Can I do this?

[Maria33]

I ran into this guy who I knew a LONG time ago. We were both married at the time but we were friends and kind of flirted with each other. We've ran into each other several times over the years but I was married. I ran into him last week and we are both single. He seemed glad to see me and I felt the same way. We talked several times over the week and it was very comfortable. Anyway, he told me each time he was glad to run into me again. Now, we won't be running into each other there anymore. I know what his address is from the internet and I want to just send him a note. One that just says it was fun talking to you and I'm glad we ran into each other. Here's my number if you want to talk sometime. Would he be flattered that I did this? Or would he think I was some kind of stalker? I really wanted to bring it up when we talked but was way to shy to do it. He seemed interested because he kept seeking me out to talk to me. Help?

[kepners]

if u like him go for it, i mean when he said it was good we met, did you just say... Yeah... ahahah

listen my only advise is flirt in the email a little, and keep the convo up and give him ur number to call or text... u know how to do. u could loose out, and u dont want that.

[alextop30]

I say he would like it -- but if I were you I would play around with him

 

 

Front page write what you want on there and instead of your number put 1-888-not gonnahappen as the phone number. Write with big letters turn the page. than on the back of the note put your real phone number. That could nice.

[Maria33]

Thanks for the encouragement guys. I never really am sure what or how far to go with things. On one hand you read that guys like when the girl takes the initiative then on the other, let the guy do the leading. I bought a funny card that should make him laugh. I'm going to put a short note in there with my phone number. Hopefully he'll think it's cute and not think I'm a psycho! I just feel that I have nothing to lose at this point, I may never see him again anyway.

[kepners]

i fine line is this darling, you give him the sign your interested IE ur phone number things. then you wait for him to COME AND GET YOU!

you dont chase him!

 

thats the difference, if you tell him to me up etc etc thats the nono! but if you say, heres my number call me up sometime i would really look forward to it. OR however you say it best.

K

[kdark]

Thanks for the encouragement guys. I never really am sure what or how far to go with things. On one hand you read that guys like when the girl takes the initiative then on the other, let the guy do the leading. I bought a funny card that should make him laugh. I'm going to put a short note in there with my phone number. Hopefully he'll think it's cute and not think I'm a psycho! I just feel that I have nothing to lose at this point, I may never see him again anyway.

There is no bigger compliment, and no better feeling than when a girl shows that she enjoys my company.