Post here instead of contacting your ex!

[just1guy]

So wait..you now post a pic of you and that new douche when you always told me you never liked posting couple pics to validate a relationship? Whatever, he looks kinda like a guy..except for that doublechin of his. I didn't know you were into that and not healthy, fit guys like me.

 

By the way I lied. That belly and butt that you have is not a good thing to have, especially at your age. Good luck with that.

[broncosfrk83]

We had our rough times and we had our awesome times. I have finally realized of what a selfish person u are. You come off as a piece of **** to me. You are soo self centered and you only care about what you want and whats good for you. You ****ing broke up with me in a text after being together for 3 years...WTF? You then seem to act so happy, even a day after the break up, and that pisses me off. I hate that i wasted so much of my time and love on you when u say that for the past 6 months u have felt just like friends...what a b it ch! You waited to break up with me untill you knew you could be ok with it, how selfish can you be? Now youre acting like a trashy Ho. Ha day after day you are becoming someone i wouldnt want, but yet for some reason i still want you back....its total BS!

[Chitowngirl]

I know you said we're not compatible but I don't believe you. I think you are too proud to admit you still love me and want me back and to work on things. I am guessing you bad-mouthed me to your friends and family and would have to swallow your pride to take me back.

I miss you every day. I love you. I cry over you. 8 months later and I still am madly in love with you. Even after all the mean things we've said about each other. Why do I feel this way? Did I love you more than you loved me? Why is this still so hard for me? I don't want to date. I can't focus on any other guys b/c of you. I want to be with you but we need to go into counseling. I know that is not ideal right now. I know I am dreaming. I am just sad and lonely. I need to get my schooling finished and then hopefully in 3-4 years we can meet for drinks. You will be 39 or 40 years old by then. INSANE!!!!!!! I hope you do not have kids then. If you're divorced I can forgive you but kids no I dont think so, but you never know. As long as you're single when I'm ready. I am only 27 and not ready now. I know we are 10 yrs apart but I hope you understand. I know if we're meant to be together we will be. I love you and miss you. I hope you are miserable without me.

[icyness]

I can't believe I'm feeling this way over you again. It's as if I never went through any of the healing.

I can't believe I lowered myself to send you such warm Birthday wishes after mine passed and you of course said nothing.

I can't believe you chose a stranger over your best friend.

I don't believe I'll ever get out of this nightmare.

I don't beleive I'll ever stop loving you.

I wish I could.

[just1guy]

I can't believe that you still creep into my dreams when I'm sleeping and break up my sleep. I am sick and tired of it. I know you're too stubborn to see what you've done, and you've changed so much since we broke up almost two months ago. Ican't believe I broke NC to send you a goodbye letter, but I had to and that will be the last you hear from me. That letter represented a cleansing of you from me.

 

I am done.

[sugahoney]

I am tired of this, i cant do it anymore, you leaving work yesterday and not telling me you had left and then ignoring my call and never calling me back has opened my eyes to the way you treat me and I wont have it anymore. I am a great person and i dont deserve to be treated like this. You can only contact me when it is convenient for you? Well it will never be convenient for me to talk to you as I obviously mean nothing to you. How could I have ever believed that you really loved me????

 

I just want you to leave me alone, just continue to pretend I dont exist and dont talk to me on monday. I am through with you.

[amilyah]

i just called you babe.This is a true story.Guess what now im taking shots of vodka>>>>>>>I cant believe your doing this to me.Your telling me you love me then i find out your hitting on every one around you.Your drunk and all i want to do is come save you.Why do you do this to me???//

 

we have been apart for three months,you find out im dating and you come back with the games why do you do this to me....I love you but wont put up with the games .....Please give me a break....

[bettedaviseyes]

Dear J,

 

So you come to realization again that that girl isn't worth your time and only wants

to **** you. You knew the consequences if you and her hooked up. I don't know what you two did, but it wouldn't lead to a healthy relationship. I know you're only in it for the ****, but that's the only thing she can do. She won't love or treat you like I did. She won't be cool with the things your into at all. You'll only come home to argue and see that she moved out, just like she did with your friend, which whom he still loves. How do you even feel about all of this, taking your friend's girl and all? She even said she doesn't want people like you, meaning the things you and your boys do. I guess she's blind as a bat, and doesn't see that you are the actual prime example of the type that she hates.

So I decide not to talk to you for a whole month because you just loved to brag about her to me. Were you trying to make me feel bad? That only helped me get over you even more. The fact that you lied to me too was upsetting. You never told me about that one time you hooked up with a friend's gf's sister. You disgust me. I don't know why you even bothered to text me yesterday. Thanks for ruining my day.I was doing fine for a month till I wake up to find a text from you saying whats up. That just made me reminisce to the good times and made me miss you. I don't even know where this is gonna lead to now, but this roller coaster has got to stop sometime.

 

Love,

ME

[Brokenlady]

I hate you. I hate you for all the lies you told me, all the mean and selfish things you did to manipulate all of us and I want you to know that you are poison in my life. I don't want to hear your empty promises, your sweet manipulative words. I wish I was over you and my kids could forget you ever existed. I regret all of it. I would not do it all over again. It wasn't worth it.

