GreenEyedLady Posted May 6, 2007 Share Posted May 6, 2007 GEL I'd rather you didn't start..Oh there is free speech so feel free.. There is also a wonderful function on this site and it's called ignore... Silence can be a wonderful thing... Link to post Share on other sites
Author overandout Posted May 7, 2007 Author Share Posted May 7, 2007 There is also a wonderful function on this site and it's called ignore... Silence can be a wonderful thing... Yeah you should try it sometime! Maybe you secretly agree with my post but don't want to admit it> Link to post Share on other sites
Author overandout Posted May 7, 2007 Author Share Posted May 7, 2007 Forgot one very important thing. HIS WIFE DOESN'T KNOW ABOUT THE AFFAIR SO HOW CAN SHE MAKE ANY DECISIONS FOR HERSELF? ONLY IF SHE KNEW, CAN YOU START TALKING ABOUT HER SETTLING BY STAYING WITH HIM. You only know what he tells you about his home life--you are only on the sidelines. Link to post Share on other sites
Author overandout Posted May 7, 2007 Author Share Posted May 7, 2007 Oh, and I should probably add, that the reason I've not been giving 'updates' on what I've been up to..? ... is because I'm really quite happy for the first time in a long time. Just happy... and without any need to ask anyone if it's OK or not... Accepting your role. Good luck with it and I wish you the best in the future. Just curious as to why you asked him to leave his marriage and make a decision if you were so happy with your role? I can understand why you think a ring on someone's finger means nothing. That is a healthy attitude to have, because he can't have a ring on each of his women's finger can he now. Still you are happy being the OW so that is fine. Like I said, good luck and we will all be here in case you ever need our support/opinions in the future! Link to post Share on other sites
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