LucreziaBorgia Posted April 20, 2007 Share Posted April 20, 2007 There is absolutely nothing 'constructive' one can tell you that doesn't include dumping this girl on her ass. If you stay with her, you will need to accept that she will never be faithful to you. Link to post Share on other sites
bendit Posted April 23, 2007 Share Posted April 23, 2007 she has no sexual boundaries. is this what you want? a woman as a GF that you don't know who she is doing next? Those women are fine for a one nighter, provided you use ample protection, but they are Terrible GFs. The absolute worst. If you don't think you deserve a better GF, then you should fill up a personal journal with your innermost thoughts until you understand why you don't. regards Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted April 23, 2007 Share Posted April 23, 2007 When people are searching for their sexual identity, they should have some respect for others and do this on their own. To begin and continue this process while in a relationship, smacks of incredible selfishness. Unbelievable, you owe this girl nothing. While you may still love her, she's not considering you at all in her search for herself. Save yourself more years of heartache down the road. Let her seek herself...by herself. The sooner you break free, the sooner you can find a more healthy partner to have a give and take relationship with. Link to post Share on other sites
Dragonfly Goddess Posted April 25, 2007 Share Posted April 25, 2007 Personally people cheat cause it is a problem with their own insecurities and fear of growing old or not being as thin or sexy as the next.......The biggest complement to a woman bi sexual or straight is if another woman finds her smart ,sexy and attractive as woman by nature are territorial and we are not always nice to each other but mean or nice we are honest and i suppose we bond with woman much in the same way we bond with abusive and wrong types of men.it brings out the animal instinct the thrill and adventure of not knowing when, where ect ect ect however in some cases with some woman and men it goes to extreme.i read once that woman are like apples and sometimes men pick the ones from the ground or lower branches for fear of reaching for the ones higher and falling, it's not that the apples higher up are not as good or beautiful or delicious it is merely the mans own insecurities to reach for something he thinks too good to be true.Look out for number one is all i can say and be true to yourself that way if it ends you still know who u are.ask yourself this do you think you can put this behind u and never speak of it again?do you trust her? or are you afraid of being alone? if you anser no to any of them just get out while you still can, chances are if she cheating and lying and brings you home a disease could u live with herpes or perhaps aids?Why risk your health on someone that has no respect for themselves or you apparently. Link to post Share on other sites
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