Summer Rain Posted April 12, 2007 Share Posted April 12, 2007 So I've been single for almost 2 years...and for the first year, I enjoyed being single! And well, then I started dating. Initially, the guys seemed okay but turned out a lot of them weren't what I expected. That's okay, I moved on anyways. And so my cousin calls me up and says she has this guy for me. We txt and msg each other daily for like 3 weeks, I leave for a week and a half due to work related reasons, and then I msg him right when I get back...he responds. I eventually meet him a week later at my cousins house even though we hadn't msged or txt'd in a few days...and he seemed nice and genuine. He even seemed interested in me. Well, I left and went back home. I txt'd him that night, told him that I was glad I had met him and that perhaps we should get together again soon. He responded by just saying that it was nice to have met me as well....I talk to him a couple nights later. I try and msg him a few times after that, and I got no response. At all. My cousins' husband said he interested in me but has work and home related issues to deal with. Whatever. So, I thought that I'd e-mail him and tell him that I was interested in seeing him and if he was interested in doing something sometime, let me know...but I was going to wait a little bit because I always think that if I do that too soon he's going to think I'm a little crazy or something...but yet, if I don't do it, he might think I wasn't interested...so I have no idea what his deal is...whether he is actually having issues to deal with or what....how should I go about this??? Link to post Share on other sites
Fun2BMe Posted April 13, 2007 Share Posted April 13, 2007 I hate to say it but I have a feeling he's not interested in you. If he was he'd ask you out or make plans for it in the future. He'd give you a sign of his interest instead of you chasing him. I'd let it go and see if he eventually comes back to you instead of setting yourself up to be rejected. Link to post Share on other sites
melodymatters Posted April 13, 2007 Share Posted April 13, 2007 Sorry, but I second that opinion. If a guy is interested, he lets you know, he doesn't worry about this issue or that, not in the begining. If he texted and responded regularly before you met him, and less after, unfortunatley there's your answer. it should be the other way around. let this fish go, there's plenty more.... good luck girl Link to post Share on other sites
Author Summer Rain Posted April 13, 2007 Author Share Posted April 13, 2007 Thanks FunTOBMe and melodymatters. I think I already knew the answer, but sometimes it's better when someone else tells you and is honest about it. I appreciate it the input! Link to post Share on other sites
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