BewitchedandBothered Posted March 9, 2012 Share Posted March 9, 2012 Dear.....Still thinking of that picture i saw of you and your new g/f. Boy did you gain some serious weight. Why did you put 'athletic' on all your dating profiles when you were huge when I met you? Muscle doesn't jiggle and hang that way, but I digress....In that picture, you appear to me more interested in your food than the world around you. Today, I feel a little better because someone else gets to figure you out. I pity her because of what is to come, if you are the same with her as you were with me. Maybe you won't be because she has a lot of money and you can be the kept man you always wanted to be...*giggle*, did I just call you a 'man"? I wear heels that are bigger than your wicker wacker...and they are practically flats, LOL!!! Turn in your man card; for a dude who noticed that my roots needed to be done and to notice people staring at my shoes when we are out, you have some issues. Do you still text the hell out of your ex wife and if so, do you hide that from your new sssssoouuuuulmate? And...sexually speaking, ol' floppy sack, I hope you're not just rolling over and going to sleep at 9pm because "I WORK ALL DAY!!!! CANT A GUY GET SOME SLEEP?" We psychos like intimacy, just so you know, even your psycho-to be. I call her this because she will be the next one you call by that moniker. Let the psychos unite!!!! I'll be expecting a random text from you by Summer. Because that's how you roll. I hope you get golfball sized 'rhoids and that you g/f says something to you about the smell 'down there' on you. Like a porta potty on a sweltering day. Link to post Share on other sites
nevadagirl Posted March 9, 2012 Share Posted March 9, 2012 Psycho-to-be...I love it! 3 Link to post Share on other sites
BewitchedandBothered Posted March 9, 2012 Share Posted March 9, 2012 Psycho-to-be...I love it! Nevadagirl, methinks I am starting to see the light:) Link to post Share on other sites
BewitchedandBothered Posted March 9, 2012 Share Posted March 9, 2012 Dear......, A douchebag of your magnitude could cleanse a whale's vajayjay.:sick: Link to post Share on other sites
BewitchedandBothered Posted March 10, 2012 Share Posted March 10, 2012 Dear...., Your man part is so small, you can **** a Cheerio without breaking it... Link to post Share on other sites
LSgirl Posted March 10, 2012 Share Posted March 10, 2012 It's Day 11 NC, been NC since day of mutual breakup. It feels way longer, but it'll be almost 2 weeks since we last talked. You must wonder if I've moved on, I'm a lot stronger than you think. You probably thought I would stick around, but you never saw me long-term, so how is that your loss? I know you contacted me twice so far, both times I ignored. You said you were ashamed of what you did, had felt disgusted with yourself, told me I was beautiful inside and out and great, but even still I am hurt. It doesn't make up for everything I went through. I wonder if you have met anybody, had a one night stand, talking to a girl, or drinking at home and depressed? I hope you're hurting more than me, if not more. I plan to stick to NC all the way through for however long I can. It's Friday night, usually I'd be at your house and sleeping over, but I'll be going out to dinner with my gay guy friend and then just coming back home. Still miss you even though I shouldn't. Don't want to be with someone who doesn't want me. Link to post Share on other sites
CopingGal Posted March 10, 2012 Share Posted March 10, 2012 Let the psychos unite!!!! Hee Hee Hee Link to post Share on other sites
CopingGal Posted March 10, 2012 Share Posted March 10, 2012 Like a porta potty on a sweltering day. Geez, yikes, and HUH? Link to post Share on other sites
CopingGal Posted March 10, 2012 Share Posted March 10, 2012 Hello L, What's up? There's a race coming to town. I was wondering if you are able to run again and would you be in the race? I want to see you. I also want to tell you to stay away from me. I want to call you about the race, but I will not. It's not worth it breaking NC. You're not worth it. You're just not. Link to post Share on other sites
CainJ Posted March 10, 2012 Share Posted March 10, 2012 I'm upset with you. Disappointed. But I don't want to be. Every time I think about being disappointed or pissed at you, I think of your kind eyes, your gentle smile and your very feminine giggle. I think about your voice and all the sweet things you used to say to me. But I have the right to be angry. You are a chronic liar and, somehow, you have no remorse over it. You told me that you love and care about me, but then you ignore me. I'm the only person in your entire life that's been there for you, and you shun me. What a joke. I deserve better. It's sad that you used to be so great, and now you're typical, average, run of the mill, dime a dozen, mundane..... Link to post Share on other sites
