billythefish Posted June 19, 2012 Share Posted June 19, 2012 your mum was more attractive than you......& she was ugly Link to post Share on other sites
billythefish Posted June 19, 2012 Share Posted June 19, 2012 she had testicles.....& a beard was she a lesbian ??? Link to post Share on other sites
Peanut9330 Posted June 19, 2012 Share Posted June 19, 2012 she had testicles.....& a beard was she a lesbian ??? Ha!! The exact opposite of my ex he was lacking testicles all he had was a sandy vagina Link to post Share on other sites
kindest Posted June 19, 2012 Share Posted June 19, 2012 I hate you. Link to post Share on other sites
edwards99 Posted June 19, 2012 Share Posted June 19, 2012 and you my friend..can rot. Link to post Share on other sites
no_more_tries Posted June 20, 2012 Share Posted June 20, 2012 I can't do this anymore. I can't continue to try to believe you are someone you are not. I can't give you the benefit of the doubt any longer. You have lied so many times, I wonder if you can even decipher what is true anymore. Every day for two years, following a lifetime of friendship, you asked me to carry hurt, anger and blame, and I tried because I love you. That's what love does. It shields, and protects, and lifts you up. It doesn't shut down, deceive, and run away. You always run away. You've always run away. And you will always run away. It's the pattern that has become comfortable for you. Instead of looking within, you run towards what you think is happiness, only to find, you are still you. I'm glad you're gone. I'm glad you won't be welcomed back. I realize, I'm not grieving for what I have lost. I am grieving for what I gave to someone incapable of receiving love. I am grieving that I cared more for you than I did for me. I am grieving that I could not see my own worth because I was so busy trying to prove my worth to you. We are, indeed, different people. And I'm going to be ok. I am. Because when you left, the burden lifted. When you chose to give up, redemption enveloped me. While you waste away the hours, pining for a past you cannot redo, letting the present slip through your selfish fingers, I will be better, and stronger, and wiser... and someday, loved as fiercely as I love. And you will still be running... and it makes me sad for you. 7 Link to post Share on other sites
kindest Posted June 20, 2012 Share Posted June 20, 2012 I can't do this anymore. I can't continue to try to believe you are someone you are not. I can't give you the benefit of the doubt any longer. You have lied so many times, I wonder if you can even decipher what is true anymore. Every day for two years, following a lifetime of friendship, you asked me to carry hurt, anger and blame, and I tried because I love you. That's what love does. It shields, and protects, and lifts you up. It doesn't shut down, deceive, and run away. You always run away. You've always run away. And you will always run away. It's the pattern that has become comfortable for you. Instead of looking within, you run towards what you think is happiness, only to find, you are still you. I'm glad you're gone. I'm glad you won't be welcomed back. I realize, I'm not grieving for what I have lost. I am grieving for what I gave to someone incapable of receiving love. I am grieving that I cared more for you than I did for me. I am grieving that I could not see my own worth because I was so busy trying to prove my worth to you. We are, indeed, different people. And I'm going to be ok. I am. Because when you left, the burden lifted. When you chose to give up, redemption enveloped me. While you waste away the hours, pining for a past you cannot redo, letting the present slip through your selfish fingers, I will be better, and stronger, and wiser... and someday, loved as fiercely as I love. And you will still be running... and it makes me sad for you. I feel you. Link to post Share on other sites
coltsfan1 Posted June 20, 2012 Share Posted June 20, 2012 Slags...... got to love it!! Link to post Share on other sites
CopingGal Posted June 20, 2012 Share Posted June 20, 2012 I can't do this anymore. I can't continue to try to believe you are someone you are not. I can't give you the benefit of the doubt any longer. You have lied so many times, I wonder if you can even decipher what is true anymore. Every day for two years, following a lifetime of friendship, you asked me to carry hurt, anger and blame, and I tried because I love you. That's what love does. It shields, and protects, and lifts you up. It doesn't shut down, deceive, and run away. You always run away. You've always run away. And you will always run away. It's the pattern that has become comfortable for you. Instead of looking within, you run towards what you think is happiness, only to find, you are still you. I'm glad you're gone. I'm glad you won't be welcomed back. I realize, I'm not grieving for what I have lost. I am grieving for what I gave to someone incapable of receiving love. I am grieving that I cared more for you than I did for me. I am grieving that I could not see my own worth because I was so busy trying to prove my worth to you. We are, indeed, different people. And I'm going to be ok. I am. Because when you left, the burden lifted. When you chose to give up, redemption enveloped me. While you waste away the hours, pining for a past you cannot redo, letting the present slip through your selfish fingers, I will be better, and stronger, and wiser... and someday, loved as fiercely as I love. And you will still be running... and it makes me sad for you. Screw him. This guy sounds like a bombaclot. Link to post Share on other sites
