alphamale Posted April 15, 2007 Share Posted April 15, 2007 And "handsome guys and pretty boys" usually come with more baggage than cash. brains are over-rated anyways... Link to post Share on other sites
2sunny Posted April 15, 2007 Share Posted April 15, 2007 maybe we should all be going for the ugliest - but nicest men around!!! hmmmmmm Link to post Share on other sites
Author luvtoto Posted April 15, 2007 Author Share Posted April 15, 2007 maybe we should all be going for the ugliest - but nicest men around!!! hmmmmmm That is kinda what I do. It they are too good lookin' I won't even initiate contact. Especially with online dating. My son's baseball coach turned out to have lots and lots of issues. Before I went out on a date with him, I asked a girlfriend about him. I was shocked and appalled...and a little pissed at him. He was extremely dishonest with me. Let's just say that he was definitely covering up his past by trying to make himself look good to me, with all the money talk. I now see too much "money" talk early on, as a red flag. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted April 15, 2007 Share Posted April 15, 2007 I now see too much "money" talk early on, as a red flag. I went on a few dates where women did this also. They were professionals and going on and on about how they shop at Nordstroms and wear designer clothes and eat at only the best restaurants and go on vacation to the Virgin Islands..blah blah. Hoo hum! Boring.... Link to post Share on other sites
Author luvtoto Posted April 15, 2007 Author Share Posted April 15, 2007 I went on a few dates where women did this also. They were professionals and going on and on about how they shop at Nordstroms and wear designer clothes and eat at only the best restaurants and go on vacation to the Virgin Islands..blah blah. Hoo hum! Boring.... Yea, tell me about it! This guy was bad news! Handsome as a mother****! But, bad news. I told him when I first started talking to him, to just be honest with me. Lies always surface eventually. Which they did. My skin just crawls when I think about how close I was to spending time with him in person. Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted April 15, 2007 Share Posted April 15, 2007 I think the money hides a mask of failure beneath it. Sure they have the bucks ( daddy gave it to them , or they actually earned it ) but what else do they have going on for them ? Nothing usually. You can't have deep talks with them because they are mostly superficial and expect that you are too. Most chicks that dig the money , well thats exactly what he's going to get . A money digging superficial airhead goldigger. He said to me " God the girls over here are so plastic and I just want to meet a real girl who does not act like high maintenace " then he spent the rest of the time in excruciating detail about all that he has ......can someone get me sock to stuff in his mouth ? Link to post Share on other sites
David Lewis Posted April 16, 2007 Share Posted April 16, 2007 That actually can be a good thing because you know quickly, conclusively, and with little effort that the person is shallow, vain and insecure. When people conceal their liabilities, things get a little trickier. Link to post Share on other sites
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