CopingGal Posted March 10, 2012 Share Posted March 10, 2012 I'm upset with you. Disappointed. But I don't want to be. Every time I think about being disappointed or pissed at you, I think of your kind eyes, your gentle smile and your very feminine giggle. I think about your voice and all the sweet things you used to say to me. But I have the right to be angry. You are a chronic liar and, somehow, you have no remorse over it. You told me that you love and care about me, but then you ignore me. I'm the only person in your entire life that's been there for you, and you shun me. What a joke. I deserve better. It's sad that you used to be so great, and now you're typical, average, run of the mill, dime a dozen, mundane..... I think I dated the male version of this person. Link to post Share on other sites
CopingGal Posted March 10, 2012 Share Posted March 10, 2012 (edited) Hello L, F you. Let me open up my heart to you...you suck! Are you okay? I know you have a condition. You have a case of the exactlies. Your face looks exactly like your backside! Goodbye hemmorhoid breath! F you. Edited March 10, 2012 by CopingGal Link to post Share on other sites
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Jarrod18 Posted March 11, 2012 Share Posted March 11, 2012 Dear -- I dont know, I have theis feeling I need to write something about you, in my chest. But the thought of you just makes me so null and void now. I used to miss you, I used to miss us, now I dont know if I even miss the relationship, any relationship even. Its not an easy feeling to describe, I sometimes look ahead in the future and think what if that 0.1% chance our paths cross again what would I say to you? What did you really give me? I know how I grew with you but it seems like theres a lack of anything substantial that remains. Remember when we broke up and I asked you "but what happens if once this is gone, its gone forever" and you replied "it wont be like that". I could tell your mind wasnt even there but with the other guy you were ****ing which is a shame because Im sure you remember that now.. But alas it is gone forever...everything that is. I know you dont miss the relationship but I think we were both suprised with the sudden depature of the slightest notion of having eachother in our lives again. I dont know if you deserve an apology for me ignoring your contact/ emails but honestly....they were selfish/self motivated. I dont want people like that in my life, the last thing I need is a pretentious/civil person for a pretend friend, especially if the only reason would be to ease your guilt. I get a sense of incompletness in your life now 1 year later. I dont know how though as I have not had much contact with you but its my inuition thats telling me this. And Ive learnt to trust this now instead of telling myself it's wrong. One day you might stop lying to yourself, admit what really makes you happy , be contempt with actual honesty and have a proper chat with me but I dont think it will matter when you finally do. I hope you do for yourself though, atleast then our 4 year relationship might not feel so....in vain so to speak. This is all for now, I might write again in another 5 or so months by then I'll be with a new girl Ive met in this new city im living in, but I think that would be the last time I ever write or think about you again. Im completly gone but its just the shadow of our relationship that needs to be shaken off now. The world forgets about a world forgotten...or something like that.. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
mississippimom Posted March 11, 2012 Share Posted March 11, 2012 That's right, read the title. For the last 30 minutes, I have been shedding tears because of YOU, and I really don't know WHY. Maybe it's because I actually had a HEART, unlike you! I found a cookbook that I bought you that you left, so being the kind "friend" that I am, I texted you last night to ask if you still wanted it, if not, it was going in the TRASH. Bear in mind, I worked hard for my money to spend on this book, it was a WASTE of money, I can see this. You didn't reply of course til this morning, going along with this I didn't mean to hurt you, blah blah, I still love you, I still care about you, blah blah blah. Then you go on and on about how you wanted us to be "friends" and blah blah blah. Last summer, when I told you I was unhappy, you obviously didn't want to do anything to