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[aviva_dawn]

Ex,

I'm still completely annoyed with you! I cry every night wishing you were somehow here again!

[sunflower11]

I hate you soo much for doing this to me WHYYYY

why didnt you just text me like you said you would

why was my love not enough for you..

[maqs]

Babe,

get off your ****ing butt

get a job

please go to college

do something with yourself; stop playing call of duty. clean yourself up and make a life for yourself

call your friends. stop sitting on the couch by yourself, and then wondering why your sad and alone

throw away your new packs of cigarettes, they arent doing you any good

 

since im not here to tell you any of this anymore, since you had to go and cheat on me with a girl that you don't know and won't ever see again

you threw us away.. after nine months, you kissed a stranger. you let it all go just to kiss a mystery person. your letting yourself go too lately.

 

you drive me crazy!

[Buttercup84]

I'm so sorry for all the things I have done . I miss you so much . I should have treated you better now I lost you . I'll never be happy again . Please come back baby .

[almondeyes101]

I just wish you would call!

 

[A7X]

Well what do you know, its your bday today... Funny I remember because I really don't care to wish you a happy bday... Since I deleted your number, blocked you on FB I can't even contact you to wish you happy bday, what a shame (note sarcasim)...

 

Oh and I bumped into your ex ex at the mall the other day, we had a good laugh are your expense and new sugar daddy lol

 

At first it was the worse thing to ever happen, now you ask?? I couldn't be any happier to have you out of my life...

[Viv]

Hey

 

It's starting to hurt less. It helps that I keep finding out more about what a creep you are. I've realised that a lot of what happened is down to me. I ignored the fact that you didn't have good values when I met you, in fact it wasn't even something I thought about as long as you were treating me well. But seeing the things you say now makes me realise that you are not the kind of man I want. I'm sad for the things we shared that we will never share again, but I can honestly look at you and know that my life will be better without you in it. I thought I could change you, convince you of the things you were doing that were wrong, and that was another of my mistakes. I know you can't and shouldn't try to change people, I was trying to get you to care that you hurt me! I was an idiot, either you care about people's feelings or you don't. And that's why I pity you, you've never had a chance to grow up, you don't know who you are or how to trust and relate to people.

 

I'm sad that I had to go through this, but I can see the other side and I've learnt so much about myself. I will always miss what we had, and always be sad that you couldn't live up to what we were supposed to be, but that's life I suppose, and it didn't kill me, it made me stronger .

[jormungand]

***,

 

I wish you felt a fraction of the hurt you've caused me. The fact that you could lie to me for an entire month (or longer) that you 'needed some space', only to get back with your ex who is completely terrible for you. I'll never forget the endless times you looked at me with such openness and told me you loved me forever, because now I can see that they didn't mean much. I would have done absolutely anything for you, but I can see that you're more interested in having an easy and cushy life. Sucks that you could love someone so unconditionally, only to throw them away at the drop of a hat. I know you don't miss me. Best of luck. Despite how poorly you treated me in our last month or so together; I do indeed love you deeply. Your beautiful smile and the way your lips felt will forever be with me, and I'll miss who I thought you were forever.

[Dmoney28]

Just got back from the bar with my friends. i had a couple rounds of jack daniel shots, and im feeling pretty good...so this is what i want to tell her.....

 

Hey, who the F do you think you are. After 2 years of NC, you really sent me a facebook friend request..really. Are you for real? Let me get this straight, you said stop contacting you. You said you'll NEVER forgiv me. You said I was a waste of your time. And you break your own Law of No Contact, to send me some stupid @$$ friends request on Facebook. B***h, i dont want to be your friend. You are 28 years old, start acting like a grown up if you have something to say to me. I dont need your forgivness. I dont need a damn thing from you. Wasnt you keeping the engagement ring enough....wasnt me giving you back the laptop, Ps3( i loved that PS3), digital camera, the Flatscreen and everything else of value. Wasnt me sleeping in my car for a week enough for you. Wasnt me drinking myself into coma enough. You want my liver too..how about the right to my first born, you arrogant c**t. What a f'n nerve. really.....i hope your new man finds out what kind of Harpy he's dealing with. Poor bastard. If he ever breaks up with you...im going to find him, and buy him a round , on me. Scratch that..im taking old boy to Vegas, and clebrate his ressurection from the hell hole you probly put him through too.

 

 

 

ok, its out my system..whew, i feel a lot better, good nite.

