Bflem55 Posted December 30, 2002 Share Posted December 30, 2002 hello everybody i have a few questions that i really need answered here they are. I met this girl about 2 weeks ago and she is just the most wonderful person i have ever met in my life she is soo much i just cant get her out of my head. I asked her if she thought about ever having a relationship and she said well i dont know because of school so lets just keep it like it is for now. Her college is about a hour and 30 min. from my house. Now im so attached that i can just sit and cry thinking about her and what i need to do or what i should of done. We spent friday and sat. night together until about 4 in the morning but she is going up to campus with one of her friends to another freinds place. So basically i cant even spend new years with her what should i do?? im so emotional right now i dont know if i can take this anymore ive never ever met anyone like this before thank you Link to post Share on other sites
Debster Posted December 30, 2002 Share Posted December 30, 2002 You will scare this woman off. You have only met her two weeks ago! She has told you that she doesn't know about a relationship - believe what she tells you. Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted December 30, 2002 Share Posted December 30, 2002 Congratulations on meeting such a wonderful lady. If you don't get yourself together real quick, she will become totally disinterested. Ladies like guys who are very cool, calm and confident. Just lay back and call her once in a while. See her when you can but don't give her a lot of lines about how you just have to see her more and how you miss her and all that crap. It will turn her totally off. Go on with your life and let her be in it when she can. You probably screwed up a good thing by asking her about relationships two weeks after you met her. Most women worth having don't even want to go there for a while...especially ladies in college. A decent woman would barf at a guy who asked her to be in a relationship that soon. Now, if you just wanted to get into an academic conversation about relationships in general, that's different. But her response indicates she clearly thought you were asking her to be in a relationship with you and that was not a smart move for you to make only two weeks into knowing her. Talk to some close friends who have been successful with relationships and ask them how they did it. Learn some good techniques for meeting a dating women. Learn to be cool and take your time. If you don't want to talk to friends about this, get some good books on the subject. You've got to learn a lot more about women before you start getting involved with them. Link to post Share on other sites
pinkroses Posted January 17, 2003 Share Posted January 17, 2003 Like Debster said, you need to calm down a little and get ahold of yourself. It sounds like you're in the early stages of intense infatuation with this girl. Try to get to know her, but don't throw too many hopes and expectations at her feet at this point. Link to post Share on other sites
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