change that. When I was house-sitting the house I shared with my ex-husband, while he went on vacation, that is when I told you that I was not happy in our relationship because of the different scenarios, and yet, to this day, you still don't understand why I broke it off with you. Then we continued to "hang out", talk, texted, then I stopped sleeping with you bascially, then you tell me a few weeks ago that you wasted your time "waiting" on me. In the meantime while you're "waiting" on me, I moved out of the place we shared together, on MY own, and you can't even get your s**t together. During this time, I fell in love with my best friend, the one I've known online for 3 YEARS, you know the state marshall you can't stand? Yeah...HIM. He was THERE for me, even while he is living up north, he was THERE for me when YOU WAS NOT there for me. You would reject me, neglect my feelings on everything that mattered and you want to know why I dumped you? I'll tell you why I dumped you: During the 1 1/2 years of our "relationship", you didn't work for 8 months, although I didn't mind "helping" out when needed, you don't sit on your a** during the whole time and NOT make an EFFORT to get off of your lazy a** and get a JOB. You didn't get a JOB til AFTER I broke it off with you. You took me for granted, you used my kindness. When I drove to MY job 6 days a week, you was sitting at home on your A**, claiming to be looking for a job. Whereas my guy best friend, yeah the ONE you don't like, he was working 2 extra part time jobs....and you wanna know why I dumped you? When I'd come home from a long day of assist-managing a retail store, working a long hard day, you would come up to ME and ask me to give YOU a massage and you're "tired"...WTF did you do all day? NOTHING. How can you be TIRED? I'm the one that had to drive 25 miles each way, while you sat on your ASS, not making an effort to change your employment situation. I mean c'mon, you could have worked at McD's and it would have helped in some way. And you wanna know why I dumped you? After I told you that I was not happy and distanced myself away from you, I took a vacation, which you know about, and went to my homestate. While there, the guy, yeah HIM, met up with me and I had the best 4 days of my life! We talked, we laughed, we danced into the night, he took me out for dinner (unlike you, where I usually had to pay or you paid with your unemployment checks), HE and I had the best 4 days of our lives. I never cheated on you during our relationship though. The other guy BACKED OFF and it wasn't til a year into mine and your "relationship" that he said he had been in love with me all that time. The only thing that was an issue was the distance. Well sweetie, those 4 days was the BEST time I've had in years. I don't remember having so much FUN with you. He made me feel like a QUEEN, unlike you! He rocked my world for those 4 days and I DON'T regret it. Even when I came back to this pathetic state we're in now, everyone noticed the change in me. I told them I didn't want that feeling to EVER go away. When the other guy, yeah HIM, went back to his state, that's when he realized that I was the ONE for him and said when he got through with his church training in April (which is NEXT month) he was going to move here to be with ME. When I told you about that, remember what you said? You said this: "No woman is worth moving hundred or thousands of miles away to be with her, that's the dumbest thing"........I never felt so hurt by those words that came out of your pathetic mouth. Well guess what, I am WORTH it to HIM. and you want to know why I dumped you? You finally realized that I wasn't coming back to you, so then you told me you was "moving on with your life" ..of course I was hurt, but I wasn't expecting the hurt when you failed to mentioned that you already met another woman a month ago, instead of taking things SLOW, 3 weeks ago, you MOVED in with the broad! Do you know that is called REBOUNDING, my friend? Oh no, wait, btw, I've decided this morning after crying my eyes out for the hurt you've caused me and you didn't want to hurt your new gf's feelings, but oh wait, you want to be "friends"......and the last text I sent you this morning was....."delete my number, quit acting like you give a damn, enjoy the day"...remember that? Don't be calling me, texting me, and you can take this "I want to still be friends" B***S*** up your A** where the sun DON'T shine! I told you that you don't need to worry about me anymore and oh btw, the other guy that you HATE so much for "taking you away from me", the one that you can't STAND now......guess what buddy, we are meeting on April 