Tomcat33 Posted April 26, 2007 Share Posted April 26, 2007 GG, you are a snot. I have an appt. to take care of business as far as the preg. is concerned. LOL I had thought the exact same thing, thank goodness someone else said it so I didn't have to. LOL Pushing someone down and escalator to possibly kill them is justified because the violent act is inflicted upon an OW. Nice, just love the moral double standards!! Link to post Share on other sites
greengoddess Posted April 26, 2007 Share Posted April 26, 2007 LOL I had thought the exact same thing, thank goodness someone else said it so I didn't have to. LOL Pushing someone down and escalator to possibly kill them is justified because the violent act is inflicted upon an OW. Nice, just love the moral double standards!! oh please she's perfectly fine and posting. Remember this is the other woman who wanted to give her mm's wife a push into the loony bin psycho ward a little sooner. I guess she pushed the wife and told her and the wife pushed right back. Gotta love a happy ending. Sorry this relationship was sick. They were plotting having his wife and the MOM of his kids committed. She got what she deserved. Link to post Share on other sites
Author JustBecause Posted April 26, 2007 Author Share Posted April 26, 2007 None of this is funny. I am an emotional wreck. Not to mention a physical wreck.If there was a sad face with tears like the emoticons, it would be a pic of me. Link to post Share on other sites
Tomcat33 Posted April 26, 2007 Share Posted April 26, 2007 oh please she's perfectly fine and posting. Remember this is the other woman who wanted to give her mm's wife a push into the loony bin psycho ward a little sooner. I guess she pushed the wife and told her and the wife pushed right back. Gotta love a happy ending. Sorry this relationship was sick. They were plotting having his wife and the MOM of his kids committed. She got what she deserved. Well if you can understand why this woman "pushed her down the stairs" then I am sure you also understand why Cho Seung-Hui shot all those people in the Virginia Tech massacre. Afterall, society was really getting the best of his stress level too! pffft... Just love the moral double standards. Link to post Share on other sites
greengoddess Posted April 26, 2007 Share Posted April 26, 2007 Well if you can understand why this woman "pushed her down the stairs" then I am sure you also understand why Cho Seung-Hui shot all those people in the Virginia Tech massacre. Afterall, society was really getting the best of his stress level too! pffft... Just love the moral double standards. Oh gee yes let's compare a little shove to firing off 180 rounds into people and committing a mass murder. Ok yea that makes sense. How disrespectful to those of virginia tech. Link to post Share on other sites
Tomcat33 Posted April 26, 2007 Share Posted April 26, 2007 Oh gee yes let's compare a little shove to firing off 180 rounds into people and committing a mass murder. Ok yea that makes sense. How disrespectful to those of virginia tech. Give it a rest mother theresa, the point is that violence SOLVES NOTHING. Capiche? Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted April 26, 2007 Share Posted April 26, 2007 I know you have me on ignore mode TC so my post reply to you is kind of pointless... Ofcourse his wife shouldn't have gotten violent, duh! But under the circumstances, her depression and mental illness, (which JB was FULLY aware of) she shouldn't have expected ANYTHING less once the MM's wife found out the truth. Two wrongs do not make a right, but this woman, the MM's wife reacted to the fact JB has been having sex with her husband. Link to post Share on other sites
Impudent Oyster Posted April 26, 2007 Share Posted April 26, 2007 Abortion Is Out Of The Question. I Cannot Afford It On My Own. If you think an abortion is expensive, try raising a child until they're on their own. I bet MM would help you out with the expense of the abortion. What a trainwreck. Link to post Share on other sites
serial muse Posted April 26, 2007 Share Posted April 26, 2007 VA Tech aside, it's frightening that this woman pushed JB down the escalator. Where was MM??? How did that even happen?? Bizarre. But I also think it's a little off that JB has now decided to "take care of business" when she was proclaiming just a couple of days ago that this child was born out of love and therefore abortion was out of the question. Good God, JB. That's a frighteningly sudden change of heart. I'm very much pro-choice, and if this is the best decision for you, then you should do it. But the way you're changing direction with the wind about something so serious is a little scary to me. I just hope you're taking more time to make this important decision. What about your friends and family, who have met MM? What do they think? Do they know?? What a mess. I don't see any love, anywhere, in this whole scenario. Link to post Share on other sites
Tomcat33 Posted April 26, 2007 Share Posted April 26, 2007 VA Tech aside, it's frightening that this woman pushed JB down the escalator. Where was MM??? How did that even happen?? Bizarre. Yup and if she is THAT mentally unstable that she cannot control her anger to the point of pushing another human down a flight of stairs, then perhaps it wasn't such a bad thing they were trying to get her committed. She sounds completely unstable. food for thought. Link to post Share on other sites
serial muse Posted April 26, 2007 Share Posted April 26, 2007 Yup and if she is THAT mentally unstable that she cannot control her anger to the point of pushing another human down a flight of stairs, then perhaps it wasn't such a bad thing they were trying to get her committed. She sounds completely unstable. food for thought. TC, that's irrelevant to my actual point. It's not about the wife. Like I said, she's scary. Nuff said. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted April 26, 2007 Share Posted April 26, 2007 None of this is funny. I am an emotional wreck. Not to mention a physical wreck.If there was a sad face with tears like the emoticons, it would be a pic of me. All the more reason not to run to the Dr and do something that you may regret. This whole situation was a time bomb, waiting to go off either way. NO good was going to come of it for ANY of you. Atleast if you've 100% decided to end it with the MM, YOU can heal and move on. If you stay, your life will be a rollercoaster ride for a long, long time. I just need you to put yourself in his wife's shoes, so what you are feeling right now, magnify that 1000x because that is how she is feeling after finding out about you and her husband having an affair. Link to post Share on other sites
