marsha80 Posted May 11, 2012 Share Posted May 11, 2012 I am hopelessly lost in my memories, however, that the guy who I met is still there... this is what makes it difficult Link to post Share on other sites
Juninho Posted May 12, 2012 Share Posted May 12, 2012 You're a lying slut. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
someone12341 Posted May 12, 2012 Share Posted May 12, 2012 hey girl remember how i said friends can be big dissapointments well you are by far my biggest dissapointment. i loved you, got engaged, gave you the world and all you could say was goodbye i hope you have a great life and regret the day you dumped me, i still do care/love you but i am moving on without you and deleting you from my life i will not be your friend, you had the best and it was not good enough for you! so i will not give you a second chance if you come crawling back to me. no way i can trust you after you promised to marry me THANK YOU for making me realize what a break up can do to a guy, lost wieght, quit chewing tabacco, and made me a stronger person thanks for the memories, the life experience and this is the last thing i will say to you goodbye for good and hope you have a great life cause i know i am going to without you Link to post Share on other sites
msfreebyme Posted May 12, 2012 Share Posted May 12, 2012 Thanks so much. I have felt your pain to when I read your posts in this forum. But you know, while I did let out a lot of pain in that post...it made me LAUGH! I read it 4 times the night I posted it. I just laugh and laugh at the crib part and the pacifier part...and the last sentence. I just laughed and laughed. I appreciate your advice and your posts since I can relate so well with them. It helps to know someone out there is feeling the exact same way. This website in general has helped me heal. Also with meditation, focusing on weight loss, school, and working, and love of family and friends. Link to post Share on other sites
lovinglife21 Posted May 12, 2012 Share Posted May 12, 2012 I logged into your facebook, I phoned you. You answered but I had nothing to say. I miss you, or rather I miss the person that I was in a relationship with. I'm struggling, I realise that I don't want to be with someone mentally unstable, and I'm so angry with the way you treated me, that sometimes I actually hate you. I thought you were the person I was going to spend the rest of my life with, and I loved you so god damn much that I would have done anything for you. Then you messed it all up. You let everyone get to you, and now I have no one, and nothing to look forward to, and I hate that you are so weak, and I hate that it has taken this for me to realise who you truly are. Why aren't you the person i thought you were? I'm so disappointed that I'm lost for words. Why don't you know who you are? I won't try and convince you, I am worth more than that, and it's so sad to think that you have to write on other forums to get advice on how to be more awesome, and how to pick up 'hot' girls. I know how stubborn you are and know that you won't change your mind no matter what I do, or what I say. How did they convince you? You wanted your life with me, you were willing to disown your mum just to be with me, and then you went back to her and back to your friends and suddenly changed your mind, and I feel so betrayed. But at the same time I feel so relived, because I don't want to fight this hard for love, I don't want to feel hated, because I have done nothing wrong. I am finding it so hard to get over you because you have never made an independent decision since we have been going out, it has always been influenced by your mum, your dad, your friends or me, so I guess I feel maybe I can change your mind. But I know deep down it will never happen because there are so many of them and only one of me, and I just don't have the energy to keep on fighting, because I truly believe that I deserve someone that knows that they love me and would do anything to keep me. Why are you so weak? I know you had a hard life, but so have I? Why can I make the decision to be with you, against all odds, and you couldnt? I forgave you for so much stuff, I gave you so many chances, and it's like I never meant anything to you, you didn't even attempt to save our relationship, and I know that I dont want to be with someone that can't fight, that can't communicate, but it hurts so much because you were my whole life and I don't know what the point is without you. You have been so cold that anyone would have thought that I had cheated on you, and every time I talk to you, you change your story, you won't even communicate to me properly, because God forbid you be wrong and then feel guilt and regret. I can't save us now- my family hate you and know all about the rape stuff and about how you have treated me after the last few weeks. I mean breaking up with me three weeks before my finals and 2 weeks after my God Mother died was awful and knowing that it will never make sense kills me because I need it to make sense. I know I have put on weight recently, but I was losing it, you saw my new