CopingGal Posted February 1, 2012 Share Posted February 1, 2012 Hello dummy, I think of going to your facebook page everyday throughout the day. But I don't. I just keep talking myself out of it. I'm starting to feel better about kicking you out of my life more and more. Have you cheated on the stupid old hag you are seeing? Give it time, you will. Does she even know that you cheated on me with her? Does she know that you cheated on at least two other women besides me? My roommate says you are an evil, sadistic bastard. I think he underestimated you. He thinks you should be taken off the street and put into a mental ward. You are a sick and twisted individual who is parastic in all kinds of ways. F you Link to post Share on other sites
CopingGal Posted February 1, 2012 Share Posted February 1, 2012 Dear L, F you Link to post Share on other sites
CopingGal Posted February 2, 2012 Share Posted February 2, 2012 I pity you. When I think of all the horrible things you did to me...I pity you, that you are so low and so disgusting that you can do things like that and feel no remorse. You are so very sick but you think you are just grand. The therapist was right about you. You "have too many problems to mention." You really are very sick in the head. You are just sad....very, very sad. Link to post Share on other sites
IfiKnewThen Posted February 3, 2012 Share Posted February 3, 2012 hey simonSimonSerenade: youre doing great : ) proud of u. keep being proud of yourself. Link to post Share on other sites
stitch702 Posted February 3, 2012 Share Posted February 3, 2012 This thread makes me laugh sometimes. I scroll through some of the posts and the comments of: Hello so and so.....F You!!! really give me a good chuckle. Ugh we'll get through this and we'll definitely come out a better person Link to post Share on other sites
CopingGal Posted February 3, 2012 Share Posted February 3, 2012 Hello butt-crack, F you Link to post Share on other sites
Buttercup84 Posted February 3, 2012 Share Posted February 3, 2012 So it has been a week now since we have spoken , I have been feeling Ok . I guess I am seeing your true character . I think of the nice times we had but now the bad times are overshadowing it . You contacted me for your own selfish reasons and then dropped me again . You are playing the victim now , poor poor you . I want someone who wouldn't wait a second to be with me . You just think that I am going to stay here waiting for you until you change your mind again . No more . Now I am finally free to meet the man who truely deserves me . Link to post Share on other sites
perfectlyflawed459 Posted February 3, 2012 Share Posted February 3, 2012 So it has been a week now since we have spoken , I have been feeling Ok . I guess I am seeing your true character . I think of the nice times we had but now the bad times are overshadowing it . You contacted me for your own selfish reasons and then dropped me again . You are playing the victim now , poor poor you . I want someone who wouldn't wait a second to be with me . You just think that I am going to stay here waiting for you until you change your mind again . No more . Now I am finally free to meet the man who truely deserves me . Hey Buttercup, I have read some of your threads and I am glad you are finally moving past all this crap your ex put you through. As much as you love someone and cherish the great times you had, there comes a point where they screw you over so much that it just ruins all those wonderful memories you have and implants many negative ones. It is sad when it has to come to this, but sometimes it is the kick in the butt you need to truly realize that this person has completely changed and is not the person you love anymore. Sometimes this is what you need to truly realize that you WANT to move on because you DO deserve someone who will cherish you. I hope everything continues to go uphill for you girl, stay strong! Link to post Share on other sites
CopingGal Posted February 3, 2012 Share Posted February 3, 2012 I figured out why you never told me about your facebook page and never put me on facebook. You wanted to appear single so you could meet other women. You pretended to be confused as to how to indicate that you are in a relationship. Funny how you figured it out after you started dating the woman you cheated on me with. I wanted to go to your facebook page today. Why? I don't know. But I did not go. I want to call you and tell you for the 100th time how much you hurt me. But why should I? You feel no remorse, so I would probably feel worse. You think it's okay to lie, mess with women's heads, screw people over and use them as pawns, simply to get what you want. Then you wonder why I won't be your friend. You really and truly have sociopathic tendencies. You really do have narcisitic personality disorder traits. Everything the couple's counselor said about that was correct. I am so thoroughly disgusted with you, but I also pity you. The couple's counselor said this new relationship of yours will never last. She said you are using her. I think she's right about that too because she has been right about everything else. The couple's counselor told me that she didn't believe a word you said in therapy and that she believed that everything out of your mouth was a lie. God help your child. God help this woman you are with. You are a destructive, disgusting thing. Link to post Share on other sites
