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[elprisionero]

Dear Laura

Thanks for breaking my heart twice

We share 10 years together and broke up in October ...

thanks for let me known that you are getting married in December 17 2011.

I don't wish you bad but if it rain on the 17 I be happy..

Love always

[nonameone]

Dear Ex:

Good luck finding a new girlfriend. You have one thing going for you- money and generosity. Women will always lower their standards for that. I'm sure you will find one that tolerates lies, inability to work through things, conflict avoidance, 40 pounds overweight, being treated like the lowest priority, unwilling to compromise, insisting on doing things your way, doing whatever the hell you want and then lying to avoid a fight, and (you know what I mean here) the inability to last. Sure, sometimes you do things that seem helpful, but onlywhen it is convenient to you.

 

Sure, she'll come into the relationship thinking you are a reasonable man who compromises and problem solves. But over the years she'll learn that he's making a mental list of every upset moment she has and randomly he will end it.

 

(note to self, why do you want this man to have you back)

[sunflower11]

I really ****ing miss you right now...so badly I want to call you and just..talk

[esteem-jam]

w----

 

 

I think you will come up with somebody who seriously injures you, cause you cant get away with behaviours like that.

[Kamila]

It's been a week since I saw your picture.

I remember it vaguely, well the picture didn't show much did it ?

It was like a really close close-up.

At first i was in shock, then i had anger and i was so sad. So sad that you've moved on.

Well, it appeared like that.

So are you happy now ? Are you content that you've found love again ?

Did you fall in love with her like you did with me ?

All those questions keep spinning in my head when i saw that picture.

Then i went to some psychology sites to see what people have noticed with persons posting kissing pictures:

insecurity, want to vanish with the other person (they become one),

shallowness, flaunt with what they have.

Are you that shallow ? What has become of you ?

I remember you deleting your fb account because you didn't want those pictures circulating around the net.

And now you're doing what you said you were never going to do.

Is it my fault you're trying to show everyone you're okay ?

That you have found your new lover.

That you've moved on ?

 

I DON'T BELIEVE A SINGLE CRAP THAT YOU'RE OVER ME !

 

You're just getting at me. You want me to feel this hurt. That's why you shoved it in my face. You know I didn't block/defriend you.

 

You know it too well that i'll see that picture. And with that you lowered the only respect i had for you to the ground.

 

You're an idiot! You don't get it !

 

But you know i'll react in some way or another. It's the only way you have.

I don't contact you anymore after your x-attempts.

And you're too proud to call me.

 

So, FB will do it. Sure, bring it on. I can handle it.

 

I broke your heart. Well, guess what you did, you broke mine too, a while ago honey...

[nonameone]

I hope you rot in hell you big fat f*&k.

[CopingGal]

Dear L,

 

You send me a letter of apology- full of telling me about the woman you cheated on me for. As you know, my roommate ripped it up. You are a joke.

[AwptiK]

K,

 

Prior to breaking up last Tuesday, I figured today i'd be telling you how thankful I am for you in my life, how much I appreciate and love you.

 

Instead, i'm here, confused, upset and alone.

 

I really don't understand why you seem to be trying hard now to be friends? Is it out of guilt? I can't be friends with you. I simply don't know how to talk to you like a friend.

 

I'd do anything to take back that night and have us still be together... But that's not going to happen.

 

I wish I had a distraction. I wish I could stop thinking about you. You don't deserve everything I gave you or how hard I worked for you.

[nonameone]

I might say:

I'm sorry about my email saying I don't want to be friends. I really want to see you. The holidays suck without you.

 

or

 

Do you know how you set me back with one little text? What does that mean? You want to see me? You miss me? You are thinking of me?

 

or

 

You know what I remembered about Holidays? We never were together because you didn't have the ability to see past your own anxiety to see a reasonable, fair approach to who we spent time with. IT brought back all the reasons I am better off without you. (except the gifts).

 

As I type these out I'm realizing I was in love with the "idea" of us, not the real us. I don't miss you; I'm just lonely.

[samslick]

For many days and nights now I think of why I put up with you for so long. Maybe I was afraid of what I would end up going through--which Im doing right now. Sure this hurts like nothing I have ever felt, but at least now I have made a decision and am heading in the right direction.

 

How you could throw away this marriage for the sake of being with your girlfriends and going out I will never know. Everything was on a silver platter, brand new house, 2 dogs, nice tv, nice things, all the bills were paid, you name it. You never took care of me when I was sick, or worried, or upset about anything. You laughed at me if I showed any emotion. You are the one who is messed up in the head, unable to show your feelings even to your husband.

 

I hope your thanksgiving was spent alone, with no family around you, sitting in the rotten warehouse you are illegally living in now with your dog. How could you sign up for a dating website already, we've been separated now for 3 weeks. How shallow and disgusting have you become? I hope you feel an ounce of the pain Im carrying with me now. I will rise up again, I have been freed from you dragging me down with your negative attitude. I will re-marry again one day and have children and be even more successful than I am now. I hope you carry this mistake with you for the rest of your life, as you will never find someone who cared for you like I did.

