Post here instead of contacting your ex!

[MadSworthy]

If one day I actually start to matter, let me know...

I love you still... That's all ya need to know...

[DuchessKaye]

You're a scurvy snake!

[nanbullen]

How dare u text me with condolences and say to "text or call if i want to talk". Sorry, you don't get to take the high road and act all sensitive and mature and use my losing my friend to make yourself look good when you wouldn't even answer any of my calls or texts to tell me u were breaking up with me and dating somebody else! Do you SERIOUSLY think i would call or text you for anything ever again?? A**hole.

[Motherof3]

Ummmm…. That was awkward - I was just about to dump you too!!! :sick:

[CopingGal]

How dare u text me with condolences and say to "text or call if i want to talk". Sorry, you don't get to take the high road and act all sensitive and mature and use my losing my friend to make yourself look good when you wouldn't even answer any of my calls or texts to tell me u were breaking up with me and dating somebody else! Do you SERIOUSLY think i would call or text you for anything ever again?? A**hole.

 

Yeah, A**hole!

[CopingGal]

How dare u text me with condolences and say to "text or call if i want to talk". Sorry, you don't get to take the high road and act all sensitive and mature and use my losing my friend to make yourself look good when you wouldn't even answer any of my calls or texts to tell me u were breaking up with me and dating somebody else! Do you SERIOUSLY think i would call or text you for anything ever again?? A**hole.

 

 

My friend passed away and I never told my ex. I only put it on facebook and he is blocked from my facebook page. There was no way I was going to tell that bombaclot what happened. He would have been kind, nice and gentle to me and then two weeks later, stab me in the back again. No thanks!

[moosekaka]

***,

 

Please don't be cold anymore, please try to remember that we were good together once and let me say goodbye to you in person. I know you have nothing to say to me and its time to move on, but I need to face you in person before I move on.

[flyguy23]

Wow its almost a year since we split and I stopped counting the days of NC. I still think of you daily and still want you back so badly. I don't know why it was so easy for you to walk away and still so hard for me. I may never forget you, and I hate that. I wish I could forget about us.

[jdids247]

SRG,

 

You were nothing but an immature, self-centered, spoiled 25 year old woman who never grew up and acted like a 6 year old. Your lack of compromise was the most selfish way I have ever seen a person act. You used to care about me/us for the first 5 years, then when you got your ring like you wanted you transformed into someone else. You mistook my stress at work for thinking I didn't love you when I poured my heart out to you numerous times to let you know otherwise. If you were more emotionally mature you would have seen that I was busting my ass to make a name for myself so we could start building the family we've been talking about for years.

 

How you could have resented me when I was trying to start us a family and a life and all you were doing was sitting still doing nothing? You were mad at me for not buying the house YOU thought you should have. I was dragging my feet on marriage and buying a house because you weren't showing me anything that you deserved what you wanted. You didn't save any money, you decided to come home drunk whenever you felt like it. Was I supposed to pay for the house AND the wedding? You could have started bettering yourself instead of complaining how boring your life was. It was never my job or anyone else's to entertain you.

 

Your reasoning for ending the engagement? You were miserable living in an apartment and I never wanted to do anything. What a pitiful excuse for a way out. Maybe if you didn't hang out with dumbass people who you knew I wasn't fond of I would have hung out with you more...like I've told you a thousand times. If you're so miserable living in an apartment, go out and get a hobby! Do you know what those are? I also would have hung out more if you didn't put those self centered *******s ahead of me. I saw you turn into someone who was compassionate and loving into someone who was a selfish spoiled brat.

 

I know that miscarriage was hard on you....but you'll never admit it. You always acted like there was never any problems when there were clearly issues we needed to address together. I'm sorry I went into a depression after the miscarriage and wasn't myself. That was the hardest thing I've ever been through. I never wanted to see you in so much pain and still to this day I have nightmares of you screaming for me to run into the bathroom to help you. It's like you gave up on our plans after this happened. You were never the same after the miscarriage and that's a damn shame because I was trying to help you through it. If you would just stop trying to act like you're so damn tough, I think you would have handled the situation better and more maturely (instead of getting drunk every night).

 

Have fun sweeping everything under the rug for the rest of your life because it's worked so damn good for you so far. Put on that mask and act like your life is so damn perfect. Everyone else believes you because no one knows the real you besides me. You run away from problems or you don't think about them. I have news for you...the farther you run away from those problems the harder it will bite you in the ling run. Somethings not working in your life? Then give up and act like nothing happened! That's always been the most effective way to deal with things!