msfreebyme Posted June 20, 2012 Share Posted June 20, 2012 It's nights like this I wish you could read my posts. Listen to what I say. And have your mouth duct taped shut and you be bound while I tell you all of my problems with you. I just want you to change and stop being the manipulator and a monster in general. I will be the first to admit my weaknesses...I do miss having you around sometimes, our good times, hearing your voice, seeing you, just having someone to hold me and be my shelter. The crappy part was you were the worst kind of shelter. We could of had it all too. Monster....you really could have and thats what should kill you. I GAVE YOU that second chance that no one usually gets. I was the girl everyone looked down upon going back to a controlling ex because I believed that maybe something could happen. I wanted you to be my best friend again. No fighting...just simplicity. WHY?!?! That question will forever drive me nuts. You had to have control because you were apparently so scared of me leaving, you just lied all the time and manipulated. You were mentally abusive AGAIN! But what you seem to not grasp is thats what makes me leave...I told you this. I yet again gave you a chance and you couldn't change, keep going to therapy, be a good man. For me...this whole getting back together was just another game to you. I don't regret being with you again because it officialized for me the person you truly are and other nice things came from it....I just wish with every fiber of my being that you had loved me enough to try and change. No pretending...actual effort. But you'll never get that chance again...and I hope that haunts you and kills you inside for the rest of your life because you know we could have been amazing. I know I am the one that got away. Link to post Share on other sites
xpaperxcutx Posted June 20, 2012 Share Posted June 20, 2012 Hate is such a strong word and I would never put so much effort into despising you qas much as I regret ever having met you. I gave so much of myself and asked for so little in return and I did myself a disservice. I admt now I was blind blind to your mistreatments and puttiing up with excuses that were merely you beiing lazy. The hardest part is me admitting I'm a fool but at least while I thought I could really "love you". You will never ever hear me say those three little words to you. You don't deserve it because you gave up and took a great girl for granted. Link to post Share on other sites
Edtheduck Posted June 20, 2012 Share Posted June 20, 2012 Wow what a setback. You contact me saying you want to arrange a time to pick your things up and drop mine off. We talk for what seems like a month. I hear your son in the background and all the memories start flooding back. Then you cry at the end of the phone call, and admit you think of me all the time?! What the **** does that mean?! I won't read into it too much. Unless you're willing to accept you made a mistake, and then say sorry for a good amount of time, it doesn't mean anything at the moment. I will continue strong in this fight, and be better off for it. What an evening. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
iambookworm Posted June 20, 2012 Share Posted June 20, 2012 I can't do this anymore. I can't continue to try to believe you are someone you are not. I can't give you the benefit of the doubt any longer. You have lied so many times, I wonder if you can even decipher what is true anymore. Every day for two years, following a lifetime of friendship, you asked me to carry hurt, anger and blame, and I tried because I love you. That's what love does. It shields, and protects, and lifts you up. It doesn't shut down, deceive, and run away. You always run away. You've always run away. And you will always run away. It's the pattern that has become comfortable for you. Instead of looking within, you run towards what you think is happiness, only to find, you are still you. I'm glad you're gone. I'm glad you won't be welcomed back. I realize, I'm not grieving for what I have lost. I am grieving for what I gave to someone incapable of receiving love. I am grieving that I cared more for you than I did for me. I am grieving that I could not see my own worth because I was so busy trying to prove my worth to you. We are, indeed, different people. And I'm going to be ok. I am. Because when you left, the burden lifted. When you chose to give up, redemption enveloped me. While you waste away the hours, pining for a past you cannot redo, letting the present slip through your selfish fingers, I will be better, and stronger, and wiser... and someday, loved as fiercely as I love. And you will still be running... and it makes me sad for you. I here ya. I have the same sentiment. It's sad that we try to make the relationship work, but it seems they don't really want to. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
iambookworm Posted June 20, 2012 Share Posted June 20, 2012 And you know what? you weren't even good in bed!!! I just liked cuddling and the kisses, so there! 3 Link to post Share on other sites
kindest Posted June 20, 2012 Share Posted June 20, 2012 (edited) I can't believe I'm still crying for the heartache that you put me through. But I still am. You knew that I was already damaged, then you met me, and damaged me even more. How could anyone be so cruel. Edited June 20, 2012 by kindest Link to post Share on other sites
DuchessKaye Posted June 20, 2012 Share Posted June 20, 2012 R... I never thought I would say this but I'm already over you and your bs... My next relationship after you was way better and I loved him to bits... And he never used me for money like you did... Glad to see you screwing and using your current girlfriend for her money... Yes, she's the one... The one that has to deal with your trash... Such a relief! Link to post Share on other sites
