anastacia Posted April 15, 2007 Share Posted April 15, 2007 He told me this to my face. In fact, my boyfriend is throwing me a birthday party at his house, and my brother refuses to go because he doesn't want to be around my boyfriend. The thing is, we are in a long-term relationship, and I invite him to all our family gatherings anyway! Any advice? My boyfriend is opinionated and my brother takes everything so personally! I don't know what to do. I have already pleaded with the brother a couple times to give the boyfriend another chance, but he has come to a firm decision that he hates him. Link to post Share on other sites
Green Posted April 15, 2007 Share Posted April 15, 2007 your brothers probably afraid he's not going to be able to have his way with you sexualy... Or maybe you shouldnt care what your brother thinks, he'll come around eventualy if this relationship lasts.. Link to post Share on other sites
ddnnee Posted April 15, 2007 Share Posted April 15, 2007 oooh, incest. i agree. if your brother doesn't have his way with you sexually, he will hate you and your boyfriend. perhaps what KMT meant was to allow your brother sexual access to you so that he will be happy. Link to post Share on other sites
Citizen Erased Posted April 15, 2007 Share Posted April 15, 2007 Ignore the other two Honestly, If I was you I would inform your brother that he has no right to interfere in your relationships, and any negative thoughts can be kept to himself. You have every right to choose whoever you want as your boyfriend, and he has a right to common courtesy from your family. Link to post Share on other sites
kepners Posted April 15, 2007 Share Posted April 15, 2007 KMT - i gotta say youhave a way with ur posts! HAHA - You made me laugh because you always read between the line. HAHA. superb. anyways, ur brothers interested is purely BF taking you away from him. There could be other chords to - along the lines of : he can tell a bull****ter or the threatend by the other male prescense or another reason that he really does not like him! anyways, if u wanna get down and busy with your brother - then thats the answer! but if you both dont - then its all probably about him being scared of loosing you... one thing is for sure, this isnt going to go away EVER. and do not force them to sort it out! they will in there own time either have a fight and sort it (which you will of course take the moral HIGH GROUND) or the boyfriend does something for the brother to think oh he's not all that bad... either way dont force them. its a MAN thing. if ur brother becomes gobby to you, then you tell him flat out; i dont care if you dont like him but i do and your making me sad. If ur brother is already at the stage of doing it infront of the boyfriend then a few things... your brother wants to have a fight with him; if thats the case, when he says something you instantly take him asside and say what i said above, but in a more firm manner. However... i am SURE ur boyffriend isnt worried one bit about it. because its something all use bloke learn about brother when you date there sister... you know they aint going to like you! thats the story. if your boyfriend is making a big deal about it. u got to ask yourself is he man enough for you, to be fretting about your brother! serious! Link to post Share on other sites
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