 

I hope those new friends are taking care of you...but we both know you're miserable and are hiding it. How can you be happy living with two egocentric people? Oh that's right...you turned into one of them too.

 

I know I wasn't the easiest person to be around the past 8 months, but we went through more than that before. If I was guilty of anything, it was wanting to be with you. I got mad and yelled because you didn't listen to my feelings. I listened to yours when you were in a slump. I dropped everything to comfort you, but when it came to me you didn't give a ****. I guess my angry explosions were years of frustration and disrespect finally letting loose. When you rejected counseling, I knew you didn't want it to work. Why you were crying for "days on end" over the relationship ending is beyond me. You knew it wasn't working and you didn't seem to care then...so why did you care when it ended?

 

I think the voices (your idiotic friends) got to you and you started to believe the **** that always pours out of their mouths. Funny how when you hang with the birds you start acting like a bird. I hope it was worth it.

 

I miss the hell out of you...not you now, but the person I was engaged to. My best friend (your words too) who was so ecstatic to get married that you literally wanted to go to the courthouse that same month and sign the papers. If that happened and you started to act this way, we would have been divorced before our 1 year anniversary. I don't like the person you've become and neither do the people who actually care about you. These new friends only see you as "Fun SRG", the one who has nothing to worry about in her life and is a free spirit. Well, we miss the real person we used to love....but that person is dead and gone.

 

Funny how influence changes people sometimes for the worse. Have fun with your fake friends and fake life.

[jdids247]

Holy crap that felt great...even 4 months later!

[Purple7737]

I still can not believe this but after 3 months of strict no contact, you send me a breadcrumb text over the weekend.

 

So let me get this straight...everything seemed great one week. The next week you literally from the face of the earth. Now three months later you want to reach out to me because you're wondering how I'm doing? Well I've been fu**in fantastic. I've lost those stubborn 10 lbs., work is going great and I have met a nice guy.

 

So what happened? Did you meet someone you thought was going to work out and it didn't go as well as you hoped? Did you realize I was truly a good, fun person to be around and you missed my friendship? Perhaps you have been shocked not to see me online ever and the fact that I deleted you from all of my profiles? Maybe you tried to email me and was shocked that I never returned your message(s) since all of your emails get sent directly to the trash? Or maybe you are confused or shocked that I never contacted you and begged for you to stay in my life?

 

Who knows, but what I do know is that I am so over you H. and I am da*n proud of myself for not caving in. It hasn't been easy though. There are a lot of things that reminds me of you/us, but I WILL remain strong. First thing in the morning I'm contacting my phone provider to block your number.

 

Even though you ripped my heart out and shred it to pieces, I never had any ill feelings against you. I was more disappointed in you for not giving me a proper goodbye. However, please don't try to reach me ever again. You don't deserve my friendship.

[jennisfora]

im so sad, and angry right now. i thought you wanted to catch up, but only willing to text to make plans, and not actually talk on the phone? i dont know why, but i felt insulted. you want me to forgive you, yet you do the minimum of effort possible?

 

i would love to meet and catch up, but, i just am not feeling it right now. i just dont think you care enough, and i dont feel like setting myself up for more pain for no reason. it isnt worth it. you are not worth it.

[nanbullen]

My friend passed away and I never told my ex. I only put it on facebook and he is blocked from my facebook page. There was no way I was going to tell that bombaclot what happened. He would have been kind, nice and gentle to me and then two weeks later, stab me in the back again. No thanks!

 

I didn't tell that slug. i unfriended him on facebook, but we have some mutual friends so he found out like that. I don't think he even gives a sh** about my friend dying. I think he was just trying to feel me out to see how mad i am.but who knows with that moron.

 

I'm like you. why show him my vunerability to have him screw me over? I will never let him see any emotion from of me again!

[CopingGal]

I didn't tell that slug. i unfriended him on facebook, but we have some mutual friends so he found out like that. I don't think he even gives a sh** about my friend dying. I think he was just trying to feel me out to see how mad i am.but who knows with that moron.

 

I'm like you. why show him my vunerability to have him screw me over? I will never let him see any emotion from of me again!

 

I have completely cut that bastard out of my life...completely. I'm saving myself for someone I can trust. I'm not interested in having another relationship with a sociopathic person.