stitch702 Posted February 4, 2012 Share Posted February 4, 2012 Hello butt-crack, F you Yeah Butt-crack, Efffff U!!!!! I got your back copinggal Link to post Share on other sites
CopingGal Posted February 4, 2012 Share Posted February 4, 2012 Thank you, Stitch702. I can't tell you how much that means to me. I've been feeling very bad today. Overall I am better, but I still suffer because of the psychological abuse he inflicted on me. It's still hard. I'm still in pain. I still ache. So thanks for you post. It made my night. Link to post Share on other sites
Buttercup84 Posted February 4, 2012 Share Posted February 4, 2012 I figured out why you never told me about your facebook page and never put me on facebook. You wanted to appear single so you could meet other women. You pretended to be confused as to how to indicate that you are in a relationship. Funny how you figured it out after you started dating the woman you cheated on me with. I wanted to go to your facebook page today. Why? I don't know. But I did not go. I want to call you and tell you for the 100th time how much you hurt me. But why should I? You feel no remorse, so I would probably feel worse. You think it's okay to lie, mess with women's heads, screw people over and use them as pawns, simply to get what you want. Then you wonder why I won't be your friend. You really and truly have sociopathic tendencies. You really do have narcisitic personality disorder traits. Everything the couple's counselor said about that was correct. I am so thoroughly disgusted with you, but I also pity you. The couple's counselor said this new relationship of yours will never last. She said you are using her. I think she's right about that too because she has been right about everything else. The couple's counselor told me that she didn't believe a word you said in therapy and that she believed that everything out of your mouth was a lie. God help your child. God help this woman you are with. You are a destructive, disgusting thing. He is disgusting , I know it is so so hard because you have a good heart and gave him everything . You will have a wonderful life and meet someone who will never ever dream of letting you go or treat you like **** . I know you don't want anyone else now but I promise you will be OK . I miss the good times with my ex and some days I would drop everything to be with him again . But we can't settle , we deserve the best and they are not good enough for us . They will always be unhappy unless they realize what they are doing . But that won't happen xxx Link to post Share on other sites
CopingGal Posted February 4, 2012 Share Posted February 4, 2012 He is disgusting , I know it is so so hard because you have a good heart and gave him everything . You will have a wonderful life and meet someone who will never ever dream of letting you go or treat you like **** . I know you don't want anyone else now but I promise you will be OK . I miss the good times with my ex and some days I would drop everything to be with him again . But we can't settle , we deserve the best and they are not good enough for us . They will always be unhappy unless they realize what they are doing . But that won't happen xxx Thank you so much Buttercup for your input. I tried to send you a pm today in response to yours, but it did not go through. How are you on filling your time? I once volunteered at a school several times a week. It was wondeful, and all my problems went away for the most part. Thank goodness I am in school myself now. I am so busy, believe it or not, there are many times throughout the day in which I don't think of all the horrific things that bastard did to me. One day, when I have money, I am going to donate to LoveShack.org because they provide the chance for people to come together and support each other. It is a wonderful service they provide. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
esteem-jam Posted February 4, 2012 Share Posted February 4, 2012 Whats in your mind, why you putting photos of your cool life on FB? Dont you know I cant compare to that? Dont you see that this hurts me? Is this intentional? F. you. Link to post Share on other sites