 

 

Felt good to do that, the temptation the last few days has been really strong to email her.

[lemonworld]

Hey.

 

I promise that I'm not drunk right now.

 

I miss you more than anything. I would give absolutely anything to take back the mistake I made. I'm sure that if that hadn't happened, if we had been together, then I would be OK right now.

 

I mean, if you and I had kept seeing each other, then I would have a serious sex partner for the first time in my life...you would've wanted me to confront my erectile disfuction issues, and I had just started talking to that psychologist, so he could have prescribed viagra or whatever. my life would have been perfect. but instead, it's a total nightmare, and I need to kill myself.

 

I miss you. I wish I could have loved you for real.

[LostJustLost]

Hey Baby.. how ya been? Good? Good. Me? Not so much.

 

For months I've been wondering how someone could throw away someone they vowed was the love of their life? For 5 years we were inseparable. The last time I talked to you, you said "I love you, think about you all the time, I'll be back online in a few days"

 

Couple weeks later I see is "The Bitch Is Back" posted on your wall with lyrics - I thought you were still offline. Realizing the enormity of that act, what it stood for almost caused me to end my life.

 

How sad is it that I cant block you, I cant remove you, you said so many times that now that you've found me NOTHING could take me away from you. But you did. And I don't know how to do this without you.

 

I had never felt love before you. Since you vanished from my life, I have never felt pain so intense.

 

And yet .. I would give anything. Everything. Just to talk to you one more time.

 

Have mercy. Text me, email me, go to one of the sites we use to hang out on and comment me. Tell me goodbye so I can begin to heal and let you go. Please. Just one word. So I can breathe again.

[sunflower11]

I hate waking up and missing you. I hate that you are always in my dreams...and I hate that you ****d everything up...

[karmaqueen]

Karma happened and I still don't feel any better- I truly hope you are ok and for gods sake please learn from all your mistakes. Hope you can use this time to sort out your life and get back on track. I'm doing ok at it but miss you loads and worried about you. xxx

[AwptiK]

Hey,

 

I'm really fighting the desire to want to call you right now. Or even text a simple, "Hey, what's up".

 

Today is beyond awful. This might be the worst day thus far. I've made myself physically sick from my racing mind and nonstop thoughts. I laid in bed for over an hour hoping to nap, but I can't calm my mind enough to sleep through the pain.

 

I would do anything, to have you back. I made a huge mistake and that's what is upsetting me so much. I do know nothing can go back to how it was with this current pain and i'm sure you'd never go back to me.

 

I miss you

[nevadagirl]

I had a good story and I hate that I wish I could tell it to you.

 

Maybe it's not a good story maybe it's just more proof I have anger management problems.

 

Some ******* hit my car and drove off. And so I followed him. My roommate was with me. He saw I wasn't going to stop following him so he turned into a gas station. I got out, super pissed, and stalked over to him (in my clubbing attire, it was kind of hilarious)

 

Some part of me wished you could have seen me. How angry I was. How fearless. This wanna be gangsta ******* gets out of the car with his three friends and we end up in this yelling match and we got into a fight - an actual physical altercation

 

me...versus these four thugs. My roommate pulling me off of them.

 

She told me I was scary the way I stalked over to his car ...she'd never seen me like that.

 

I felt fearless. And reckless. And like I was on some suicide mission. The adrenaline was insane.

 

I wanted to tell you about it. I still wish I could tell you about it.

 

It felt good...to challenge these *******s. And they called me a "white bitch" and I just ****ing lost it. Guy knocked me down but I didn't care. He got in his car, refusing to give me his information. I kicked his ****ing car. He said "do it again bitch I dare you" SO I KICKED IT AGAIN

 

He just drove off with his pussy friends.

 

This is ridiculous.

 

I have so much pent up anger. My car wasn't even damaged that much. It was just the fact that this jerk-off smashed my car and drove away.

 

I dunno what's wrong with me.

 

I hate wanting to talk to you.

 

I hate this.

[RecordProducer]

Get the f*** out of my life!!!

 

Isn't this what you used to tell me regularly when we were married?

 

Well, why don't YOU get the f*** out of my life now?!?!?

 

How come I can't get rid of you?

How come you cling onto me through my children?

Why do you come out to see me every time I come to pick up my sons?

Why the hell do you want my sons to have your last name?

Who the hell do you think you are, as*hole?!

Why do you have on FB pictures of us holding hands and holding each other?

 

Whatever feelings you may have for me, I don't care. Just disappear now. Enjoy your life,you have a new girlfriend, she's cute, enjoy your money, your flying, your dancing, your big happy family, your real and fake friends... leave me the f*** alone!

 

PACK MY KIDS' CLOTHES AND DON'T EVER SHOW UP OR CALL AGAIN!!!

 

GET THE F*CK OUT OF MY LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[ladyravenloft]

Hello, pet.

 

This will be the last letter you get from me. Now that I know the truth....I realize you've never been worth my time or tears.