[CopingGal]

My birthday is coming up...remember that? In three years you only celebrated it once. The other times, I didn't even get a card. In 2009, 10 days before my birthday, you jumped into a relationship with another women just because I was mad that you stood me up and I told you I have nothing to say to you.

 

Last year in May, you didn't celebrate it and of course you said you would. That was a lie. Why would you plan to celebrate my birthday when you were cheating on me? No birthday celebration again. No card. No nothing.

 

But yet you celebrate your son's HALF-birthday! This is why the women in your life resent your son. You put your son up on a pedastal while treating the women in your life like crap.

 

I will never, EVER be with someone who doesn't think my birthday is important enough to celebrate. I had to ask and ask....practically beg for you to celebrate my birthday. I hate you, and everything you stand for. I'm not ready to let go of my anger. I hate you, you disgusting, filthy, piece of nothing. I hate you, you sick, twisted bastard.

[kindest]

I'm sorry but I have to disappear again.

 

Over the course of our relationship, I know you treated me well, I felt loved, taken care of, but I guess we had a problem with time. You ended things while we were in the process of building a sturdier connection between us. You made so many promises and we made plans that didn't push through. It hurts so much that turned your back on me just like that, without me knowing what I had done wrong. I know you saw something in me that you didn't like or couldn't live with, but you could have brought it up. We said we'd always be open with each other but you stopped being open with me. My heartbreak is coming from the shock of you being a completely different person overnight and never knowing the reason why you changed just like that.

 

I felt terrible when we lost touch. Terrible that I had to avoid you. But I had to.

 

Now that we've been communicating again, I feel happy yet sad, peaceful yet angry, so many mixed emotions. I cannot handle it. This is the reason why I have to say goodbye indefinitely. I hope I am able to keep the strength to not respond to you nor contact you anymore.

 

I would love to still keep you in my life, but the pain of knowing that you are setting your sights on somebody else and pretending to be fine with it is too torturous. I just can't do it for now. I have to fully heal first.

 

One day I know you will look back and imagine what could have been if you had only tried harder, loved deeper, as I know I have loved you. One day you will remember how I love you and will feel the excruciating pain from the loss of a great love. In the meantime, enjoy your singlehood, go out with as many women as you can... and should the time come that we cross paths again, I hope it comes at a time when we have completely healed.

 

My love has no limits, and I refuse to feel defeated. I know that when the rightful person comes, I will love him the same way I love you. Maybe even more.

[CopingGal]

Today I feel a little pity towards you.

[jdids247]

I hope your shiny new friends were worth wrecking something good.

 

"You've been my only boyfriend". Well if it was so bad then why did you agree to marry me? You even said yourself I was the best thing you've ever had when we ended it.

 

I know my jealousy pushed you away, but I was given the shaft. I shouldn't have to reserve my fiance like I reserve a hotel room. You said you live a boring life then the next week you say you're not a boring person...then do something healthy about it. Pushing me away for people who won't matter in the future is a smart thing to do.

 

You're welcome for me paying all of your bills for the past 4 years and buying you that car, because God knows you'd never thank me for any good deeds I did. But when you buy me drinks once you think that's better than you not coming home and instead going on late night binges with other men and I was supposed to think that was OK? I don't care if they reminded you of your brothers and they were fun....life isn't fun all of the time. If it is, you're either rich without a job or you're living the wrong way. Life is about circumstances and what you do with them. It isn't about running away from yourself. You run long enough it will come back to haunt you

 

I respect you and think you're a great person. When you showed me love it was the best feeling in the world. I'm missing that the most, but we know that would only last a couple of days and you'd be right back to your normal, crabby self. You'd get mad at me for retaliating to your hurtful outbursts and I was the a**hole. You treated me like crap and everyone else great. You put on a mask in front of everyone else and show your true colors to me...why? What did I do to justify your behavior? Nothing and you said it yourself. So why did I get these crabby episodes all of the time? I showed you humor, honesty, compassion, I helped you when you needed it and catered to your every need. What did i get? Yeah you helped out, I'm not taking that away from you, but you did the bare minumum.

 

You treated me just like your mother treats you and your father. You know you hate the way your mother acts? Well you're turning into her. How does that make you feel? I said that to your face not to hurt you, but to make you realize the way you were treating the one you "loved". You are becoming the person you hate the most.