[Kamila]

It's been 3 months since you last texted me. You said you wouldn't contact me anymore. You are keeping your promise so far. Does that mean you don't think about me anymore ? I don't think so, I feel you still do. But you don't have the guts to admit it. You are respecting the decision we made = no contact. It's hard.

 

You know why I'm not breaking no contact, don't you ?

 

Sometimes i feel like not breaking no contact is breaking me instead. It hurts so much. What the hell did you do to me ? I miss you so much. I want to see you again, just for one moment. But I know it won't be enough.

 

That's why we're not talking anymore. I don't want to loose myself in you anymore.

[Buttercup84]

I really want to contact you so badly now . It kills me knowing that I will never see you again , that we will live the rest of our lives but not together .

 

You will grow old with someone else and she will be better for you than me . I just still love you so much . I want you to hug and tickle me like you used to , give me kisses and wake up next to you every morning .

 

I would do anything for you to be with me again and get married . I love you , please come back .

[TLCbear]

It's been two months since I last spoke with you, eventhough you still seem to call me at least every week. Wondering what the heck you want and why you will not just say it and get it over with. I know you miss me because I miss you too. I know you love me too, but what is the REAL reason you keep calling me???

 

I just recently met a very nice guy and had my first date, one would think I was very happy, but not so because all I could think about was you. I wanted us to go to the fair together, out of 4 years together we never got the chance to go. It was nice, everything was nice and I know this guy is sooo much better for me, but my heart right now wants you. Just thinking about this makes me sooo angry because I know we could have been happy and married by now, but no, you had to be an as*. I am taking it slow with this new guy and he is aware of my situation, it's just so sad that a jerk like you, is now making it harder for the next guy in my life. I want to just move completely on and get you out of my system, but my heart just will not let go now. NC is great, I do not have a problem with that, but I miss being with you, I miss the man I wanted you to be...after 4 years, all I wanted was for you to stop lieing and being so secretive, and communicate with me. Why was that sooo hard???

 

I'm glad that you are starting to feel some type of regret. I can tell by the way you keep contacting me, two months, and you are still calling me, but now, just not leaving a message...that's the guilt kicking in. And I guess you were right, I were able to find someone who seem to be better than you.

[dicky_fish]

What do I do now? Where do I go from here without you?

 

Every time I leave

You say you won't be there.

And you're always there.

Every time I cry your name at night,

you pull close and say it's alright.

I look in your eyes, just like the rain.

Washing me, rain wash over me.

Touching your face, I feel the heat

of your heartbeat echo in my head like a scream.

What you do to me!

Waited so long I can't wait another day without you.

 

Jet City Woman.

It's a long way, home to my

Jet City Woman.

I see her face everywhere, can't get her out of my mind.

 

Whenever I'm alone I'm thinking,

there's a part missing from my life.

Wonder where I'd be without your love

holding me together now I'm

watching the time tick, tick away.

Face grows longer every day.

Fortunes are lost on the women I've seen

but without you I can't breathe!

You're the air to me!

Waited so long, I'm all alone thinking about you.

 

Jet City Woman.

Got to find my way home to her.

Jet City Woman.

I see her face everywhere I look!

Jet City Woman.

Just a thousand miles and I'll be there

Jet City Woman, to make the clouds go away.

Time for some blue sky!

 

Waited so long now the plane's delayed

and hour, reminds me of all our days apart.

Hold on, just a little longer.

 

Jet City Woman.

Wonder where I'd be, you're the air to me.

Jet City Woman.

Eyes like the rain, rain down on me.

Jet City Woman.

No more nights alone I'm almost home now.

Jet City Woman.

Close my eyes, I'm there in my Jet City.

 

You're still my Jet City Woman. I love you xxxxx

[alphamale]

why is this thread still going when my "whats for dinner" thread was shut down after 1,200 posts?

[MizHoney2U]

Hello, Yes I know who it is, I see you're still calling me after like what is it? 8 months?

 

I used to wonder why you would randomly call me.

 

I know I broke it off with you but I sometimes hoped that you were working through your pride and calling to ask that we work it out. But you never do. you always say you are calling me to see how I am doing... well I am doing very well thank you.

 

Now, if you are not interested in a committed relationship with me, then do us both a favor and do not dial this number again because I am not in the least bit interested in a "friendship" with you and there is nothing else for us to talk about.

 

I knew you were not on my level when we began dating, however, I was willing to support you in anything that you were willing to you build a promising future.