 

I see that you've been cheating on me for months with someone younger, prettier, and someone that you could say is smarter since she's studying physics and I'm only studying social work, substance abuse and grief counseling.

 

You forget:

 

One day, she'll be my age and *le gasp* she might not age as well as me.

 

I can and am losing weight and I still look like someone ten years younger then my age.

 

I'd rather be known for being honest, compassionate, loving and devoted then be able to brag about having an advanced degree in something you yourself don't even understand, being that you dropped out of school and have been through at least three low paying jobs in the two years we were together.

 

Your lies, whining and manipulation are finished for me...HOWEVER.....be warned. The one you're with now has a young child. You always told me you never wanted kids, you couldn't stand them, etc. Your new love seems to be a devoted mother and I guaren-freakin-tee you that if you hurt her child you will unleash a wrath from her that you will never forget. Treat your new lady and her child with the love and care they deserve, even though neither deserve a piece of trash like you.

 

I'm done now pet. Never contact me again. Don't cross my mind and don't darken my thoughts. There's no place for you anymore.

[LostJustLost]

Hey baby, hope yall had a good weekend.

 

I have so much I want to tell you, about Zap, about Dusty, about things happening here.. I want to ask how you're doing, if you're happy, if you are able to talk to me yet.

 

It's been almost 3 months since yall said you loved me, missed me and would be back in a few days. Im so lost, so confused, so hurt.. I dont understand baby. What happened that could have changed you so quickly? How did you shut off your heart without a second thought? Could you teach me how because this is killing me.

 

Do you think about me? Do I ever cross your mind? I wake up thinking about you, I see your face every where I look, I hear your voice in the silence. I cry a lot. I beg God constantly for answers. And every day I wait .. just in case you log in.

 

I miss you ***. I miss us. Im lost without you.

[Juicer]

you're the first person i think about when i wake up, and you're the last person i think about when i go to sleep… i can't help but want to see you, hold you and talk to you for hours.. its been 4 months now, but it feels like its been forever. i'm always afraid that ill never see you again or hear from you again.

 

it seems like were still connected in a weird way because every time i start making great progress my phone rings and you've sent me a text… how am i supposed to get over you when you broke up with me and then you start telling me how this is going to be the first christmas without each other and how much you miss me!?! all i want to do is ****ing scream "this is what YOU wanted!!!". i've been doing my best, fighting the urge every single day so i don't contact you and its honestly the hardest things i've ever had to overcome.

 

i'm constantly reminded of you… whenever I'm looking for clean socks, i remember an entire drawer full of MY socks at YOUR house, or when i have a pb and j sandwich i would always make an extra and bring it to work for you cause you weren't allowed pb at your house… its the smallest things that hit me the hardest! sundays were my favourite days, it was the one day where we knew we would have each other all day, no interruptions or distractions, just us. now they are the worst days…

 

I'm rambling cause there is just soooo much i want to say to you but this is probably the end for us. unless i say something. but then it might especially be it for us. that is the constant battle going on in my head.. its so destructive but i can't control my feelings. the heart wants what it wants, and you know i will always want you.

 

i've told you a thousand times, but nothing has changed, i love you, forever and always,

J

[sunflower11]

I hate you. I hate that every morning I wake up and think about you and...do you even think about me? You are probably busy talking to all these other girls online...

 

I hate you sooo much. I hate that you tossed me aside like a piece of **** that was no longer of any use to you. I hate that you have moved on and I still cry about you. I hate that I can't get you out of my heart but you are no good for me. I hate that I still get the urge to call you randomly. I hate that you never read my emails and you are not sorry for what you did to me..at all. I hate myself for loving you. I hate that I crossed paths with you. Like I told you, you are the BIGGEST mistake of my life and I can't wait to get over you and just move on with my life. I f*cking hate you.

[nonameone]

Why did you send me those texts? Does it mean you want back in my life? You know I can't respond. Too risky. So in the mean time I'll go with this theory: It means nothing. At the time you are texting me, you are texting others. IT MEANS NOTHING.

 

My revelation early on this board applies to this: I will NEVER know what you think, feel, or want. Even when you've said things that appear to be an expression of what you think, feel or want. What you say is never what you deep down think, feel, want. I catch myself, even as I type this, thinking "I know....about you" (see prior sentence for an example) I may or may not be right.

 

Recently I have thought you'd want to get back with me and had to remind myself of this. I have guesses, but I never will know.

 

It's ok for me to move on. Please don't tease me with texts. I'm moving on.

[dicky_fish]

I miss you.

 

I hope the surgery went well and you're gonna be ok again.

 

Love you honey xxxx

[NYOrLAGuy]

i got the invite to the company holiday party today. i wanted to take you so bad. i've been there a bunch of times, but i know you'd love the celeb sightings and all the fun we would have had. the drunk love we would have made after. if ever there was a time i know it's you that are missing out, it's now, but it don't hurt any less. i miss you. i love you.

[esteem-jam]

I couldnt put up with your brothers anyway. One- wrong circle of friends, other- I really dunn no