8th in my hometown......AGAIN that's right and he's FLYING back here with ME, how do you like that? and oh btw, you're not going to ruin this for me. You said this morning that your gf wanted to spend the day with you, let her, because my "friend", you ain't my friend. I don't want to be your "friend". And also btw, I know April 7th is the day we had planned our wedding for this year, guess what? That's the day I am flying home to go meet my new bf on the 8th and we're starting a new chapter in each other's lives Next time you text me, call me, I am going to say this.....who is this? Have a nice life and I hope you will realize what you've lost because you will never have someone that was a DAMN good woman to you. Well guess what? My boyfriend now, gets to find out what it's like GOOD RIDDANCE! and oh btw, I've blocked you on FB and you can tell your mother this, no hard feelings but I don't want to accept her friend request either. I loved your mom like a 2nd mom but I don't want to be her "friend" either. People say KARMA is a bitch, I hope that is true in this case because you don't deserve me and I sure as hell don't deserve you! If we ever run into each other in town, in which I know we will, and you're well known in this pathetic town that I'm stuck in for the time being, I am going to walk right past you, and not acknowledge your existence. If you even dare to try to say Hi to me, I'm going to say this....."Oh, have we met, you have the wrong person ...the person you're thinking of, she died the day she told you to lose her number".....and then I am going to walk strong, as you keep saying, "you gotta be strong, be strong for us" blah blah blah.....I'm going to smile and walk away from you. And you want to know why I dumped you? I think my reasons are valid, of course you don't seem to think you did anything wrong. You don't love me, you don't care about me, you're not sorry for hurting me because a REAL man wouldn't do the things you've done to me in the last 1 1/2 years. "I'm sorry, have we met?" Link to post Share on other sites
mississippimom Posted March 11, 2012 Share Posted March 11, 2012 I'm glad I could cheer you up. I have known some nasty men in my life. I once knew this guy who smelled sooo badly. I couldn't get his funk out of my face. His arm pits smelled like a dug hole that was visited by elephants. He gave me the most disgusting kiss ever. His tongue was coated with funk. It was like kissing socks that had been worn every day for six months and then rolled around in a mixture of rotten eggs, black coffee, and cabbage soup. LMAO girl, thanks for that laugh Bless it is what I would say! The one thing that used to get on my nerves is the exbf of mine would seem to fall asleep by a certain time. It used to get on my nerves, he'd be "asleep" by 9 the latest cause he was so "tired"....whatever. No wonder our sex life didn't exist alot. I think I can only recall maybe 3 or 4 times that he would have an "orgasm" ..the other times he couldn't get it up. I would be patient and understanding but after a while, it got old. He found out later that he was diabetic, which is understandable so then the doc says it was the meds that he was taking that was causing his sexual anxieties..doc says, eat right, exercise, and you'll be getting off those meds that's causing your penis not to act right and you'll feel like a brand new guy! Well the ex never listened...bitched...moaned...complained...and oral sex? HA! He used to tell me that he hated when a woman went down on him but then he would ask me to do it anyways! He said that he would never ever go down on a woman ever again bc of some bad experience from 20 years ago! I was rejected so much that I finally gave up and we just drifted apart. Link to post Share on other sites
mississippimom Posted March 11, 2012 Share Posted March 11, 2012 OH...one more thing, you need to learn how to pay attention to a woman's needs. Her emotions, everything. When the guy that has taken your old role, my new boyfriend, let's call him Greg, as I've always liked that name, even though you don't like his real name....since it irks you everytime you had to hear the excitement in my voice ...remember the roses last year that Greg sent? Those nice expensive 1-800-flowers that he had sent to my work? You know the ones that you went "wow, who sent you those"? Remember the expression on your face when I said to you, "oh thanks sweetie for my roses"!, they are beautiful"!...do you remember saying this? "Babe, those aren't from me, I'm sorry"......and then I said "yeah I know :)" ....I remember how I felt when I got those roses......Greg and I had a fight about YOU because he