diet, and the effort I was going to, you saw how my health problems affected my life and you always encouraged me to embrace my natural beauty, instead of having the hair extensions and fake tan, even though those things gave me confidence, I gave them up for you. Did you want me to be less attractive so that no one else wanted me? So that my self-esteem went down and I felt that I couldn't get anyone else? Because that never happened. I love who I am, and I love having those superficial girly traits and I have missed them dearly. So now I get them back, and that's a blessing to me. I let you into my inner most soul, I told you my deepest secrets, and now you are treating me like I don't deserve your time, when I have done NOTHING to deserve that, why didn't you show any emotion at all? It is like you are dead inside, and maybe I deserve this, because i knew you had this potential to switch off, you don't want to talk to me, or have a normal conversation with me because you are terrified you may feel something, and then the regret would sink in. I feel sorry for you in truth, because as long as you don't know yourself, and you let other people make the decisions for you, you will never be truly happy. I know that this heartbreak is normal, and that eventually I'll be ok, and I take solace in the fact that I am being normal in dealing with this, cause eventually this will all catch up with you, and you will realise just how many people you have lost and how many people you have hurt along the way, and I truly hope that kills you inside. Link to post Share on other sites
CopingGal Posted May 12, 2012 Share Posted May 12, 2012 I appreciate your advice and your posts since I can relate so well with them. It helps to know someone out there is feeling the exact same way. This website in general has helped me heal. Also with meditation, focusing on weight loss, school, and working, and love of family and friends. Thanks for your post. I am glad you have things in your life to help you. Stay strong. Link to post Share on other sites
CopingGal Posted May 12, 2012 Share Posted May 12, 2012 Hello L, I know we all have are problems, but I never want to date someone like you again. You are a walking disaster and unhuman-like. You have the soul of a bowl of burnt spaghetti and you smell like an over-excited baboon. Link to post Share on other sites
CopingGal Posted May 13, 2012 Share Posted May 13, 2012 There is only one of you that is worthy of my attention and time as a friend. The only other one has passed away. All the rest of you can go to Hell. None of you will ever see me again. And a big F-you to all of you unworthy bastards...especially you, L! Link to post Share on other sites
DuchessKaye Posted May 13, 2012 Share Posted May 13, 2012 P.S. I still miss you! :rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes: 1 Link to post Share on other sites
coltsfan1 Posted May 13, 2012 Share Posted May 13, 2012 P.S. I still miss you! I sure can relate to this... Link to post Share on other sites
chelly.lauren Posted May 13, 2012 Share Posted May 13, 2012 Hi, ex! I feel bad, not responding to your texts since we were together for almost four years or some ridiculousness. So I do. But just know that I don't know wtf you want from me! We've been broken up since early Jan., and I haven't tried to talk to you except once about a week post-break up. I'm in a new relationship, and you know that via another source. Sooo why are you sending me all these 'breadcrumbs' to see if I still want you? Just to see if you still have power over me? I'm over our relationship, maybe not you completely, but I promise I will never be yours again. You betrayed me. Link to post Share on other sites
Follower Posted May 13, 2012 Share Posted May 13, 2012 Dear K. I really want to have a chat with you, a real one, not a fake catch up. I dont know why its been an age since we last talked. I would love to know why you attempted last month to add me on fb under your Pseudo-name yet i'm still blocked on your real profile and everything else? I assume you have something to hide, want to know something weird? I couldn't care less what your hiding i couldn't care less about any of it. But you do owe me an apology for all that time and energy and money of mine you wasted for your own selfish goals, for how you left me to pick up all the pieces while you trot off pretending to everyone your an amazing self sufficient person. You wouldn't know the first thing about being self sufficient you cant even work a 16 hour weeks without complaining that you work to much, you used to get so god damn pissed off and make me out to be such a bad selfish person for complaining i was tired when i came home after yet another 60 hour week exhausted... i remember you're little "feel sorry" for me line so well 'You make out like your the only one that works, i work as-well R. your not the only one that has to get up everyday for work' Well i hate to break it to you K. but 4 hours is NOT working and doing it folding clothes is not HARD. Try doing a 14/15 hour shift where i don't get a god dam break moving at breakneck