 

I hope this GIGS episode wakes you up. I'm not asking this for my health, but yours. Life isn't about running away from issues you yourself create, and it's a shame that's all you know. Talking to you half the time was like talking to a 6 year old girl who didn't get their way. Always whining...it's like you never developed into an adult and you're stuck trying to relive your childhood. I hope you find whatever makes you happy, and if it's reliving your teenage years for the rest of your life, then so be it. To each their own.

 

I wish you the best...I really do. I just have so much depleted emotions pent up and need to let them out.

 

If you ever get your crap together, call me. I'd love to catch up and talk about YOU. Not about how much fun your friends are and how irresponsible you and they are. I don't care about them. I love to have fun too, and you know that, but the way you're having fun will lead you to the land of no return. You know alcoholism runs in the family. Whenever you're drunk it's like you're staring into a far away land trying to find yourself. You said it yourself your friends are a**holes. Why would you want to be around those people...to give yourself an ego boost when they slam everyone around you?

[dsw31]

Shame shame go away

Come again some other day

Memories keep haunting me

Help me chase them all away

Hush now settle down

Button up don't make a sound

Close your eyes turn around

Help me burn this to the ground

Come now take the blame

That's ok I'll play the game

I don't care it's all the same

Watch it all go up in flames

Use me up spit me out

Let me be your hand me down

Pain pain go away come again some other day

[Follower]

I hope your shiny new friends were worth wrecking something good.

 

"You've been my only boyfriend". Well if it was so bad then why did you agree to marry me? You even said yourself I was the best thing you've ever had when we ended it.

 

I know my jealousy pushed you away, but I was given the shaft. I shouldn't have to reserve my fiance like I reserve a hotel room. You said you live a boring life then the next week you say you're not a boring person...then do something healthy about it. Pushing me away for people who won't matter in the future is a smart thing to do.

 

You're welcome for me paying all of your bills for the past 4 years and buying you that car, because God knows you'd never thank me for any good deeds I did. But when you buy me drinks once you think that's better than you not coming home and instead going on late night binges with other men and I was supposed to think that was OK? I don't care if they reminded you of your brothers and they were fun....life isn't fun all of the time. If it is, you're either rich without a job or you're living the wrong way. Life is about circumstances and what you do with them. It isn't about running away from yourself. You run long enough it will come back to haunt you

 

I respect you and think you're a great person. When you showed me love it was the best feeling in the world. I'm missing that the most, but we know that would only last a couple of days and you'd be right back to your normal, crabby self. You'd get mad at me for retaliating to your hurtful outbursts and I was the a**hole. You treated me like crap and everyone else great. You put on a mask in front of everyone else and show your true colors to me...why? What did I do to justify your behavior? Nothing and you said it yourself. So why did I get these crabby episodes all of the time? I showed you humor, honesty, compassion, I helped you when you needed it and catered to your every need. What did i get? Yeah you helped out, I'm not taking that away from you, but you did the bare minumum.

 

You treated me just like your mother treats you and your father. You know you hate the way your mother acts? Well you're turning into her. How does that make you feel? I said that to your face not to hurt you, but to make you realize the way you were treating the one you "loved". You are becoming the person you hate the most.

 

I hope this GIGS episode wakes you up. I'm not asking this for my health, but yours. Life isn't about running away from issues you yourself create, and it's a shame that's all you know. Talking to you half the time was like talking to a 6 year old girl who didn't get their way. Always whining...it's like you never developed into an adult and you're stuck trying to relive your childhood. I hope you find whatever makes you happy, and if it's reliving your teenage years for the rest of your life, then so be it. To each their own.

 

I wish you the best...I really do. I just have so much depleted emotions pent up and need to let them out.

 

If you ever get your crap together, call me. I'd love to catch up and talk about YOU. Not about how much fun your friends are and how irresponsible you and they are. I don't care about them. I love to have fun too, and you know that, but the way you're having fun will lead you to the land of no return. You know alcoholism runs in the family. Whenever you're drunk it's like you're staring into a far away land trying to find yourself. You said it yourself your friends are a**holes. Why would you want to be around those people...to give yourself an ego boost when they slam everyone around you?

 

Feeling the pain! Like reading one of my own rants.

 

Just keep trucking!

 

Dont know about yours but my ex-fiance was so amazing when she was showing the love, so happy bouncy and full of life then poof, ignorant selfish ****e would appear right afterwords... Funny how the mask was so similar to the loving article, like some really cheap salesman putting wood-chips in the oil, see she sounds great no?