didn't like how you was doing me wrong. He sent the roses to apologize and rekindle our friendship (that's all that was at THAT time) and I cried thinking, "wow, these are supposed to be from MY boyfriend"......now however, this past Valentine's Day, he sent me roses..again..that said....Dear (my name), Happy Valentine's Day, Love, Greg......had those nice roses sent to my job the day before Valentine's Day He was thinking of ME enough to have beautiful pink roses sent 1/2 way across the country....again and this time, you can't tell me what to do with them It's not about the flowers, the long talks he and I have everyday, the IM's about how he feels about me, the moments counting up til he is home in April......it's the wonderful feeling of knowing this man is giving up his life and the things he could be having, such as the opportunities to make a larger income, etc....he's giving all that up, to come back to HIS homestate, to be with ME and there is nothing you can do about it. He can't stand you either, so the feelings are mutual between you two. You used to tell people, "she is MY woman", well guess what, I am NOT your woman anymore I'm Greg's "girl"...We are both so much into the 80's, everything is 80's that it's wonderful to have that much in common, yeah he's 3 years younger than I am, but he has lived life more than you'll ever live. He was in the rock band business like you was, but he stayed in it a LONG time, whereas you GAVE up, when things got rough. I don't think you really liked my daughters. You seemed to take a favortism to my youngest, my oldest, she never really did like you She was just trying to make me happy by tolerating your presence. I told her that she don't have to ever worry about you making her feel left out. Those girls are MY package and when you said you didn't want kids, that broke my heart because at one time, I wanted another child and I wanted one with you. But not anymore, I often wondered if you was jealous of my relationship with my kids because you can't stand your own mother sometimes. You seemed to be jealous alot, as you know I have joint custody with my daughters (hey that's just life) and I remember how many times you would complain bout me spending an extra day with them and how I couldn't make time for you. Hell I lived with ya, didn't I? You was very insecure in our relationship, perhaps I might have been in some ways. The one thing that you must NEVER do in front of another woman, especially if she is your gf, you don't brag about how HOT your other exes were. Don't get me wrong, you're a good looking man, however I'm just some plain country looking gal. I then realized later that I was out of your league obviously. No I might not be Brittany Spears, but I have a good heart and you saw that in me at first, but then decided to take advantage of it. You asked once if Greg was still moving here and I said yes.....that should have given you the reason to quit texting me or calling me, asking me how my day is going or good morning to you. If you have this new gf in your life, WTF are you texting me for? Why? Quit pulling my heart into 2, quit acting like you give a DAMN, because deep down, you don't love yourself. You go jump into something with this new gf, only meeting her a MONTH ago and now you're living with her? Any REAL man would take the time to get to know her, be friends with her first, date a little before you decide to go play house. When you asked me last summer if you could move in with me, I said no, you know why? Because I was trying to hint to you that you needed to get your own place, be independent, quit depending on others to take care of you, and now this. See? You didn't listen to me then. If you had done that, become independent for ONCE, maybe our relationship could have lasted. Why do you think I backed out of the house deal last summer? Because I would have been STUCK paying for it, with no help from you, you didn't even have a JOB then! Jotting all of this down, has made me realize that I deserve so much MORE than you could ever give me. Everyone told me ...do the pros and cons....do the negatives/positives......well my "friend", you got more negative points than positive, so I think I will pass on the "I want to be friends" part for the time being. Let me get completely over you, with Greg's help because trust me, I didn't think about you once when he and I was spending 4 days together......Greg will show me that I deserve better and that I am a QUEEN and yes, he is my KING. I hope that you're enjoying this beautiful day with the gf and I hope you will know this, you will never hear from me again. I deleted your number weeks ago, how bout doing the same? Quit hurting me everytime you do this "I love you still" "I still care about you" "I want you to be happy" "Please don't hate me".....enough...it stops today. Link to post Share on other sites
