Post here instead of contacting your ex!

[FinOuch]

I just thought you should know...the girl you left me for still logs onto Match.com every day. Guess you found someone you deserve!

[Lil1]

I still think of you from time to time. Some days, like today, reminiscing of your love makes me so sad it weighs me down. These are fleeting moments that really mess with my head because I know we were not right for each other, yet I still think of you. I hope that you are happy I really do... and I also hope you think of me every now and then too. If I could ask one thing of you, is to please remain true. True to your self, true to those around you. Don't forget your core values, you have many great qualities and it would be a shame to hear you have lost touch with the lovely person you once were. I heard from a mutual friend that you've been living it up.. that you woke up after a party with no pants and that you lost almost 2 grand! I don't know what's going on with you but this person our friend described is not the you I once knew. I wish you the best this life has to offer, and I hope my heart will one day fully recover.

[The_Good_Me]

I miss you so much! xxx

[RodG]

I hate you.

 

Goodbye.

[bikinibeach]

i'm confused by which part of

 

"you are the worst excuse for a boyfriend, friend or man that i have met in my entire life"

 

and

 

"you will never see my face, hear my voice or be graced by my words ever again"

 

...which part of that translated to you sending me more emails and trying to invite me to see you perform? are you kidding? that had got to the be the biggest joke ever.

 

i don't even see a human when i think of you anymore. you are something so backwards and twisted and ill and unhealthy...you are a vortex black hole of negativity and hurt and pain and you don't want to crawl out yet you complain about the darkness.

 

your ex should go back to her reserve with all the other crazies. ...she wants you to buy her 'behrs, eh?" and "shmokes"...you are surprised how?

 

i feel infernally sorry for you and what you are and what you allowed yourself to become from that beautiful insightful faced child in those touching photos (which i've thrown out, by the way)

 

but what do i know? you are MUCH better off with your codependent social anxiety fetal alcohol syndrome (probably) depressed ex and your almost 40 year old cousin with no job living at his mom's house smoking pot....they are MUCH better sources of advice than I will EVER be!!

 

also, i am 95 percent sure you lied about your dad's high powered job. he doesn't really speak english and looks and acts like oh...a pizza delviery man maybe? or ...a cab driver!

 

anyway, you are a liar. and a loser.

 

i hope you end up having sex with that monstrous faced friend of yours with no style. i'm confused because there's is definitely something very mr. ed-like about her face, but horses have full lips..hers are extremely long and thin and rubbery looking...?

 

also you have stretch marks and are pigeon toed. your legs are too short for your body and you look awful in skinny jeans.

 

so yeah.

 

[Nohbody]

I'm posting here instead of reading your blog, looking for your photobucket, and otherwise e-stalking you. Not going to do it, even though there is a whisper in the back of my mind, sweet masochistic nothings. Nope. Not gonna do it. There is nothing between us anymore, and I'm sure I'm just a distant (and distasteful) memory now. Human beings. How vulgar.

[dicky_fish]

I trusted you to be the one thing not to let me down in my life. Even from the early stages of our relationship I told you I had these issues and you told me you understood, and when I finally opened up fully I was completely at one with myself. I don't want to go back to that person I was! I spent years in the wilderness and I can't go back there because it will just lead to my isolation again and I fear it may destroy me this time. Please answer my prayers and come back! My heart is still in this! I love you so much FairyFi xxxxx

[replicator]

Is it crazy for me to hope that you still think of me? A part of me fantasizes about you coming back to me.. Its been years since we spoke, but its hard to let go of the person you believed was your one true love. The person in this world you were supposed to be together with. I don't know how to convince myself otherwise, other than to try to find someone to replace you with.

 

As I said when we parted ways, I would miss you forever. And that has been true. Each and every day - I've longed to be with you. I know you made your choice, and I have to honour that. I want you to be happy, and I will keep this to myself, although it eats me up inside. This pain is mine to deal with, and not caused by you. It is caused by me not wanting to let you go.

[emby]

What the hell???

No really, what the hell?

