GoDonnaGo Posted April 10, 2007 Share Posted April 10, 2007 I am a very independent person. I have a small group of friends and do enjoy going out every weekend, but for the most part I have always been content with my own company. I have had brief relationships but have never met a guy that I have really "wanted" to be with all the time. Anyway, I went out on Friday night and had a great night, ended up meeting this guy (who I knew through friends). We hung out together for a few hours and had a few pashes... Im rarely interested in someone straight away so this was a big thing for me! Well it was time to leave and he couldn’t find his house keys, so had to wait an hour for a locksmith. I said he could wait in my apartment (all the bars were closed, otherwise he would have had to wait on the street). So he came up to my apartment and we pashed some more and cuddled and it was really fun. Then the locksmith came and he left. Well he didn't even ask for my number! I gave him a couple of opportunities but he didn’t take them. I am really not upset about it or anything, but it is dissapointing. I guess I had gotten used to having no affection in my life and then after having such a great time with him I realised what I was missing. And god, it sucks! I wish we had never hooked up, then I would not know what I am missing. I don’t open up easily (had my heart smashed a few years ago) and I did kinda let him in, if only for a few hours, and then had the door slammed in my face. Am so peeved with myself for not sussing him out better before!! Whats worse, is that a few of his friends (who I work with) saw him leave with me and now Ive heard on the grapefine that we slept together, which of course we did not. I work in a law firm so this is really bad for my reputation. Dammit! Any suggestions on how to stop stressing about this situation?? I know its not a big deal but I usually have perfect control over my life and now I cant handle that things have not gone my way!! Link to post Share on other sites
what? Posted April 12, 2007 Share Posted April 12, 2007 I am a very independent person. I have a small group of friends and do enjoy going out every weekend, but for the most part I have always been content with my own company. Im rarely interested in someone straight away so this was a big thing for me! Well I don’t open up easily (had my heart smashed a few years ago) and I did kinda let him in, if only for a few hours, and then had the door slammed in my face. Am so peeved with myself for not sussing him out better before!! Any suggestions on how to stop stressing about this situation?? I know its not a big deal but I usually have perfect control over my life and now I cant handle that things have not gone my way!! Hey GoDonnaGo, I recently went through something just like this, complete with matching backgrounds and everything. I had my heart broken and went 5 years without dating anybody. Then I met someone at work that broke me rather easily and ended up liking a lot. We dated for a couple of months and then, bang just quit going out with me out of the blue and for no reason. Things were going great, or so I thought. It would be easy to fall deeper into the ways you were accustomed to until this happened. I thought I would too. But I realized that by me wanting this, I was finally ready to start dating again. I have been on more dates in the last month than I have in 7 years! I'm finally having a good time meeting new people and trying to find a partner, though I will never push for it, let things happen. Maybe this is just a sign you are ready to move on! Link to post Share on other sites
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