luvtoto Posted April 11, 2007 Share Posted April 11, 2007 Just got off the phone with my son's baseball coach. I wasn't impressed. Why do men feel the need to brag about all their money?? It was money this, and his money that. What he bought here, and what he bought there. His kids have this, his kids got that. His ex-wife and I bought so and so many thousands of dollars building our home. We bought this lot and that lot and.... When he asked me what I did for fun, I said, "spend time with my kids, decorate my house, hang out with friends." He replied that he goes to this city for a vacation, that city for a vacation. He goes boating, yachting. He's got golf memberships here, there and everywhere. Too many memberships to mention. He golfs all over the united states. His company just purchased a brand new car for him to drive around in all day at work. So, when we decided to hang up, he didn't mention a date this weekend and neither did I. No connection. Back to the drawing board. Link to post Share on other sites
Author luvtoto Posted April 11, 2007 Author Share Posted April 11, 2007 God, I hate dating. It's so stupid. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted April 11, 2007 Share Posted April 11, 2007 Why do men feel the need to brag about all their money?? cause apparently that's all he had to offer... Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted April 11, 2007 Share Posted April 11, 2007 Want some Dove Dark Chocolate.. I can pm you a piece if you would like Some guys never figure it out.. They think money impresses a woman up front.. I have always felt that money impresses a woman only if she figures out how much you have after she has started dating you and you have been exclusive for 6-12 months. I have been known to lie and tell a falsehood about money until I know the girl real well.. and even then until you marry me I'm never gonna tell you how much I really do have.. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted April 11, 2007 Share Posted April 11, 2007 cause apparently that's all he had to offer... Small penis.... Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted April 11, 2007 Share Posted April 11, 2007 I'm never gonna tell you how much I really do have.. Or don't have.. even debts should be kept a secret Link to post Share on other sites
Author luvtoto Posted April 11, 2007 Author Share Posted April 11, 2007 Thanks guys. I am heading to bed now...alone. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted April 11, 2007 Share Posted April 11, 2007 i think i'm falling in lub... LUVTOTO...come wid me to my castle in monaco Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted April 11, 2007 Share Posted April 11, 2007 I am heading to bed now...alone. Don't get all down about this.. the guy was a loser... You will find a guy... Be glad you didn't have a chance to laugh at his tampon dick Link to post Share on other sites
jerbear Posted April 11, 2007 Share Posted April 11, 2007 Be glad you didn't have a chance to laugh at his tampon dick :lmao: hey Luvtoto, at least you know now versus later! Sounds like your son's coach is capable of offering money and still has stuff stuck in with his ex. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted April 11, 2007 Share Posted April 11, 2007 and still has stuff stuck in with his ex. Yeah... Jerbear is right.. Link to post Share on other sites
2ndIINone Posted April 11, 2007 Share Posted April 11, 2007 sounds like he has EVERYTHING but confidence and selfsecurity. Guessing he'd rather try to impress with items rather then charm. Link to post Share on other sites
ratzskinakie Posted April 11, 2007 Share Posted April 11, 2007 There will always be guys like that, they grow up with the impression that they win love by showing off . He wishfully thinks you're thinking "wow, this guy is soo successful! and happy! and rich! and everything I want in a guy!". Maybe his ex-wife realized what a loser he was. Link to post Share on other sites
yongyong Posted April 11, 2007 Share Posted April 11, 2007 can baseball coach make that much? anyway didn't you say you fell in love with him? He still got wide chest though? LOL Link to post Share on other sites