We're no contact after you've spouted all this crap about being friends since we get on so well together, and the day you get home from abroad you comment my facebook status which is practically all you do that whole day on facebook! Trying to get my attention wondering why the hell I'm not talking to you. I wait a day and then call you...no pick up...leave a text explaining myself, asking you to call later so we can chat. A nice friendly chat like friends do, remember that??? But no...you don't return my call. Next day, there you are on facebook chat. Hey, I called you. Yeah I was having lunch with family. SO WHY DIDNT YOU CALL BACK AFTER? Fine fine...but I want to catch up properly now you've shoved yourself in my face giving me notifications...can we talk on the phone? No, might as well speak on facebook since we're both here...FINE...tell you everything thats been going on with me...you barely say anything. The occasional 'lol' or question. So I ask for a phonecall, cos this isn't fun for either of us. Oh no...going to work in half an hour, then going out....fine...call me tomorrow...oh no...don't think I'll get chance.

Just tell me to eff off if you want, it's okay you know.

No no it's not that I'm just busy.

Still didn't call me today.

 

Well SCREW YOU! I was fine until you came back! Get the hell out of the country again...why not go to Amsterdam for that sleazy weekend you wanted? Enjoy your drugs and whores. Just stay the hell away from me. Stop pretending you want to be friends when you can't afford me 10 MINUTES of your time.

[bikinibeach]

i miss being there to comfort you when you were sleeping fitfully.

 

i loved taking care of you.

 

i wasn't perfect but i wish you would see that the bad things i did were in response to the huge issue was that your ex overshadowed our relationship- and you let her. encouraged it. and ultimately chose her and your weird "friends" who are now gone, over me.

 

the fact that YOU of all people are dating right now is a huge joke. there is nobody else for me right now. there hasn't been since we were together and i'm not the one in danger of (yet another?) rebound.

 

again you sacrifice someone else's love and emotions on the altar of your m pedestal, your fear and codependency.

 

i wish i could meet someone who feels about me the way i felt for you.

 

if you only knew what you gave up.

 

i feel my ties and desire for the past with you waning and it starts to ...worry me.

 

where will that love go once my loving memories of you are dulled completely?

 

you have never had a real relationship, by the way. the closest you came to one was with me and you never knew what hit you.

 

i don't like that the idea of you now makes me feel physically ill. you are one of the people i always despised. small town minded canucks with no personal bioundaries, a mountain of insecurities and a desire to tear down anyone who overcomes those obstacles. you're just another w*******.

 

enjoy your TIMMIES :):)

 

i now have the strength to never reply to your emails, i've demonstrated that and i hope to one day have the strength to block you for real.

 

but for now, i am too curious. and bored. and so very lonely.

[Nohbody]

You know, I think I'm doing all right sometimes... and then the memories come back. Why can't I just get on without you? Why can't I believe I'm better off? Why am I so angry with myself? Questions without answers late at night.

 

Damn you. I didn't want to fall in love with you, but I did.

[moontiger]

Stop writing me.

 

You left me alone. Now, leave me alone.

[xeros]

I wonder if you miss me. I don't feel like I miss you apart from the sick feeling I get every time I realise I'll never see you dive under my covers to cuddle or your smile when I go to meet you. But i'm doing fine right now, I haven't cried once today and I'm going to keep that up while cutting you out of my life for good, I feel like we were just a waste of time now.

[QueenVic]

Umm, great first post I guess, long time lurker who just needs to vent;

 

You're such a hypocrite, and I knew it. I just knew it, I wondered how long it would be until you found some girl to replace me, so much for wanting to be single. I knew you wouldn't be able to cope. You're pathetic. And cowardly. She's my friend, and neither of you thought to let me know before you decided to do this?? You deserve each other, you both disgust me.

 

And I'm so p***ed off right now, because I was absolutely fine before you decided to do this. I thought I was actually getting over you, and then you both go and do this and I'm just so hurt and upset, I don't know what to do. You don't even know how to be in a relationship, I'm the only girl you've ever loved, and you're such a coward for running away from us.

[radiodarcy]

um - - er - - happy birthday - - i guess...

 

 

 

..........

 

 

 

wow.. .that couldn't have been any less sincere could it? guess i really am on way to getting over you

[dontevenknowanymore]

i just want to move on, or to hear from you. mostly i just want to hear from you. i have myself convinced that this guy you are dating is only a temporary thing, that it's a way for you to cope with all of the pain i've caused you. when we talked about getting back together, you wanted time and space. i understand that, but i'm so impatient. i just wish you would come around, i wake up every morning to check my phone and then i look up at the rose you painted onto my ceiling. i hate thinking about you and this other guy, who knows nothing about you, who doesn't know you the way i do. just come back already, please. i can't wait forever, and i'm not going to contact you first.

