Guest Posted April 15, 2007 Share Posted April 15, 2007 Okay, Im a Junior in high school and i have pretty much lost all respect for all wemon. The way i was raised youre supposed to be very respectful to girls, im not gay i no that for sure but for some reason i dont like girls at all any more. im sick of always tryin to treat them right and have a relationship with them and then they turn around and sleep with everyone. i just feel like there all sluts cause all they do is sleep with everyone and flirt with everone, how am i supposed to respect some one who doesnt respect themselves. its to the point were i hate all of them and wont say one word to them. ive kinda lost respect for all my friends too cause they sleep with all those sluts, and wut ever happend to bros befor hoes, my friends always leave whatever were doin or whatever we planned to go with them. any comments on what i should do? or what you think Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted April 17, 2007 Share Posted April 17, 2007 Okay, Im a Junior in high school and i have pretty much lost all respect for all wemon. The way i was raised youre supposed to be very respectful to girls, im not gay i no that for sure but for some reason i dont like girls at all any more. im sick of always tryin to treat them right and have a relationship with them and then they turn around and sleep with everyone. i just feel like there all sluts cause all they do is sleep with everyone and flirt with everone, how am i supposed to respect some one who doesnt respect themselves. its to the point were i hate all of them and wont say one word to them. ive kinda lost respect for all my friends too cause they sleep with all those sluts, and wut ever happend to bros befor hoes, my friends always leave whatever were doin or whatever we planned to go with them. any comments on what i should do? or what you think Sounds like you're a decent guy who's having trouble dealing with the fact that your friends (and gfs?) don't have quite the same standards as you do. I know it can be a difficult thing but maybe you need to find a different crowd of people to hang out with. Try meeting new people, the ones you normaly wouldn't get to know. Look for people that show some self-respect. Link to post Share on other sites
kdark Posted April 18, 2007 Share Posted April 18, 2007 I think it's a combination of the friends you hang out with, who don't seem to have the loyalty towards you that good friends should, and the type of women that you are shooting for. If a girl ever, EVER slept around on me, ESPECIALLY with my friends, I would never talk to her again, and I would never talk to my friend again, after I beat the **** out of him. Girls, and friends, who would do those kinds of things aren't worth giving the time of the day to. I'm in the same boat as you though... I'm bitter at all women, but for different reasons... Link to post Share on other sites
2ndIINone Posted April 18, 2007 Share Posted April 18, 2007 i just feel like there all sluts cause all they do is sleep with everyone and flirt with everone, You can blame Mtv for that mess.... it's a Mtv generation 25 and under.... and wut ever happend to bros befor hoes Hey, watch it.... IMUS just lost his job for using that word.... Link to post Share on other sites
Dirk Posted April 18, 2007 Share Posted April 18, 2007 It makes allot of sense the things you say and to give a better idea i am 21 years old. I don't work i still go to school. But i always feel somekind of pressure when talking to girls. It's like i am mentally retarded or something. Sometimes i impress myself to be able to talk to girls of my class whitout feeling any pressure. But when they are totally strange to me and beautifull, that when it becomes a deadly combination. I have got one bad experience with women. There was this girl i liked i waited 6 years for her and i finally got the courage to say i liked her. Then she said' i think we should be friends' you're such a good friend and i really don't wanna lose you. You know, i didn't believe a single word she said. After that i think, i lost the courage to ask any girl. I was very young at that time and buh it hurts. Opening up to someone and than telling you, no. Also every beautifull girl i have seen, are sorry for my use of words 'bitchy'. Know i don't know how to react or talk to these beautifull girls that i have never seen or met before. Any suggestions? Link to post Share on other sites
Dirk Posted April 18, 2007 Share Posted April 18, 2007 i asked a question in the wrong place, srr my fault Link to post Share on other sites
Jackieblue Posted April 18, 2007 Share Posted April 18, 2007 [COLOR=white] [COLOR=#000000] Hi I know what you’re going through; I went through the same things with men. I get so sick of men rejecting me. Ever Since High School. Every time I really like a guy I always get turned down by them. The last crush was on a guy from Long Beach, he’s my best friend’s brother and even that didn’t work out. After that I gave up. I realized I did something to scare them like pushing them too hard without realizing it. The best thing to do is wait. It may take time but I’m sure you’ll find a girl that treats you right. In the meantime find something to do with yourself. You're so young there's plenty of time for you to have a relationship. In time you’ll meet the right women. I’ve found someone already it took a long while but I’m dating him right now and I’m sure he likes me. Don’t let these women you’ve been with get you down. Like you said most of them are sluts but not all of them. There are some good women out there just wait and they’ll come to you.[/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3] [/sIZE][/FONT][/COLOR] Don’t let these women you’ve been with get you down. Like you said most of them are sluts but not all of them. There are some good women out there just wait and they’ll come to you. [COLOR=white][FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3] [/sIZE][/FONT][/COLOR] things with men. I get so sick of men rejecting me. Ever H[COLOR=white]ough the same things with men. I get so sick of men rejecting me. Ever Since High School. Every time I really like a guy I always get turned down by them. The last crush was on a guy from Long Beach, he’s my best friend’s brother and even that didn’t work out. After that I gave up. I realized I did something to scare them like pushing them too hard without realizing it. The best thing to do is wait. It may take time but I’m sure you’ll find a girl that treats you right. In the meantime find something to do with yourself. In time you’ll meet the right women. I’ve found someone already it took a long while but I’m dating him right now and I’m sure he likes me. [COLOR=black] [/COLOR][/COLOR] Since High [/COLOR] Link to post Share on other sites
JCD Posted April 22, 2007 Share Posted April 22, 2007 For every girl with a substance there are million of shallow, boring and bitchy girls. Keep on trying and eventually you'll find her. Meanwhile, stay good and don't follow the herd mentality. You can only be strong if you make your own road. Link to post Share on other sites
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