Author luvtoto Posted April 11, 2007 Author Share Posted April 11, 2007 i think i'm falling in lub... LUVTOTO...come wid me to my castle in monaco What does 'wid' mean? Does it mean what I think it means?? Don't get all down about this.. the guy was a loser... You will find a guy... Be glad you didn't have a chance to laugh at his tampon dick I am over it already. Disappointed..yes. Down..no. I guess I'll have to choose from the other 45 emails I received on the dating site. :lmao: hey Luvtoto, at least you know now versus later! Sounds like your son's coach is capable of offering money and still has stuff stuck in with his ex. Thanks, jerbear. Yea, he seems one-dimensional. Yes, I think he's still stuck on his ex. I was prepared for that of course! He was married to her for 16 yrs. He started the conversation off with all the remodeling him and his wife did to their home..that they bought together...that they lived in for such a long time..that they landscaped..and tilled..and planted...and how the neighbors were so and so. I got so bored and annoyed, that I cut him off in mid-sentence and asked, "Geez, you two sounded soooo happy together, why did you two even get divorced?!" Then, I had to hear about all the marriage counseling they went too, and all their issues. He wasn't interested in getting to know me at all. It was obvious. She dumped him. So, in turn...he needed to build his ego with me by bragging about himself the rest of the conversation. I was like, "oh, really" and "oh, that sounds neat" and "oh, wow". sounds like he has EVERYTHING but confidence and selfsecurity. Guessing he'd rather try to impress with items rather then charm. Yes, I saw through that right out of the gate. However, he didn't seem that way in his emails. Weird.. There will always be guys like that, they grow up with the impression that they win love by showing off . He wishfully thinks you're thinking "wow, this guy is soo successful! and happy! and rich! and everything I want in a guy!". Maybe his ex-wife realized what a loser he was. Yea, he was definitely a show off!! I wouldn't call him a 'loser'. He is a great dad!!! Just not dating material. Link to post Share on other sites
IfWishesWereHorses Posted April 11, 2007 Share Posted April 11, 2007 I got so bored and annoyed, that I cut him off in mid-sentence and asked, "Geez, you two sounded soooo happy together, why did you two even get divorced?!" Then, I had to hear about all the marriage counseling they went too, and all their issues. You also learned what "not" to say! A very important lesson! Plenty of fish in the sea but that one didn't seem like a keeper! Link to post Share on other sites
2sunny Posted April 11, 2007 Share Posted April 11, 2007 at least he showed you his true colors (shallow, self centered and materialistic) early enough to want to get out before you got in too deep. better to know now than to realize this in one year. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted April 11, 2007 Share Posted April 11, 2007 What does 'wid' mean? Does it mean what I think it means?? it's short for "with" Link to post Share on other sites
Vera_Louise Posted April 11, 2007 Share Posted April 11, 2007 it's short for "with" That is clever! You save typing a whole letter! I'm going to use that now! Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted April 15, 2007 Share Posted April 15, 2007 I once talked to a guy on my phone who * wasted * about an hour of my time talking on and on about what he had ...blah blah...BORING...Soooooooo the next time he called I said : "Hey you aren't really my type but would you be interested in meeting my friend ? , " lol . He was like " Um I didn't impress you with my beachside home and cool cars ? " Um....nope you didn't " haha. Link to post Share on other sites
burning 4 revenge Posted April 15, 2007 Share Posted April 15, 2007 I once talked to a guy on my phone who * wasted * about an hour of my time talking on and on about what he had ...blah blah...BORING...Soooooooo the next time he called I said : "Hey you aren't really my type but would you be interested in meeting my friend ? , " lol . He was like " Um I didn't impress you with my beachside home and cool cars ? " Um....nope you didn't " haha.yeah, but you only like handsome guys and pretty boys Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted April 15, 2007 Share Posted April 15, 2007 yeah, but you only like handsome guys and pretty boys yeaaaaaaaaaaa Link to post Share on other sites
Pink Amulet Posted April 15, 2007 Share Posted April 15, 2007 And "handsome guys and pretty boys" usually come with more baggage than cash. Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted April 15, 2007 Share Posted April 15, 2007 And "handsome guys and pretty boys" usually come with more baggage than cash. yeaaaa poor cute guys I've dated my share....wonder if there is a happy medium of a handsome man who has a decent steady job ? lol Link to post Share on other sites
Pink Amulet Posted April 15, 2007 Share Posted April 15, 2007 They are usually snapped up pretty quickly *sharpens claws* Link to post Share on other sites
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