[blinded]

I rec'd a call today from a number I thought was you...

 

My heart skipped a beat because I miss you so much. I contemplated picking up. Then I thought about ignoring it. But ultimately I let it go to vmail knowing you would never leave a msg. Lo and behold I see a msg waiting for me shortly after. I was quick to listen to it. Multiple thoughts on what the msg would entail and in the end it was a creditor calling...

 

I felt stupid- again. Wow such a hold you still have on me even though you walked out of my life weeks ago. But I will look at it as a minor setback. I will get through this and over you.

 

I look forward to that day.

[dicky_fish]

I don't want to get past this or over you. You can't just become some distant memory. You were suppposed to be my future! Everything I worked for these last few years can't be for nothing! I questioned so many times whether I wanted to be with you and my answer was always yes. Always! How can I be better off without the best thing that ever happened to me?

 

My darling Fiona, I don't care what you did. I just want a little work from you and for things to go back to how they were just 3 short months ago. I love you with all my heart, and not being with you is killing me

[patagonia]

you texted me this morning and emailed me when i was on the plane yesterday..but u wanted me gone so I am not going to respond even though I want too!!!!!

 

you can recognize! :D:D:D

 

ahh that felt good LOL

[SIGNALFREQ]

Yes I got your text 2 days ago, and you were talking crap and expecting me to respond and trade insults with you, but I didnt take the bait. In fact, I called my phone company and had your number blocked:)

[ScienceGal]

I know you have your own opinion, but I loved you. I loved you so much for the way you made me feel. I felt happy and sexy and carefree. I felt beautiful and important. I thought I was the best thing to come along in a while for you, and you for me. It was amazing. I liked going out with you and staying in with you. I liked taking care of you when you were sick. I respected your work ethic and felt you were an honest man. I was always physically attracted to you , even when you joked that you put on some weight. It did not affect my attraction to you at all. What I felt was real and I was hopeful that we had a future together. I knew you were broke, with a broke ass car and bad credit, and I didn't care. No education, savings or retirement plan. I still didn't care. I loved you for you and that didn't come with any prerequisites. I felt that being with you would make me the happiest I could be and all of a sudden all of the things I thought I needed to be happy didn't matter. I believed the connection we had was worth more than any possession in the world.

 

But, I can't be with someone that doesn't love me in the same capacity that I love them, because that is asking for a lifetime of heartache.

 

I have made peace with the fact that I will never understand why you treated me as poorly as you did at the end. I stood up for myself and demanded you treat me better. I accepted that you were either going to leave or you were going to take a hard look at yourself and improve the relationship. I hoped it was going to be the latter. I am sorry for your struggles and difficulties with relationships. But, I cannot carry that burden. You were never going to truly let me in my dear, and that's why I am gone.

Edited July 28, 2011 by ScienceGal

[moontiger]

I miss you. I don't miss how you treated me like crap at the end. But I miss how you doted on me in the beginning. Today I found the pile of love notes you wrote me once. You asked me not to throw them away, and you told me I should leave them for you in the apartment. So I did.

 

You had a troubled family history. I thought you had risen above it, but you were deep and tormented and angry, and my love could not heal you. I know you will have no regrets about leaving me, and you will not be sad. You have been thinking of leaving for nine months. I could see it in your eyes.

 

I just want to meet a normal man.

[radiodarcy]

loving the gifts i bought for myself to celebrate your birthday. the sweater fits great and the bag is awesome! it's nice to know i can still get unbirthday gifts at my age -- even if do have to pay for them myself

[Almond_Joy]

For the first time since the break up, I don't miss you. I don't "wish you well". I don't feel like I owe you anything, and I would not feel guilty about throwing any concern or affection you show to me back in your face.

 

You may have been great to me in the relationship, but you ended things on a horrible note that was totally unwarranted. I didn't deserve to be treated that way, and your previous good behavior as a boyfriend does not excuse your actions. I deserve the same respect and care that I give, and if you can't reciprocate, I don't have energy to waste giving what won't be returned.

 

I was happy before you came into my life, and I'm happy again now, after you've left it. I'm saying peace to my past with you, and will have an absolutely WONDERFUL future without you.

[patagonia]

I miss you man o man do i miss you!!!