When Does It Get Better?

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Now Has To Be One Of The Hardest Times In My Life Ever. I Am A 26 Yr. Old F. In The Last 5 Months I've Lost Two People I Truly Cared For. One My Ex-bf Now Filled W/ Broken Promises, The Other Someone I Truly Loved But Really Didn't Belong To Me. On Top Of It All I Am 7 Months Pregnant W. Twins, And Left To Raise Them On My Own. I Recently Had To Move Back In W/ My Family Based On The Fact I Couldn't Get By On My Own.

 

I've Been On My Own Since I Was 17 And Am Having A Hard Time Having To Depend On Someone Else For A Change.

 

My Friends And Family Have Been Great Constantly Assuring Me Things Will Get Better, As Long As You Have Family By Ur Side. It Helps, But I Must Admit I Am Scared Of Rasing My Children On My Own. Family & Friends Can Keep U Strong, But I Just Think It Will Not Fill That Void Of Having Someone True To Your Heart.

 

Just Some Words Of Encouragement Would Help. I Do Know My Worth, But Right Now I Am Second Guessing Myself. Wondering How I Got To This Place So Fast When I Thought Things Were Going Well.

I'm Just Tired Of Baeng Left Alone To Weather The Storms Of Life.

[Guest]

I'm Just Tired Of Baeng Left Alone To Weather The Storms Of Life.

 

I know how you feel, im only 16 and i been by myself all my life(my mom got rid of me when she had me at 16) and ive just learned not to love or like any one and only look out for me, sellin dro to make money cause were i live dont anyone give you nothin you nothin, if you want somethin you go out and get it, but its different for you cause you have family that have been suportive and been with you. Dont focus on what you dont have and focus on what you do have and look at everything positively, hay you bout to be a mother of twins! And remember no matter how bad you think you have it somebodys always got it worste, patience is a vertue, youll get yours all in due time. Just stay strong and one day when you see those twins taking there first steps and goin to college it will all be worth it.

hope this helps a little, its helped me

[Guest]

I'm Just Tired Of Baeng Left Alone To Weather The Storms Of Life.

 

Ohh i got one more thing... read this story its perfect for you and remember it everyday...

 

One night a man had a dream.

 

He dreamed he was walking along the beach with the Lord.

 

Scenes from his life flashed across the sky

and he noticed two sets of footprints in the sand,

one belonging to him and the other to the Lord.

When the last scene of his life had flashed before him,

he recalled that at the lowest and saddest times of his life

there was only one set of footprints.

 

Dismayed, he asked, "Lord, you said that once I decided to follow you,

you'd walk with me all the way.

I don't understand why, when I needed you most,

you would leave me."

The Lord replied, "My precious child.

I love you and I would never leave you.

 

During your times of trial and suffering

when you saw only one set of footprints...

 

That was when I carried you."

[Guest]

Now Has To Be One Of The Hardest Times In My Life Ever. I Am A 26 Yr. Old F. In The Last 5 Months I've Lost Two People I Truly Cared For. One My Ex-bf Now Filled W/ Broken Promises, The Other Someone I Truly Loved But Really Didn't Belong To Me. On Top Of It All I Am 7 Months Pregnant W. Twins, And Left To Raise Them On My Own. I Recently Had To Move Back In W/ My Family Based On The Fact I Couldn't Get By On My Own.

 

I've Been On My Own Since I Was 17 And Am Having A Hard Time Having To Depend On Someone Else For A Change.

 

My Friends And Family Have Been Great Constantly Assuring Me Things Will Get Better, As Long As You Have Family By Ur Side. It Helps, But I Must Admit I Am Scared Of Rasing My Children On My Own. Family & Friends Can Keep U Strong, But I Just Think It Will Not Fill That Void Of Having Someone True To Your Heart.

 

Just Some Words Of Encouragement Would Help. I Do Know My Worth, But Right Now I Am Second Guessing Myself. Wondering How I Got To This Place So Fast When I Thought Things Were Going Well.

I'm Just Tired Of Baeng Left Alone To Weather The Storms Of Life.

 

I no how your feeling im 16 and i been on my own for a while, moms had me when she wus 16, she got rid of me, dont no my pops. I was told he was a dro dealer but idk. I just dont trust no one ne more im out for me and me only cause aint no one gonna give you nothin if you want somethin you gotta go out and get it. But anyways, my advice to use is think of it like this...No matter how bad you think you got it somebody else got it worste than you. Dont focus on what you dont have but focus on what you do have, you got family and twins on tha way, just think when those twins say there first words, first steps, and graduate and go to college it will all be worth it. And ohh yea, read this story i think bout it alot when i feel alone.

 

One night a man had a dream. He dreamed

he was walking along the beach with the LORD.

 

 

Across the sky flashed scenes from his life.

For each scene he noticed two sets of

footprints in the sand: one belonging

to him, and the other to the LORD.

 

 

When the last scene of his life flashed before him,

he looked back at the footprints in the sand.

 

 

He noticed that many times along the path of

his life there was only one set of footprints.

 

 

He also noticed that it happened at the very

lowest and saddest times in his life.

 

 

This really bothered him and he

questioned the LORD about it:

 

 

"LORD, you said that once I decided to follow

you, you'd walk with me all the way.

But I have noticed that during the most

troublesome times in my life,

there is only one set of footprints.

I don't understand why when

I needed you most you would leave me."

 

The LORD replied:

 

 

"My son, my precious child,

I love you and I would never leave you.

During your times of trial and suffering,

when you see only one set of footprints,

it was then that I carried you."

 

Let me no if tha advice works!

[Guest]

I WANT TO THANK YOU FOR THE ADVICE, AND YES IT DID HELP. SOMETIMES JUST AN ENCOURAGEING WORD CAN HELP YOU SEE THINGS DIFFERENTLY. THANK YOU AGAIN, AND I WISH YOU THE BEST. LET ME KNOE IF I CAN EVER RETURN THE FAVOR.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I no how your feeling im 16 and i been on my own for a while, moms had me when she wus 16, she got rid of me, dont no my pops. I was told he was a dro dealer but idk. I just dont trust no one ne more im out for me and me only cause aint no one gonna give you nothin if you want somethin you gotta go out and get it. But anyways, my advice to use is think of it like this...No matter how bad you think you got it somebody else got it worste than you. Dont focus on what you dont have but focus on what you do have, you got family and twins on tha way, just think when those twins say there first words, first steps, and graduate and go to college it will all be worth it. And ohh yea, read this story i think bout it alot when i feel alone.

 

One night a man had a dream. He dreamed

he was walking along the beach with the LORD.

 

 

Across the sky flashed scenes from his life.

For each scene he noticed two sets of

footprints in the sand: one belonging

to him, and the other to the LORD.

 

 

When the last scene of his life flashed before him,

he looked back at the footprints in the sand.

 

 

He noticed that many times along the path of

his life there was only one set of footprints.

 

 

He also noticed that it happened at the very

lowest and saddest times in his life.

 

 

This really bothered him and he

questioned the LORD about it:

 

 

"LORD, you said that once I decided to follow

you, you'd walk with me all the way.

But I have noticed that during the most

troublesome times in my life,

there is only one set of footprints.

I don't understand why when

I needed you most you would leave me."

 

The LORD replied:

 

 

"My son, my precious child,

I love you and I would never leave you.

During your times of trial and suffering,

when you see only one set of footprints,

it was then that I carried you."

 

Let me no if tha advice works!