Frustrated AND

[Antonio7983]

Hi guys im new to this very nice site by the way . My situation has been very long and well im 23yrs old my girlfriend is 19 going on 20. Anyways I met this girl 2 years ago she had barely turned 18 when i met her so anyways We were cool before I had been her 1st bf ever and well it was something new for her but at the same time didnt want to fall in love with the 1st guy she ever hooked up .

 

Anyways I was dating her she was a really nice girl innocent and well just good manners very nice girl and very sexy. well anyways the problem started when her cousins started making parties and playing spin the bottle i know its too gay to be playing that but whatever , anyways i found out she kissed 2 guys the same night, and well i was just so pissed off so i dropped her i wasnt going to let that bring me down so i dumped her.

 

Anyways she would always call and call beggin me to go back with her that it was just a game and she didnt do it with that intent of hurting me well i said no f off for reals u want to be a lil slut go for it and i was just a big d to her all the time. Anyways after that i guess i forgave her but i wasnt her bf just her friend. After a while she would cry because id tell her how pretty she was and that she would be fine without me.

 

Well that happened then i started missing her and i really loved her. By that time i would tell her to leave me alone she met this one guy way older like 28 yr old and well i dont know what was her deal but from what she told me she was trying to forget about me but she never could cause she came back crawling and i forgave her ,

 

Anyways ever since then she promised me cryin that she didnt want me to give up on her and please that she wasnt going to be the same that she just didnt know what she wanted with me but she realized she really loves me and all that and that she wants me to be her man in her life well i must admit it she has made that promise and im happy with her but the current situation is, her dad kicked her out of her house for always going out with me and partying and she decided to go live with her mom theyre separated so she went over and her mom kicked her out too

 

I dont know why really i guess they dont really love her , so they gave her to me like go live with her , well im studying and going to school so i want to finish my career so i could give her a better life, i told her talk to ure dad ill go with u to see if he gives u another chance well the dad spoke to her and told her under one condition and that was to leave me.

 

Her mom and dad said i was a loser a nobody that i couldnt even support her daughter and that im not good for her , i have to see her without her parents knowing its just really frustrating but i tell this girl just get somebody else but she wont give up on me. i dont know why maybe cause i was the 1st to ever take her virginity away or whats up ? she loves me so much? anyways i dont know what to do i really want to see her like before and spend more time with her , should i go speak to the dad when he hates me or what?

 

i mean i might marry this girl . What can i tell the dad forgive me for not moving out with your daughter or what should i say ? Also for my last situation she got this new job with her step mom , they clean out the rooms of marines and that just pisses me off im so jeaolous about that , u guys know how marines are, she tells me to trust her and that shes not like before , that she doesnt like it when i get pissed off, but i dont know man i mean should i really trust her ?

 

or u think since shes not seeing me a lot she can give herself a chance to meet other guys? she begs me for me to understand that im the only man in her life and that she coudlnt imagine her life without me that she wants me to be the father of her kids and stuff but man its hard when i dont see her a lot and i cant talk to her on the phone either she has to hide and call me so her dad wont hear her.

 

Last nite we talked and she seemed distant i told her whats up with that and said im sorry baby im just so tired i get so tired at work but forgive me please i really love you and dont want you to think anything bad , at my job im always thinking about you please trust me please. From what i know in her job marines cant talk to girls or girls with guys cause they get fired but i dont know man what should i do ?

 

am i overreacting guys or whats up ? am i wrong of telling her to quit that job ? she doesnt know lots of english shes u.s citizen but lived in mexico before that and tells me i feel comfortable here because i dont have to talk to nobody and i do my job fast . so whats up guys my question is should i trust her? even though she cheated on me in the past? i mean i love this girl and she loves me so should i just learn to trust her again ? and about her dad too what should i do about that?