[Magpie_x]

*ring ring*

 

"oh hello, let me get this straight before you even open your mouth and yes for once your going to bloody listen so listen good!

 

For a start, YOU kicked me out, YOU was the one who told me you could manage! funny how 6 friggin months on, i'm STILL the one checking your not being charged for unpaid bills, STILL the one who has to waste my time trying to get my name off stupid bills which im refused everytime i try because YOU CAN'T PAY THEM!!!!! when the hell have you ever taken 2 seconds let alone minutes to realise that YOU got yourself into this mess and NOT ME!!! i have no choice but to waste my time trying to resolve these stupid issues because your too incapable to get off your lazy are and do it yourself, or is it because you know how much debt your wracking up?!

 

I told you i would happily keep the flat for myself as i could manage financially and YOU cant but nooooooo! you had to sit on your high stubborn horse and demand i leave, well look who's in the crap?! oh no not me i'm better off monthly with all my money, look at you, don't have a penny to live on, your friends and yourself are that desperate they have to pay for you to go out every weekend, you have NO idea what it's like to take responsibility!!

 

Another thing, thanks for ALL your support, i've busted my ass off every single F***ING time to help you and be there for you, i came round and bought you food when all your cupboards were bare cos you don't have a pot to piss in, i've filled your car full of petrol every time you've not had money to get yourself to work, i've done EVERYTHING for you cos i stupidly forgot i'm your mother, but where have you been for me?!

 

You fill my head full of so much ****, and i bet you sit there feeling so smug, you worm your way back into my brain when you know the tiny littlest bit of me has started to move on and you make sure i can't...well guess what?!...

 

FINAL STRAW MATE!

 

i don't deserve your crap, i don't deserve being used as a door mat! how about for once in your effing life you take responsibility for yourself?! huh?

how about you be a big boy and pay your own debts, get your own accounts sorted out or go an ask someone else to do all your dirty work!!

 

i've been dying for you to come back but after the fact i get intouch crying my heart out over the death of a friend, the very fact you can't say ANYTHING to me when clearly all i needed was some support shows your not worth it.

 

Karmas a bitch and your next relationship will be with her when she f**ks YOU over and you get a taste of the torture you've put me through!!!

 

Anyway you can talk now but i'm not listening,

 

oh btw, I LOVE YOU LOL!!!!"

 

*hangs up*

 

ahhhh i feel abit better

[jdids247]

Feeling the pain! Like reading one of my own rants.

 

Just keep trucking!

 

Dont know about yours but my ex-fiance was so amazing when she was showing the love, so happy bouncy and full of life then poof, ignorant selfish ****e would appear right afterwords... Funny how the mask was so similar to the loving article, like some really cheap salesman putting wood-chips in the oil, see she sounds great no?

 

That's exactly how she acted! It's like I had to reserve myself in order for her to be happy. That's what's the hardest about this ending...when it was good it was great but when it wasn't, then there was hell to pay!

[CantLoseHer]

Yea I acted immature and sent some mean texts when I found out you were dating a coworker after our 1 and 1/2 year relationship within 2 weeks of breaking up.Hmm oh yeah I left you alone after that and I even apologized and wished you the best of luck...only for you to say "stop trying to contact me or I'm gonna call the cops". So i let you play your bs and didn't respond. Oh you broke up w/ the guy and want to text me now "how could i ever love anyone else" blah blah? Get f*cked psycho. Im sick of the mind games. I miss who you were to me, a first love and everything but I hate the person you are. You may have a hot appearance but sooner or later everyone sees the real you, a crazy b*tch. I may not be the hottest guy or go on as many dates but at least I can look forward to meeting the right one for me. I can't say the same for you unless they're as mentally abusive as you have been to me throughout all the bs in and after our relationship, but even that seems to be to good for you.. end rant "/

[MadSworthy]

I love you from the bottom of my heart...

[CopingGal]

You have no shame because you have no conscious. How can I remember the good times if everything was just a lie. I never thought I would meet a man as evil and disgusting as you are. Today my anger is fading. You are who your are and that's it. Some people are good. Some people are bad. You are bad. that's the way it is. Some people are basically honest; some people are compulsive liars. You are a compulsive liar. That's the way it is. Some people are committed. Some people are sluts. You are a slut. That's the way it is. True. Some men are good. Some men are abusive. You are abusive. That's the way it is. Some people are people. Some people are scum. You are scum. That's the way it is. True.