share Posted April 10, 2007 Back in Feb.I met a guy online,...who was funny,smart,...cute,..and quiet..in a good way..has a dry sense of humor......etc. We went out and hit it off,...right off the bat!!..This was refreshing to me, after I had been out of a long tern relationship and didnt think I would find someone I could be attracted to again..both emotionally and physically.... He told me after our 3rd date, he really liked me,...and gave the reasons why...We went some nice places over a few dates,. including places he went every week with his immediate family......[no kids]. .....had a great time.....and then he turned up the heat..to calling more.........''just to say hey'',.......and he called me ''sweetheart'' the last time I saw him...which sort of blew me away........ I was starting to fall for him,..although we werent exclusive,..I saw him posted on other online dating sites,...and wondered how he was jugling dates with me and others....Meanwhile, he stopped in the store I work[upscale dept store] where he shops regularly, to ask me for an after work ,..walk on the beach.......that day, i was tired,..after staying up late the nite before talking to my sis on the phone so I declined.... he said he understood,..and would call me the next day to set up something for friday night..he never called,..until later friday eve....saying he felt bad,. with allergies...and would touch base the next day..no call.... the following sunday,...he popped up with his mom,..at the store,..I was cool to him,...because I felt he had blown me off,..and I was very confused,.....I called later to explain my feelings and felt things were okay... we met for drinks,. the next nite,...and then he asked me out for the next night... Next day,.. no call....I couldnt beleive he was doing this again!! after I had just asked him to communicate clearly what was going on..by 5 pm I was p/oed but left a nice messege ..asking him to please let me know one way or the other about that night...6:30 he called, which by then was too late for me,....and I felt disrespectful of my time..I declined when he finally did call and he said okay,...well, ''lets just leave it at that'' meaning no more seeing each other...i was shocked!!! I didnt get to even explain my feelings,...before he abruptly cut things off..I dont any woman who wouldnt have reacted,..to this so I shot him an email,..stating I couldnt beleive how rude he was,..and couldnt understand why he did this again... he wrote me back,..saying it wasnt meant to be,..''it is what it is''...were his words...do you guys have any idea,..what this was about??? later he told a friend, he felt hurt and rejected,.....yet it was I who got rejected!!! please give me insight...thanks ack123 Link to post Share on other sites
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