 

It seemed that you didn't trust me enough to work with me and it was easier for you to look elsewhere.

 

I don't care what you're doing, who you're doing or where you're doing it.

But please don't feel the need to do any special favors for my family.

 

Just go on with your life as if you never met me and I will do the same.

 

Have a good one. And I still love you. Bye.

 

WHEW... THAT FELT GOOD... THANKS !!!

[CopingGal]

Hey asswipe,

 

What's up? I am glad your life is in shambles. It is what you deserve. You are a waste of skin and a waste of space. I wish I never met you. You are the reason condoms were created. You are nasty and disgusting. You are a filthy whore. You are a cock-eyed, slutty, ridiculous, insignificant bastard who should be neutered. Screw you asswipe.

[fenderjames]

Hello J what can I do for you

Well I wanted to say hi

Seriously ? Im a month into NC after you completely ignored me and have never given me a reason why . You end a relationship by ignoring someone ? How immature and rude . I dont know that I want to speak with you . Im going to mull this over . Goodbye .

 

( No call back after goodbye )

[flyguy23]

Im really sad, I never thought we would end up like this. This is day 7 of NC I think this is the longest we have gone without talking. I haven't looked at your Facebook or twitter in a while. I know it will make me even worse off by seeing how happy you are without me. Maybe you have a new guy now, maybe thats why you don't even attempt to speak to me after all these years of dating. I don't know anymore. You are a total stranger.

[lorien]

Hey A,

what in the world makes you think that I would be able to get over you so quickly seeing what you have done and are still doing to me? Did you ever really even care about me at all? Because it sure doesn't feel like it; if you had, you wouldn't be good friends with the person you cheated on me with. Obviously her friendship is more important to you than mine, and clearly it was worth losing our entire relationship over. It's amazing how you can think you know and love a person, and then they can just turn around break your heart. What makes you think that I would be able to handle being friends with you if you're going to continue being friends with her? Both of you disgust me.

[toosoft]

Thanks a bunch for the past couple of months of making me feel like ****. Thanks for ****ing me over, again and again. You kept me right where you wanted me, with just enough hope to keep me interested, whilst you was playing happy famillies with that prick. Its been great fun seeing all the pictures of him with my kids and driving past your house to see his car there, knowing your all inside playing happy families. Well, who's laughing now bitch, your on your own, I aint being your puppy no more. Im worth a lot more than you can offer. Your an evil, twisted, cruel, lying, deceitful whore. Im totally not attracted to you anymore, the sight of you makes me want to puke. I used to adore you, you and the kids were my world, now I just despise you and what you've done. All it would of took was a little bit of effort, but you just couldnt be bothered, your weak. You'd rather be shagging someone who you have to fake it with, someone who emotionally blackmails you and is heavily insecure... well good luck with that because in a few years time when I find someone wonderful, you'll probebly be looking back on us and seeing what you've done for what it really is - a giant **** up. Theres a reason all his past partners have ****ed him off or had an affair... he's a ****ing useless prick, friggin ugly too, at least I have all my teeth! I cant wait for the day your fog clears so I can laugh at you. Useless, worthless cow, you deserve to rot in hell.

 

apologies for the profanity folks, but I do feel better... what a great thread!

[calreese]

Hey P.

 

I'm not mad at you. I never was. I just wish you had had the strength and respect to tell me the truth instead of candy coating your words. You knew I was a sucker for you, and you used that to your advantage. You used the term "break", but that was never your intention, was it? I see that now. Granted, it took me almost 3 months to figure it out, but I finally get it. Shame on me for being so blind. At any rate, I have my answers. And things are getting easier every day. I don't even know you anymore. I can't remember what you look like, or what your voice sounds like. It's nice living in a place that you've never stepped foot inside: It's like I've started over.

 

At the beginning, I wanted nothing else but for you to call me, text me, send me a picture of us, etc. I've made leaps and bounds since then. To be honest, I'd be upset with you if you tried to contact me at this point. Because I don't deserve to be brought back into that world. I'm reinventing myself and slowly but surely, my new habits, friends, activities, interests, and goals are washing away any and all prior influences you had on me. If I had to say one last thing to you, the last piece you would hear from me for the rest of our lives, it would be this: Thanks for the wake up call. I'm a new person. Good luck.

[fenderjames]

I was too nice on the 1st pretend call . Im trying this again

 

Hi J what could you possibly want ?

