tui1987 Posted April 13, 2007 Share Posted April 13, 2007 please comment... Right i'm a gay guy who split from his bf about 3 months ago now.. we're still friends, gone over old ground a dozen and one times and he said to me we'd never get back together and nothing would ever happen between us...he's now back with his ex today however he came to see me for a bit (as he usually does) and we talked for a bit about random stuff...then he came out and said to me that when we split up he nearly phoned me and asked me to come back to his hosue and move in...and he told me that he's still attracted to me and when we go away with our friends (we have the same friends and we go away together a lot) he finds it hard to sharing with me because he doesn't know what will happen...then we had sex...and he kept telling me he wants me he wants me... i feel awful for what happened, because 1) he's with his ex although i know he's gonna break up with him soon and 2) i just didn't want this to happen even though i'd love to get back with him...i'm just a tad confused...we've spoken so many times before about us and he's never mentioned any of this...and now i just feel like my heads been played with and he just wanted a quick you know what... comments please...kinda going a bit crazy here.. Link to post Share on other sites
loveratud Posted April 13, 2007 Share Posted April 13, 2007 Probably just using you for sex. "I almost called you back and asked you to move in" is a far cry from actually having done it. He made a decision then. Then he played your emotions to his advantage (sex.) My advice as a former homosexual: Don't get emotionally involved in your relationships. Then you have to deal with all the "men are pig" factors that women always talk about. Just enjoy the lifestyle for what it is: fun, without getting too serious. Link to post Share on other sites
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