CopingGal Posted February 5, 2012 Share Posted February 5, 2012 My day started off sad, but for the most part, it was pretty good. I'm living a life that really counts. I love the charity work and the humanitarian work I do. I am a lucky person. You are not good enough for me. I know I do not belong with you. My mom loves me and she wants me to be with someone who is good to me. That is what I want too. You claim to love your son so much. How would you feel if someone treated your son the way you treated me? Well, I'm somebody's child too. If I told my mother all the horrible things you did to me, it would really upset her, so I won't. She only knows some of what you did and that is enough for her to despise you. I have friends that care about me. I have family that care about me. They want me to stay away from you and not contact you. I listen to them because unlike you, they have my best interest at heart. I pity you. You have no contact with your mom, your sister, or your brothers. I pity you. I pity you. Link to post Share on other sites
dicky_fish Posted February 7, 2012 Share Posted February 7, 2012 I had a dream about you last night. You'd come back to me. It felt so real I didn't want to wake up. I miss you baba xxxxx Link to post Share on other sites
radiodarcy Posted February 8, 2012 Share Posted February 8, 2012 congratulations, it is now the third year in a row that you have forgotten my birthday -- even though you claim that we are still friends. which once again shows that it was never about friendship at all with us - - i never meant anything to you beyond what you could get out of me. now that you know there's nothing left to be had you're back to pretending i don't exist. no we were never enemies; but we certainly have never been friends... Link to post Share on other sites
Mcnulty Posted February 9, 2012 Share Posted February 9, 2012 Happy Birthday my little fox. I truly hope you have a wonderful day. I no longer feel angry and betrayed, Trying to remember the you I fell in love with. The zest for life, the facial expressions, the passion, the things in common, your love for me never waned till the end...thankyou for giving me your love, i was a very lucky guy. Regardless of whether you're still with him, it's time to forgive. Honour love....I do, i cherish the memories we had and always will. You will forever be a teardrop in my soul and i'll love you always. Sleep well tonight little lady, forever in my thoughts...hope happiness is what you've found. Love, your lion. x Link to post Share on other sites
YuGr. Posted February 10, 2012 Share Posted February 10, 2012 I miss you. I still feel betrayed but I understand you. I always have, through the most confusing and spontaneous decisions and jumpin back and forth, part of me always understood it. You were the person I had firstly ever truly opened up to. The back and forth in the last year I think has really torned us apart and make us feel insecure about what should have been. This was inevitable dating you. You repeated your history, once again. Always wondered if maybe it would have stopped at me, but I thought wrong. I'm glad how hard it was to jump to another relationship from me, I get a satisfied feeling that I truly did mean a lot to you as you did to me. I'll never stop thinking that we wasted something amazing with the back and forths. I have accepted the situation, I know I deserve better than a girl with GIGs and with no self-identity who makes herself a bf's extension. But regardless of those flaws, being the worse possible flaws for a successful relationship, I loved you. I always have and always will. I loved the real you. And I KNOW I made you feel like you never had before, I don't think neither of us will soon forget it. Now here I am, broken again while you're on your emotional hype, once again. I know you don't love him, we all do, including yourself. But feeling secure and closing the world behind yourself is much easier with a man who asks for nothing of you. I wonder if you will be back in a few weeks like you have the last 5 times. Probably. I know you're not doing it to hurt me and that you're just confused. This time I can't let you come back again. How could I.. I bever truly feel secure with you since the begining of this mess, and with reason. I have a hard time believing in anyone else but you. But I must let go. We had our time. I wish, Oh how I wish we hadn't ended up in such a fubar situation you and I. Seems like just yesterday we were on top of the world. I'll never stop hoping for you back. Regardless of anything. I know I love too deeply, things you've done just embarass me that I'm writing this, but I can't help it and I wish I could. I honestly don't see this being the end for you and I. I think this time will be for a good period of time and not like the last 7 months back and forth every month... But I have a strong feeling we both know we could have it all together, just not now. Not after this mess you've caused for us. Everyday downtown near your office I think of you. I wonder when will be the day we run into each other at the train station and make this all complicated