Oh to say hi ? Let me say a few things here missy . I admired you from afar for years . You know I did because your best friend at the time was also a good friend of mine . I watched you go thru some terribly hard times with your jerk husband . You finally divorced and have custody of your daughter and a new home you live in . You contact me and invite me over . I never ever pestered you , declared to you personally how much I admired you , I just loved you from afar . So over I go . It felt like a dream coming true . And it was for 3/4 of that year . Then something changed . You hated my job ( even though u knew it was my career being a very busy pub manager ) . You hated my hours , the fact that sometimes I would have to leave to cover a shift , etc . You made it very hard for me . So I actually reconsidered my future and left my position so we could be happier . I discussed further schooling with you , I went to seminars and I found part time work to sustain me thru schooling . I never asked you for a dime . You kept up your divorce proceedings and texted me one day that you were thrilled ... divorce is official . Then you tell me that " this isnt working " a day before my birthday . Right out of the blue . You contact me 3 weeks later and invite me over . I frigging went . You were flirtatious and affectionate . Then , when I asked whats up for the weekend you tell me your out of town for a wedding !!!! What wedding ! You never invited me even though you knew long ago you were going ! Why ? You then go 1 week NC after wedding . I ask you to please let me know when its convinient as I would like to speak with you . You say of course we can talk , you'll let me know . 5 days go by . Nothing . I sent you a text telling you how I felt . Boom . Done . NC for 2 1/2 months . I know you went thru a tough time .... but why did you treat me like this . I would have stayed forever . You cant know how much this has hurt . I hate that you did this . I hate that I have so many questions , I hate that you cut me off and erased me , I hate that I don't know why . But guess what , about the only thing here I dont hate is you . Why on earth did you call ? I dont know weather to smile or cry . Weather to hold out my hand or run . Damn you .

[SimonSerenade]

I don't know why I always find myself coming back here, I geuss the idea of you n me becomes more frequent when people tend to show an interest in me, I don't know what it is, maybe it's the idea that life isn't the same anymore, that once I take the final step and finally be with someone else that all I hold dear in my memories will have escaped me completely.

 

I think I am over it for the most part but I geuss there's still a part of me that'll always miss you, I think it's just a sadness that lingers and refuses to leave me, I hope one day I find the ambition to move on completely and be with somebody else but until then I geuss I'll be alone and I'll stay that way for quite some time but fingers crossed that special person will eventually come along and break this spell you have over me.

 

A part of me hopes you realise you made a mistake one day, not so we can be together again or anything like that, just so I can finally lay certain feelings to rest, so I can finaly have that closure I've been longing, just the thought that I meant something to you and the fact that it was harder to get over me than what you've led me to believe it has been.

[ladyravenloft]

Dear "pet",

 

Thank you for dropping all contact with me for over a week without warning, before finally telling me you needed time to think. Starting off the conversation with "No matter what happens, I love you and will never forget you." quite gave away what you were planning but I still hoped you would be a man and tell me goodbye up front and not go off to hide again.

 

Thank you for leaving your Skype up, so that the very day after you asked for time to think, your girlfriend (the one I knew nothing about), could come on and tell me that you couldn't talk to me because you were both too busy breaking in the new bed you bought together. Very classy way to find out about her.

 

I've not heard back from you, so either you read my last email telling you I'm happy you found someone, but wish you could have told me yourself about her and are too ashamed to contact me, or you don't give a darn that you've shattered the heart of someone that loved and cared for you for over two years. Even the night you told me you needed time to yourself you kept telling me of your love for me, just further messing with my head.

 

You'll never do that again. You're blocked from ever contacting me again, and I'll never again grace you with the sound of my voice. One week after this happened, I can smile now because I know there will come a day that you want a shoulder to cry on and to hear all the things I used to tell you that I loved about you but you won't be able to. I'm moving on and I'll find another and he'll be a REAL man and will have my love and devotion. You....I'll simply haunt you each time you are lonely and long for the love I gave you. I pity you.

Edited October 30, 2011 by ladyravenloft

[coltsfan1]

I miss my friend and companion. I still worry about you and hope that you made the right decision for yourself. I however am glad you left now, my life has became better in many ways. Your leaving caused most of the change I must admit. I was a wreck for a while but I have it together now. I have a second interview at a fortune 500 company, I am going to close on my own home within the next 3 months, but you aren't aren't around to celebrate it with me. The hard truth is you never will be again and I have came to terms with that. The other hard truth is that I still miss you and I know I shouldn't.