speed getting complained to by customers all for minimum wage because you wouldn't live withing our realistic means on only 4 hours sleep because i had to get up to take you TO YOUR F*CKING WORK because you wouldn't take one ****ing bus when you were working, but you expected me to somehow get a bus when i started before they started running and when i would finish AFTER they had stopped? I rarely had time off, because i was doing that for 6 days a week compared to your 3/4 shifts. You never pulled your weight in the relationship, you claimed to try so hard to 'make it work' you didn't do sh*t. Then there was t your ****ing line about how you need romance in the relationship i would LOVE to be romantic but any time i tried all you would do is COMPLAIN and MOAN and tell me NOT to do it You think i really want to be made to feel like **** when i'm trying to be really ****ing NICE to you. Ohh and the present fiasco, you loved making me look like and ******* 2 xmas in a ROW you pulled this **** on me, we agreed not to exchange gifts why? because i couldnt afford to buy you one we couldnt afford it and we COULDNT on what i was earning because it was only EVER ME supplying money to the household... You used to wait till a few days after then produce a ****ing really expensive gift out of nowhere and look at me with disgust when i told you i didnt have anything for you because THATS what we agreed. then you would tell your parents and friends that i didnt BOTHER i ****ing WANTED to get you a gifts i wanted to shower you in affection but we COULDNT AFFORD it. You used to put all your money in the bank while all mine payed all our bills food housing fixing your car paying paying for your books ect ect you ****ing cow. you self righteous self indulgent bitch. Rant over, you still owe me an apology K. Link to post Share on other sites
jennisfora Posted May 13, 2012 Share Posted May 13, 2012 still miss you. part of me is disappointed you didnt text after our phone call even though i didnt really expect you to. going to be a disappointing monday too when i think of last year getting flowers at work. mother's day...wonder if you are thinking of me and my boy at all? wonder if you will try and reach out? wonder if you will actually call after your training to try and meet up? or was our short phone call enough closure for you? is closure really what you are after? do dumpers really need closure, months later? i think part of it is it upsets you to think i may hate you, or be angry. but you were the angry one, not me. do you just want to make the peace, and make sure we end on good terms? dont see why it matters if we arent going to be friends? i guess i will find out in a week, or i will never know, and i shouldn't worry about it. i still miss you and part of me hopes that you have regrets, and want to try again. but until i hear words that convey that, i am not going to assume anything. right now, alleviating guilt, and wanting a good memory to end on, seem to be your reasoning. so i should expect nothing, so i wont be disappointed when nothing happens. good bye, my love. someday i wont care at all. *hugs & kisses* Link to post Share on other sites
DuchessKaye Posted May 13, 2012 Share Posted May 13, 2012 Hi EX, it's crazy that the whole world knows now the story of the two of us... Link to post Share on other sites
hfit Posted May 14, 2012 Share Posted May 14, 2012 God, I'm struggling. I am really, really struggling. ****. Link to post Share on other sites
DuchessKaye Posted May 14, 2012 Share Posted May 14, 2012 We get it you love each other. You can shut the fvk up! LOL Link to post Share on other sites
trist Posted May 14, 2012 Share Posted May 14, 2012 Hi EX, it's crazy that the whole world knows now the story of the two of us... LOL !! this one made me laugh a little... Link to post Share on other sites
trist Posted May 14, 2012 Share Posted May 14, 2012 Hello L, I know we all have are problems, but I never want to date someone like you again. You are a walking disaster and unhuman-like. You have the soul of a bowl of burnt spaghetti and you smell like an over-excited baboon. this one too... i can almost picture this as a hallmark card... someone should start a petition for them to have a Breakup section... this would go down as a classic... Link to post Share on other sites
worldgonewrong Posted May 14, 2012 Share Posted May 14, 2012 Dear ___, I'm not over you. Don't know if I ever will be, particularly since we had 2 beautiful children together. I cannot shovel aside 20 years of history together. It pains me to the core of my soul that you can. My days have been comparatively better since all this bad sh*t went down, well over a year ago, but I feel like the walking dead more often than not. I thought we would grow old together, and (stupidly?) I still pray for a miracle. Why can't you wake up from this insane dream? yours, WGW 1 Link to post Share on other sites
