what should I do???

[DJ]

Please help me!

 

I have been dated a lot and honestly and 99.9% of the guys I dated are attracted to me but in some how it never went any where w/ it - w/ those guys I had interest for.

 

I feel bad, sad & angery about myself that I can not enjoy the time by myself.....I feel so lonely and every time I feel lonely, I miss my ex so much (to meantion it wasn't because of that which it didn't went well w/ the other guys). I flash back the touch, kiss, the moment I spent time w/ him and it makes me cry and cry so deeply and I do that every single time I was thinking about him.

 

Maybe I don't know mush about guys & dating. Even though I 'm 22 but sometimes I concern to much and other time I honestly don't have much experience in relationship. Most of the guys likes me a lot but when I'm in the situations I sometimes don't know what I should do, how I should react.

 

I just want every thing to be as simple as possible and I'm not in to games. Its so hard to be alone even though I know that you have to learn to enjoy your own company and love yourself, then you will be more success when you are in a relationship but I feel so lonely, sad (have a lot thing to concern about) and I'm so confuse about guys, relationship and about myself.

 

I just want to have the "simple" happiness, please cleaar things up for me....everything seem so dark and unclear for me.

 

Thank you!

[mighty bop]

Forget about your ex. Seems like this is causing the problems.

[dj]

No, I ONLY miss my my ex when I fell lonely ...I can forget about him when I spend time w/ a nice guy but it seems like that is always ends to nothing.....please let me know what I should do and how I should deal w/ all these dating thing and about myself....... I tried psychologically analyze about myself in dating/relationship but I get more and more confuse about everything....please again HELP ME!