john 07 Posted April 22, 2007 Share Posted April 22, 2007 My ex broke it off after 7 years. Shes with another guy a week later. I know shes with him b/c of emotional attachment. They were friends before. I didnt give enough in our relationship, but willing to change things the 2nd time. Shes been with the new guy for 5/6 weeks now. I started NC and been one week. Seems like shes forgetting about me the more I dont contact her. I have to see her in a couple classes but i wont sit next to her. What else should i be doing If i ever want a second chance?? Link to post Share on other sites
azianpride143 Posted April 22, 2007 Share Posted April 22, 2007 I would give it a go and tell her how you feel. If it doesn't work at least you know you tried rather than not do anything. If it works out great and if not move on. Good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
vivrantflo Posted April 23, 2007 Share Posted April 23, 2007 whats up? In your situation, this is what u should do.. you have been doing no contact, which is good.. but if u havent already, let her know that you acknowledge the mistakes you've made, and the improvements you need to do. Let her know that you still love her, support her decisions, and that u want her back.. Then leave her alone.. she's been with you 7 years, so she wants to see what else is out there.. No man out there can compare to the 7 years you put it, so you have that on your side. Just give her the space, so she can sort out her feelings, and decides what she wants.. You'll definately hear from her again, so just work on yourself for now, and everything else will fall into place.. good luck Link to post Share on other sites
2ndIINone Posted April 23, 2007 Share Posted April 23, 2007 Where to start for second Chances?? you start with you. Link to post Share on other sites
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