Author JustBecause Posted April 26, 2007 Author Share Posted April 26, 2007 No I only had the mall security help me & the police helped get me into the ambulance. I told them it was a personal incident & that I would not be pressing charges. I don't think he set me up. He probably told her about me, described me to her & maybe pointed me out. Link to post Share on other sites
yousaveme Posted April 26, 2007 Share Posted April 26, 2007 Then he set you up.. If he cared anything about you. He would protect you. Pointing you out and etc...He set you up. Dump the loser. Do what you need to do for yourself. And stay away from the crazy wife. Seems like he has his hands full himself with her. No I only had the mall security help me & the police helped get me into the ambulance. I told them it was a personal incident & that I would not be pressing charges. I don't think he set me up. He probably told her about me, described me to her & maybe pointed me out. Link to post Share on other sites
Author JustBecause Posted April 26, 2007 Author Share Posted April 26, 2007 Not 100% sure but I doubt he said there she is, go get her. I would hope not. Link to post Share on other sites
Author JustBecause Posted April 26, 2007 Author Share Posted April 26, 2007 Then he set you up.. If he cared anything about you. He would protect you. Pointing you out and etc...He set you up. Dump the loser. Do what you need to do for yourself. And stay away from the crazy wife. Seems like he has his hands full himself with her. The truth is, HE DIDN'T CARE FOR ME. I see that now. Crystal Clear. Link to post Share on other sites
yousaveme Posted April 26, 2007 Share Posted April 26, 2007 Hello. SHE PUSHED YOU DOWN THE STAIRS. DO YOU NEED HER TO DROP SOMETHING ON YOUR HEAD NEXT TIME. SHE AND HE BOTH SOUND LIKE LUNATICS. Not 100% sure but I doubt he said there she is, go get her. I would hope not. Link to post Share on other sites
yousaveme Posted April 26, 2007 Share Posted April 26, 2007 Well, at least you have figured that part out. Someone who cares for someone doesnt treat them like you have been treated. The truth is, HE DIDN'T CARE FOR ME. I see that now. Crystal Clear. Link to post Share on other sites
Author JustBecause Posted April 26, 2007 Author Share Posted April 26, 2007 Thanks for listening!! Link to post Share on other sites
Tomcat33 Posted April 26, 2007 Share Posted April 26, 2007 No I only had the mall security help me & the police helped get me into the ambulance. I told them it was a personal incident & that I would not be pressing charges. I don't think he set me up. He probably told her about me, described me to her & maybe pointed me out. WOW that's a really scary thing what you just described, to be attacked like that and to not be able to talk about it freely because you don't want to cause more harm in an otherwise very messed up situation is really a horrible place to be. I understand your pain and confusion. So you have not talked to the MM since the incident happened? And how do you know that she was your MM's W? Did she come out at you out of nowhere? Sorry for all the questions it just blows me away that these things actually happen. I did read something once about stats refering to the percentage of "crimes of passion" that occur and it was a rather high % within the types of crimes that occur...it's creepy. It's beyond me why anyone would want to kill over a MAN/WOMAN. No lover is worth THAT much passion... You must be so confused right now..hence your decision to terminate your pregnancy....wow what a situation to be in. I'm sorry for your pain. Link to post Share on other sites
Impudent Oyster Posted April 26, 2007 Share Posted April 26, 2007 Yeah, What she said! LOL - I'll never get how an OW has no problem morally with lying, deceiving, sneaking, and actively helping her MM pull the wool over his wife's eyes - but then claims moral indignation when someone dares suggest abortion. Funny how that works. Be prepared for the fact that your MM would rather swallow acid-coatd razor blades than have this baby. But it's not his choice to make whether you keep it or not - which sucks for him. Guess he should have bought better 'condoms,' eh? A lesson he'll learn the hard way. So this poor woman has a mental problem, and this piece of garbage's answer to that is to screw around on her and impregnate his side-piece? Yeah, he's a real prince amongst men. I hope you 'win' him, too, when he finds out you're pregnant. All indicators, however, point to the fact that he'll run so fast you won't be able to get the skidmarks out of your driveway for a year. Snort. This kid was created out of lies, deceit, and utter STUPIDITY by two adults who should KNOW how to use contraception EFFECTIVELY by now. If this guy wants to dog around on his wife, the LEAST he can do is get a vasectomy so he's not stuck with a kid in his middle age. What a dumba*ss he is. SURELY you don't believe you're the FIRST of his indiscretions - do you?? What do you MEAN giving her a 'push' in the 'direction' she's going? Are you hoping that you'll send her right over the edge? Real nice - you're morally indignant about an abortion but have NO PROBLEM causing an already supposedly unstable woman's complete breakdown. Wow, you're quite the humanitarian, aren't you? You deserve a medal for your unmatched human decency and compassion. LMAO - I'd love to be a fly on the wall to watch the utter JOY spread across his face. When he dumps you, make sure to legally pursue child support from this loser. What another poster said was right on target - we the taxpayers end up financing the social programs you'll have to access to raise this kid if Mr. Wonderful is allowed to go on his merry way. And as a taxpayer, I don't particularly care to foot the bill for your 'love and passion' with this piece of trash. Link to post Share on other sites
Impudent Oyster Posted April 26, 2007 Share Posted April 26, 2007 His wife is a lunatic. She pushed me down the escalator at the local mall. He can have her. . Huh? Was this before or after you told her you were pregnant with her husband's baby? What did you do, stalk her and follow her to the mall? How did you know who she was? How did she know who you were? Where was her husband? Tune in next week to "As The Stomach Turns"... Link to post Share on other sites