BewitchedandBothered Posted March 12, 2012 Share Posted March 12, 2012 Geez, yikes, and HUH? He really reeked down there, CopingGal, I kid you not. I wish I had the heart to tell him he needs to shake or do something after he pees. Link to post Share on other sites
BewitchedandBothered Posted March 12, 2012 Share Posted March 12, 2012 I think I dated the male version of this person. my ex bf had a feminine giggle, too, LOL Link to post Share on other sites
CopingGal Posted March 12, 2012 Share Posted March 12, 2012 I was rejected so much that I finally gave up and we just drifted apart. Yes, I've been in relationships like that. I was intimate with one of my ex's twice in 5 years when he was my boyfriend. His saving grace was that he treated me wonderfully as a person. I left him, but we are the best of friends now. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
BewitchedandBothered Posted March 12, 2012 Share Posted March 12, 2012 Yes, I've been in relationships like that. I was intimate with one of my ex's twice in 5 years when he was my boyfriend. His saving grace was that he treated me wonderfully as a person. I left him, but we are the best of friends now. That is how a good guy should roll. These jerks we've dealt with burned some bridges. Not well played at all, LOL. If my ex had been decent and good, it would not have taken this long to heal and I wouldn't hold a grudge and feel bitter and hatred. After healing time, I would be able to communicate with a decent ex. A smart guy would still find a way to keep a lady in his life. Link to post Share on other sites
DAIN_BRAMAGED Posted March 12, 2012 Share Posted March 12, 2012 (edited) Dear ---- I want to thank you for making me feel like you never really gave a damn about me and that I am non existent in your life now. Remember all the times you used to call me to vent about your daughter, your job, your boss, your family, your life and I would always listen? Well thank you for telling me the final time I talked to you fourteen days ago that I only called you when there was trouble... Never mind that even as friends, that's what friends are for, that is why I was there for you when you cried and got all emotional when you didn't think you could raise your daughter, when your father was in the hospital, when your sister got into trouble and when your Mom and Dad were going through rocky times. I was always there for you but I was just an annoyance to you? I had forgotten how shallow and selfish you were. So while I may be down and out of your life and may never forget you totally I am so glad I've been reacquainted with your ugly side. With that said, I do miss your voice but hope Karma bites you in the ass. Have a great life! Edited March 12, 2012 by DAIN_BRAMAGED Link to post Share on other sites
Follower Posted March 12, 2012 Share Posted March 12, 2012 As much as i want to contact you to talk you know what, your just not worth the time... 2 Link to post Share on other sites
robkris8079 Posted March 12, 2012 Share Posted March 12, 2012 thank you for the past 5 years. We had alot of great times and I will cherish alot of those memories. I hope you find the happiness in a relationship you couldn't find with me and thanks especially for showing me the kind of women I want to be with even if you only showed it part time. I have grown as a person, partner, father, and lover and this is because of our relationship. Thanks again and goodluck with life. Link to post Share on other sites
CainJ Posted March 13, 2012 Share Posted March 13, 2012 **** you, you selfish cunt. I kicked so many friends out of my life because you manipulated me, telling me they weren't 'good for me' even though all they did was mean well in everything they said. In truth, you ultimately weren't 'good for me'. **** you. **** you. **** you. Why were you so great at one point, and such a bitch the next? I'm so pissed off right now that I just want to yell. Why the **** do I love you so ****ing much when you don't deserve a bit of it? Why was part of our relationship perfect, and the next part a living hell? Why did you have to change in such a negative way? You regressed. You were better before. Now you are worse. How does it feel to be less mature now than you used to be? How does it feel to be less mature now than you were years ago? What a bunch of bull****. I feel so damn lost. Link to post Share on other sites
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