again. I hope you come back so I can reject you like you deserve. Ground you to earth and make you realize what you're doing. But I know you, and know very well you're aware to realize this on your own soon enough. EVERYONE thinks I shouldn't take you back, and with reason. It's bound to fail and even knowing an truly believing this, I somehow salvage the worth in it. I can't let you hurt me again. And I know the only way for this to happen is for you to not come back to me. Just.. Leave me alone, you're already a voice in my head. Oh, how I wish you were here.. We're just two lost souls swimming in a fish bowl Year after year. Running over the same old grounds. What have we found? The same old fears.. I wish you were here. ..undecisive confused self-identity issued no personality fake b1tch. Link to post Share on other sites
CopingGal Posted February 10, 2012 Share Posted February 10, 2012 I know you are a broken man...you can't run anymore, you lost your fiance, you are back at your old job- the one with the terrible schedule because you probably lost your cushy job. I am sorry you are so dysfunctional. I am sorry you can't maintain a relationship because your selfishness gets in the way. Although I am glad you are no longer with the woman you cheated on me with, I also feel very, very, very sorry for you. It must be tough to have an underdeveloped conscience that leads you to do stupid, mean, and ridiculous things. Your life is so pathetic, I prayed for you the other day. Link to post Share on other sites
YuGr. Posted February 10, 2012 Share Posted February 10, 2012 ^ I wish to forward that but to my ex gf. Its spot on. Link to post Share on other sites
radiodarcy Posted February 10, 2012 Share Posted February 10, 2012 I know you are a broken man...you can't run anymore, you lost your fiance, you are back at your old job- the one with the terrible schedule because you probably lost your cushy job. I am sorry you are so dysfunctional. I am sorry you can't maintain a relationship because your selfishness gets in the way. Although I am glad you are no longer with the woman you cheated on me with, I also feel very, very, very sorry for you. It must be tough to have an underdeveloped conscience that leads you to do stupid, mean, and ridiculous things. Your life is so pathetic, I prayed for you the other day. wow - - your ex sounds like mine! he got his current gf pregnant after they had been dating for four months. she has two kids from a previous relationship. he has a son with his ex-wife. and in spite of the current gf being pregnant, she quit her job and moved in with her mom in florida. my ex - - who can barely afford to financially support the son he already has - -has one year to find a job so that he can move his gf, her two kids and their new baby back up here to virginia. do i envy his situation? not at all. but i do feel badly for him. whether he stays with the gf or not - -it's going to take him years to work through this. but hey-- he left me (i don't have any kids - - just a dog and two cats ) for a less stressful situation so all i can say to that is - - knock yourself out pal... Link to post Share on other sites
CopingGal Posted February 10, 2012 Share Posted February 10, 2012 ^ I wish to forward that but to my ex gf. Its spot on. Sorry you had to go through that. It's good you are away from her. Link to post Share on other sites
CopingGal Posted February 10, 2012 Share Posted February 10, 2012 wow - - your ex sounds like mine! he got his current gf pregnant after they had been dating for four months. she has two kids from a previous relationship. he has a son with his ex-wife. and in spite of the current gf being pregnant, she quit her job and moved in with her mom in florida. my ex - - who can barely afford to financially support the son he already has - -has one year to find a job so that he can move his gf, her two kids and their new baby back up here to virginia. do i envy his situation? not at all. but i do feel badly for him. whether he stays with the gf or not - -it's going to take him years to work through this. but hey-- he left me (i don't have any kids - - just a dog and two cats ) for a less stressful situation so all i can say to that is - - knock yourself out pal... EEK, his life sounds like it's just chaotic! I think you are much better off. Plus you have fur babies! Link to post Share on other sites
CopingGal Posted February 10, 2012 Share Posted February 10, 2012 (edited) L: You are a bombaclot. You live the life of a bombaclot. You look like a bombaclot. You smell like a bombaclot. You act like a bombaclot. You talk like a bombaclot. You will die a bombaclot. I accept the fact that you are and forever will be...a bombaclot. I am sooo proud of myself for staying away from you. I believe in me! Edited February 10, 2012 by CopingGal Link to post Share on other sites
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