Freedom Now Posted April 27, 2007 Share Posted April 27, 2007 Ok, I haven't through all the posts thoroughly, so forgive me... However: How in the world did the OP switch from keeping this child that was created out of LOVE to choosing to abort it? Was this baby inside of her just a pawn? Of all the sad parts of this tale, this has to be the saddest. How disposable can a life be when things don't work out as planned? And how can one just change their mind about something like a child when things don't go as planned? How very, very sad. Link to post Share on other sites
Chapter2 Posted April 27, 2007 Share Posted April 27, 2007 GG, you are a snot. I have an appt. to take care of business as far as the preg. is concerned. JB, I hope your appointment is to take care of your first prenatal visit...do you have a support system, family, friends? This child can be an amazing blessing regardless of the circumstances in which it was conceived. Your head must be spinning. Check out your local Crisis Pregnancy Center...they will care for you...I promise. How in the world did the OP switch from keeping this child that was created out of LOVE to choosing to abort it? Was this baby inside of her just a pawn? Of all the sad parts of this tale, this has to be the saddest. How disposable can a life be when things don't work out as planned? And how can one just change their mind about something like a child when things don't go as planned? How very, very sad. I agree...I don't think JB is thinking straight. Its heartbreaking. Link to post Share on other sites
serial muse Posted April 27, 2007 Share Posted April 27, 2007 Ok, I haven't through all the posts thoroughly, so forgive me... However: How in the world did the OP switch from keeping this child that was created out of LOVE to choosing to abort it? Was this baby inside of her just a pawn? Of all the sad parts of this tale, this has to be the saddest. How disposable can a life be when things don't work out as planned? And how can one just change their mind about something like a child when things don't go as planned? How very, very sad. I agree 100% FN. That's what I was trying to say too, albeit less eloquently. Link to post Share on other sites
debi38 Posted April 27, 2007 Share Posted April 27, 2007 I agree 100% FN. That's what I was trying to say too, albeit less eloquently. Honestly Keep yor child and let him go there are other fish in the sea . i JUST HAD A MISCARRAIGE a month ago .I cant imagine doing that on purpose. Geez wake up . You dont want to his wife years from now. What makes you so special that he wouldnt do it to you years to come. He's a cheater and a liar get out for your sake and your babies sake. Link to post Share on other sites
silktricks Posted April 27, 2007 Share Posted April 27, 2007 I don't believe a word of this! 100% agree:laugh: Link to post Share on other sites
Author JustBecause Posted May 1, 2007 Author Share Posted May 1, 2007 Hey guys, Just wanted to give an update Everything is ok & quiet. No word from exmm or his wife. Thank Goodness!! I surely learned my lesson the hard way. I've noticed alotta new people here. Maybe they will read my threads & be swayed if they are ow. Link to post Share on other sites
rdnkgrl31 Posted May 1, 2007 Share Posted May 1, 2007 JustBecause, I was just reading what happened to you and I am so truly sorry. For all of it. Not only going through this pregnancy alone, but finding out the way you did that he doesn't give a sh** about anyone but himself.. I am glad that you realize this though and are moving on w/ your life. I wish you the best of luck w/e you decide to do.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author JustBecause Posted May 1, 2007 Author Share Posted May 1, 2007 JustBecause, I was just reading what happened to you and I am so truly sorry. For all of it. Not only going through this pregnancy alone, but finding out the way you did that he doesn't give a sh** about anyone but himself.. I am glad that you realize this though and are moving on w/ your life. I wish you the best of luck w/e you decide to do.. Well Thank You for the Well Wishes rdnkgrl31!! Greatly appreciated!! Link to post Share on other sites
vanilla chai Posted May 2, 2007 Share Posted May 2, 2007 His wife is a lunatic. She pushed me down the escalator at the local mall. He can have her. Thank you to LS. You helped me alot in this awful situation. I am greatful. Again, Thank You. You knew this woman was unstable,you knew the possibilty was there for violence. You chose to continue on with her husband. Link to post Share on other sites
Author JustBecause Posted May 2, 2007 Author Share Posted May 2, 2007 Thank you all for the mention. Thanks for the update too. Have a great day full of ethics & respect. I am doing very well thank you. Thanks for your concern. JustBecause:) Link to post Share on other sites
Author JustBecause Posted May 2, 2007 Author Share Posted May 2, 2007 You knew this woman was unstable,you knew the possibilty was there for violence. You chose to continue on with her husband. I also said that it's over & done with. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted May 2, 2007 Share Posted May 2, 2007 So, "the plan" is for the BW to be hospitalized when the children leave for school. Um, does SHE know about this plan, or is this something that the two people plotting to ruin her life came up with without consulting her? You should keep in mind too that in some states, a judge won't grant a divorce to someone whose spouse is mentally incompetant (that's if what you've said about her is even true). Your little "plan" to trap this guy with a baby and neatly tuck the wife away in a nuthouse is not as foolproof as you think it is. Sounds to me like the only one suffering from delusion is you. It breaks my heart to think that there are good people out there desperate to have babies and can't, yet total freaks like you can breed just like that. Link to post Share on other sites
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