Tomcat33 Posted April 26, 2007 Share Posted April 26, 2007 TC, that's irrelevant to my actual point. It's not about the wife. Like I said, she's scary. Nuff said. It's MY point. Link to post Share on other sites
Author JustBecause Posted April 26, 2007 Author Share Posted April 26, 2007 My eyes were opened with all of this mess. I effed up & I'm paying for it. I have family & friends supporting me (mentally that is) I am also pro choice. I always wonder about the pro lifers. How many babies have they saved (adopted)? Not that this is a debate of any kind. Like I said, I learned my lesson, I effed up & I'm paying for it. Link to post Share on other sites
serial muse Posted April 26, 2007 Share Posted April 26, 2007 It's MY point. Whatever. You quoted me, so rather than let my point get derailed and sidelined, I decided I'd just put it right back on track. In case anyone out there is actually reading this. Link to post Share on other sites
serial muse Posted April 26, 2007 Share Posted April 26, 2007 My eyes were opened with all of this mess. I effed up & I'm paying for it. I have family & friends supporting me (mentally that is) I am also pro choice. I always wonder about the pro lifers. How many babies have they saved (adopted)? Not that this is a debate of any kind. Like I said, I learned my lesson, I effed up & I'm paying for it. Well, like I said, of course you should do what's best for you. It's just awfully sudden to go from "this child was conceived out of love" to "I'm going to take care of business". It doesn't sound like a sound basis for decision-making, is all I'm saying. Take a couple of days to calm down and consider the matter - you may still decide it's for the best, but perhaps you won't be acting out of anger and - I wonder? - a desire for revenge on MM. Link to post Share on other sites
Tomcat33 Posted April 26, 2007 Share Posted April 26, 2007 Whatever. You quoted me, so rather than let my point get derailed and sidelined, I decided I'd just put it right back on track. In case anyone out there is actually reading this. Well let's not discredit the readers....its clear what your point is and what mine was. Yes a I quoted you but my point was disctinctly MY thought. In no way was I trying to twist your quote around...it was more an afterthought on my part inspired by your quote. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted April 26, 2007 Share Posted April 26, 2007 Again, I know you have me on ignore TC, but why not try to help JB instead of arguing with other posters once again? Link to post Share on other sites
Author JustBecause Posted April 26, 2007 Author Share Posted April 26, 2007 This happened on saturday. I don't know but I think he was in on the incident. He called me on tuesday & I just let the phone ring. No vm was left. Nothing he could say would make a difference anyway. he needs to be with his wife & needs to leave me alone. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted April 26, 2007 Share Posted April 26, 2007 This happened on saturday. I don't know but I think he was in on the incident. He called me on tuesday & I just let the phone ring. No vm was left. Nothing he could say would make a difference anyway. he needs to be with his wife & needs to leave me alone. Why would you think he was in on it? Because he didn't take the news well that you are pregnant? Well you ARE in the position of power and control so if he calls you or tries to see you - YOU can tell him to F-OFF and leave you alone, then block his number, email etc... Link to post Share on other sites
serial muse Posted April 26, 2007 Share Posted April 26, 2007 This happened on saturday. I don't know but I think he was in on the incident. He called me on tuesday & I just let the phone ring. No vm was left. Nothing he could say would make a difference anyway. he needs to be with his wife & needs to leave me alone. JB, I agree that was he has to say is going to be largely irrelevant. What she did, although horrible, is also irrelevant. The point is not them, though, it's you. I think what I'm trying to get at is that the sudden 180-degree change in how you're framing how you think of your pregnancy seems...well, to be blunt, almost frighteningly immature. It seems entirely motivated by anger, revenge and bitterness, not a healthy dose of reality. That does not mean you should have the baby just because (heh). It should always be a choice, but that doesn't mean the choice doesn't have exactly the same weight and importance that it did a week ago. That's all I'm trying to say. But if you're sure, you're sure. Link to post Share on other sites
Author JustBecause Posted April 26, 2007 Author Share Posted April 26, 2007 Why would you think he was in on it? Because he didn't take the news well that you are pregnant? Well you ARE in the position of power and control so if he calls you or tries to see you - YOU can tell him to F-OFF and leave you alone, then block his number, email etc... I think he might have had an idea that I was pregnant. I never told him. Don't plan on it either. No parts of him do I want. (Hmmm, not what I was saying a week ago) But now, he's herstory!!!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted April 26, 2007 Share Posted April 26, 2007 Do you honestly believe that he capable of setting you up, following you to a mall with his wife, hiding and then letting his wife push you down the escalater, knowing that you were carrying his child?? If you truely believe that, then it IS best it's over. Your MM is not a nice man at all. Fact he could cheat on his wife, who is depressed, and has mental issues just shows he is selfish. Anyway, take care of you now. Link to post Share on other sites
Tomcat33 Posted April 26, 2007 Share Posted April 26, 2007 I think he might have had an idea that I was pregnant. I never told him. Don't plan on it either. No parts of him do I want. (Hmmm, not what I was saying a week ago) But now, he's herstory!!!!!! JB did you report her to the authorities? What happened when she pushed you did anyone see? Link to post Share on other sites
yousaveme Posted April 26, 2007 Share Posted April 26, 2007 Wait. First you break up. Then get back together. Wife has mental problems. And then your pregnant. Get pushed down stairs, your going to get an abortion because WHY? Again? Are you with him or not? I am so confused!!!! Does/Did he know about the baby? Does the wife know you? Or know about you still being involved? Or the baby? Did anyone see you get pushed? Did anyone do anything? Link to post Share on other sites
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