 

You crushed me underneath your emotional baggage, and seemed all too content to keep doing it even as I writhed in pain. And having dropped out of therapy, you're determined to never get better. Change is hard and its just so much easier to lie and pretend than actually do it, isn't it?

 

I suspect you "needed" me more than you ever really loved me. You said yourself that if you couldn't make it work with me, you knew it would never work with anyone. Maybe you'll enjoy being alone. But I doubt it. I expect that you'll be bedding down with the nearest piece when the chance arises. Maybe that will keep you warm at night, because I won't be keeping you warm anymore.

 

Wishing for eternal sunshine and a spotless mind......

BL

[glamgurl]

Did you even really care about me? Do you feel bad? How come I think I care more? It sucks that I care and cant' wait to not.

[LSC]

I was going to meet up with you after you called last week but I see no good reason as long as you are living with a loser and his drug addict friends. For more then three years I gave you me, my family, my life, my home. We had our whole life planned together marriage and more. Why do you after 7 months still call, you want me to be there for you, support you, boost your low self esteem then you go back to your new B/F. He has no job, sells drugs and if he's not staying with you he's living with his Mommy and Daddy, drives their vehicles and has them still pay his bills. Come on he's a 35 year old baby. I am self sufficient, own my own place and have no bills. I took your kids in as my own never missed a soccer game, baseball game, or any of their other activities. You say you still love me but don't want to be with me.

I asked you before not to contact me but you do. I have now removed you from my emails(blocked you), blocked your number on my phone and am telling you never to contact me again. I can not be as hateful as you so be careful since you will be crashing in the next few months or even loosing your kids due to those you now hang with.

I hope for the kids sake you see the life you're leading is a recipe for disaster.

[Sadbutrelieved]

I thought of you this morning, and I laughed. I've lost 5 pounds since I found out you moved on without breaking up with me first, and it's because every time I think of you I lose my appetite. Thanks a million deadbeat! While you're close to being homeless and fighting to hurry your way into moving in with your new woman because, after all, you are entitled to live off of someone else, I will be out buying some new smaller clothes and making plans with friends for the weekend.

[LSC]

I thought of you this morning, and I laughed. I've lost 5 pounds since I found out you moved on without breaking up with me first, and it's because every time I think of you I lose my appetite. Thanks a million deadbeat! While you're close to being homeless and fighting to hurry your way into moving in with your new woman because, after all, you are entitled to live off of someone else, I will be out buying some new smaller clothes and making plans with friends for the weekend.

 

What is it with guys who shack up with women anymore. Why are women attracted to men with no life. My ex just let a looser move in with her. I couldn't imagine living off of someone else.

[Sadbutrelieved]

What is it with guys who shack up with women anymore. Why are women attracted to men with no life. My ex just let a looser move in with her. I couldn't imagine living off of someone else.

 

I don't know. My ex talks a good game, but it's all lies. Before the woman realizes he's full of BS he's already moved in. When I met him he told me he loved me on our second date. I should have known to run then, but I was stupid.

[LSC]

I don't know. My ex talks a good game, but it's all lies. Before the woman realizes he's full of BS he's already moved in. When I met him he told me he loved me on our second date. I should have known to run then, but I was stupid.

 

That's why I'm stopping all contact with my Ex. She knows he has no job, no home, lives off of others. And she told me he is a B/S artist and she calls me to boost her ego and low self esteem. No more let her cry on his stoned ass shoulders. What a looser. We had it all, but now she has nothing and will end up in jail.

[DustySaltus]

I ALMOST cracked today K, almost.

 

Can let you know that I'm down now though. Can't give you the satisfaction.

 

I guess the feeling I have now is where do I go from here? I thought you were the one I was going to marry and I was wrong. I was wrong about so many things. My concept of love is completely different from yours.

 

I don't know what's going to happen with my current gf, but I am trying to move forward. It's hard when there's 3 feet of snow outside though and start reminiscing about you and I watching the sunset on the Mediterranaen (or however you spell it).

 

I had two goals in my life at one point: To get my dream job and to be the best partner I could've been for you. Not only did your jealousy and mental illness destroy us, it almost cost me that job as well.

 

We had such a deep connection and it was cut in a matter of days. It still hurts, nearly 8 months later...it still does from time to time.

 

Why did this have to happen to me? I'm a good dude with a good heart. Guess I need to stop asking that question or I will continue to drive myself crazy....

[confused_pjl]

"How can you spoil me so much at Christmas, talk about getting engaged in the beginning of the year, have a pregnancy scare and say you would have been happy to have my baby, care and love me so much and then BOOM, tell me your confused about us and then BOOM, tell me you want to break up and then BOOM, end up in the arms of some other man SO QUICKLY.

 

Over the past 3 years you've criticized so many women for doing exactly what you just did, said you could never do this and never would. I'm so disgusted in you it makes me sick!"