MissBrunette84 Posted May 14, 2012 Share Posted May 14, 2012 Dear ex, You came to my door after breaking up with me for the one millionth time in January, after 3 weeks of no contacting your ass and you begged for my forgiveness, I really stupidly took you back. you even wrote me a touching letter to why I was so awesome and you were an idiot. So, whyyyeee when you knew you had a shiny new chick and you were gonna break up with me anyway 6 weeks down the line. The point of this I will never understand. You also need to grow a pair. Big style. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
eles83 Posted May 14, 2012 Share Posted May 14, 2012 Dear you, I love you. I love you so much I can't send you this message because I'm afraid it would destroy our last chance of working this out (not that you say you want to, I imagine it's hard to want to work things out when you're off playing daddy with another woman and her kids). But you are a freaking idiot. Just so you are aware. I have made mistakes, some massive mistakes, but you and I know that you have done your share. And you know what? I love you anyway. I've seen you in low places and dark places and scary places, and I love you still. You're worth all of that crap, to me. But what have you done? Do you really think your friends, those unreliable, fair weather friends are gonna pick you up the next time you need someone? Do you think she is?? I was the best thing in your life. The most honest, the most reliable, the most forgiving, the most loving, the best dang thing you had. So you can throw me away, but I hope you know you are a much, much poorer man for doing that. Even if I contradict myself in a few hours, we both know that I am right. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
lovinglife21 Posted May 14, 2012 Share Posted May 14, 2012 But what have you done? Do you really think your friends, those unreliable, fair weather friends are gonna pick you up the next time you need someone? Do you think she is?? I was the best thing in your life. The most honest, the most reliable, the most forgiving, the most loving, the best dang thing you had. So you can throw me away, but I hope you know you are a much, much poorer man for doing that. Even if I contradict myself in a few hours, we both know that I am right. Eles83 this completely sums up how i feel, when I read it my eyes started to tear up. Thank You and be strong. xx 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Phanpooh Posted May 15, 2012 Share Posted May 15, 2012 im sorry for letting you dump me you are deserve more and that is what i didnt give you... enjoy your own life and stop ****ing regret, because if you still do it, you cant get that gift i ve given to you, safe space! someday you will know what you want, who you are, someday you will know that you are better than you thought someday you will have which things i ve already seen in you and that day, i will come back to say "hi", to sit on my knees and tie your daughter's shoe, to tell your sons how special you are, and yell your husband "lucky! son of the b-i-t-c-h ..!.." Dun let people around you treat you like crap Dun let yourself lose in lies And stop hiding behind that "horrible" mask Mess with me? Dun play "stupid" with me, cause i'm the best in this game @ Stupid girl who is just somebody, i used to know Link to post Share on other sites
DuchessKaye Posted May 16, 2012 Share Posted May 16, 2012 Move the f-ck on! Link to post Share on other sites
CopingGal Posted May 16, 2012 Share Posted May 16, 2012 (edited) I wanted to check to see if you had gotten your health back and was able to do sports again. I went to some sports websites. But I didn't like that. It began to feel as I if I was checking up on you like I did with Facebook. So I left the sports website I was looking at. It feels good to choose me over you. I hope that one day you realize that having a lack of conscience is a bad thing and not something that should be celebrated. I hope one day you come to understand that cheating is something bad and not something you should pat yourself on the back about. I hope one day you understand that throwing another women in the face of the woman you hurt is a terrible thing to do and not something that is funny. You thought my pain was funny. You thought, for some reason, that I deserved all the bad things you did to me. You thought it was acceptable to treat me so badly that my heart was ripped to shreds. And lets not forget that you told the world you wouldn't change a thing. I will get through this because I never have to see you again. But you have to live with yourself. You have to live with the fact that you used your autistic son so that you could cheat on me. You have to live with the fact that you are a complete and total failure at almost every single thing you try to do. You are a failure as a father. You are a failure as a boyfriend. You are a failure as an employee. You are a failure as a fiance. You are a failure as a husband. You are a failure as a son. You are a failure as an athlete. You have failed more than anyone I've ever known. You are just a complete and utter failure. Gosh...you poor bastard. You poor, poor bastard. Edited May 16, 2012 by CopingGal Link to post Share on other sites
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