[abdellost]

Hey N,

 

what? ur 15 and lonely and sad? me too. no dont have a gf. yea ok i know how u feel. Hey n how are u today. N, i need to tell you something. i like you alot. Hey n, i got nothing to say, bored out of my mind. What? say anything? ok i love you...

Hey N, you got EVERYTHINg to tell me? whats this everything? Oh iam the love of your life?!?

 

Something, anything, everything. wow what a love story that fell in place.

 

~fast forward 2 years`~ your mom started it! i didnt even say anything. all i said was yes ma'am while she was yelling at me. What now you think we wont get married cuz she said so?

 

~fast forward 2 years later~ what? you need me to hold you tight and never let you go? sure thing baby ill never let you go. baby stop crying, im urs forever i promise. yes yes, ur my everything, noone else can take you away from me.

 

~fast forward a day after taht~..what baby? what are you texting me? your texting me is not like you? what? you been lying to yourself for 2 years? What you still love me but love isnt everything? YOU BITCH YOU CANT LEAVE ME. I GAVE UP EVERYTHING FOR YOU. ITS TOO LATE I CANT GO BACK FOR THEM. WHAT? NO ****ING DONT LEAVE ME YOU CANT DO THIS TO ME, YOUR MY EVERYTHING ~shuts phone and changes number~

 

~present day~ i am in a very strict country, kissing and all that is after marriage. We never thought we would do stuff, even kiss. And we have. she always cried and felt bad for it. How did she leave me? how can she leave me so fast? she used to live off me. Read her last text message, the one before the break up: "baby please, you mean everything to me. i cant ever see u hurt. im crying. plz dont ever let me go. i never want to feel that you can live without me.please baby hold me tight. i love you so much you adorable thing"

 

Meh whats going on guys? is this why we good guys turn bitter at the world? for 4 years i never CHECKED out a girl, imagined another girl. never ****ing lied to her, never hid anything! i even told her when girls would try to get with me, knowing it will kill her. my god. i dont want to lose my morals. i want to stay being a good kind guy everyone sees me...

[bettedaviseyes]

So I realized it's almost Valentine's day, and I had a flashback of when you asked me to be your valentine. Now, I know it was a stupid holiday that we both hated, but I can't help but miss you so damn much. I'm still mad and upset at you, but it doesn't change the way I feeel. Even if I try to hate you, it just makes me miss you even more. I hope you are happy with whatever whore you're with right now. I can care less about her, but I kept and always will keep my promise for being here when you need me, or need someone to talk to, even if we're just friends.

 

Happy Valentines J,

ME

[just1guy]

You are so pathetic and fake. I wanted closure so I looked at your fb page like an idiot. You post pics of you and your ugly new bf, post status updates about you and him, and changed your relationship status to with him. I remember when you told me how you hated to broadcast your life like that. Now I know you're just as stupid and immature as those people you hate.

 

I am so glad I did because you are not the person that I will ever be with again. You tried to act mature when we were together, but the truth is out. And now I can finally move on knowing that I'm not missing the same person anymore.

 

Those two years I have been nothing but the best bf, supporting, loving, and caring for you and you decided to go on and try another loser. I'm sure that your parents are really happy about you leaving me for that FOB.

 

Well I won't be a notch on your bedpost and hang around you like all of your loser guy friends who wish they were with you, but don't have the balls to defriend you. No wonder you like to stay friends with your exs. You want that security and attention from them because you're too scared to be by yourself.

 

You're about to be 25, have a crappy job with no future, lazy, messy (who the hell would leave dirty plates and trash everywhere), irresponsible (can't even pay a bill on time..WTF), and you're getting FAT...yes that gut and those fat dimples you have on the back of your thighs are disgusting as sin. You complain about it and then you don't even want to go to the gym with me?

 

Enjoy your rebound.

 

/rant

Edited February 13, 2010 by just1guy

[Sadbutrelieved]

I hate you. I hate that you didn't care enough to even say goodbye. F you. I hope your new GF breaks your heart like you broke mine.

[bettedaviseyes]

You know what J, **** you. I try to be nice and you're still a complete ass. How could I have been so blind? I'm healing, rather than crying about you on Valentines day.

[soulm8]

Well Jer, I have to thank you for not replying to my email and I truly hope you don't. It is for the best because I don't trust you and probably never would.

 

I'm thankful for the lessons you taught me. They sting but they've helped me grow as a woman.

 

I hope you find what you're looking for, if anything at all. Life is too short.

 

Take care

[Sadbutrelieved]

I'm glad you're gone. If you were here I'd be spending Valentine's Day with you and I'd be doing all the work. I would give you a present and would get nothing in return, or something you stole. You would spend the day being treated to everything and I would spend the entire day trying to get away from you, in reality. Instead, I'm going on a Valentine's Day brunch date with someone YOU would hate instantly because of your inferiority, and I will look hot. Put that in your weed pipe and smoke it, loser.

[MySweetie'sGone]

Happy Valentine's Day babe. I love you, but will never tell you that again.