jdids247 Posted June 20, 2012 Share Posted June 20, 2012 (edited) Why spend so much time and energy pining over her? She's always busy, always tired. You have to book ahead just to get a few valuable minutes with her Highness. And then she tires of your voice and has much more important things to do than listen to boring old you. There's always something much more important that needs planning or delegating. She's too busy stressing over every possible and impossible thing that could happen to pay you any attention. You are just a pain in the ass to her. She resents having to devote any of her super-valuable time to you. She has no interest in pleasing you and has to be begged for oral sex. And then when you finally do get it it is positively the WORST EVER blowjob. She's the world's busiest woman and she just doesn't have time for you. So find someone who does you moron. ======================== Add to this... Remember she has never shown: - Any remorse - Any inclination to work on it - Any real hint that she would take you back - Any indication she may have made a mistake - Any flexibility - Any admission life is not better now - Much in the way of feelings or concern for you - Any admission that this may be hard on xxxxxxx (son) - Any suggestion that there were good things about our marriage, at all In short, she has been as unbending and unrealistic and stubborn as possible. She has convinced herself this is the better way even though there is a mountain of evidence it is a much harder life this way. Do NOT go back. She does not care for you, refuses to allow herself to open up emotionally (emotions repressed by drugs?), has not considered you at all with her moves, and cannot be trusted again. When she put this non-plan in motion her only consistent action was selfishness. She decided she was hell-bent on making all decisions, no matter how poor they were. The only important thing was that she made them. The only person she looked out for was herself, and even at that she did a ****ty job at making herself happier. She has recklessly, carelessly made her situation far worse, yet will not acknowledge this. You deserve better than this. No level of your faults translates into this sort of response. She's suffered a mental breakdown. =============================== Remember she: - Takes everything as criticism - Runs from anything negative as fast as she can - Changes the subject or focus when you confront her with anything - Will not answer any email that is not super-sweet - Attempts to control you by only acknowledging you when you are nice, and by avoiding, avoiding, avoiding as soon as anything critical is spoken - Cannot accept ANY criticism or blame - Turns everything into "you made me do it" - Sees herself as completely faultless, and everything she does is the result of someone else making her do it - Accuses you of "blaming her for everything", even when you take plenty of the blame - Turns your apologies around and actually amplifies them. You are better off not apologizing at all than admitting you did wrong and having her hold it against you - Sees no need to change anything she does - Is vindictive beyond belief. You do something to her, she has to do something of 10x the magnitude in return Or at least, this is her public persona. These are the tactics of someone who has the mentality of a 6-year-old. These are the traits exactly displayed by her mother. She would rather be right than face reality. There is no hope dealing with someone who is this controlling and determined to not take an honest look at themselves, not willing to compromise in the least. Thank god you are rid of her. This is not a person who understands what it is to be fair, or has any interest in reconciling, or doing the right thing. This is an angry person who wants to be right above all else. Were we dating the same person? Holy crap man...absolutely my EX to a 'T'. I also had to make plans with her in advance because her 'great' friends had plans in advance....you shouldn't have to reserve your signaificant other like a table at a restaurant. Funny how she always blamed me saying I never wanted to be with her. That's pretty hard to do when you're never home and never make any effort to be with me anyway. Their blaming of unhappiness on you but failing to see that their actions are the reason they are unhappy. They put on a mask in front of everyone to make their life seem so perfect...it's like it's a soap opera. They're nice to everyone but the people they claim they love. It's such a joke....they'll never know what real love is and think they can always find something better when they have something great right in front of them. Always looking for the easy way out even if it means making you miserable. They do have the mindset of a 6 year old. Edited June 20, 2012 by jdids247 Added more content Link to post Share on other sites
Paigey Posted June 20, 2012 Share Posted June 20, 2012 I wrote you and you finally did the decent thing and replied, but it didn't make me feel any better. I so wanted it to make me feel better, but you were never going to say the things i wanted to hear because i am no longer the person who you want. The way you could just discard me after seven years actually tears me apart, and the fact is I really shouldn't be this hung up on you, i should just be able to let you go and live your life and find happiness- i just thought that might have been with me. People keep telling me time is a great healer, and i know its true but i also know you were long gone before i was as you are doing perfectly well without me. I want to be doing perfectly well without you so badly, I want to be me-hell i want to find out who me is because i've spent such a long time being part of you. I'm finding it harder as time passes, quite the opposite to what i expected, but i know in the long run one day I will want to thank you for this because you finally pushed me to believe in myself, the degree that i will complete and the life that I should have, just your not going to be in it, which we both know is for the best. I'll never say it to you, but i really hope that you find happiness and that you find love, that you find what i was lacking, i said i'd never forgive you, but I already have, i just have to find a way to forgive myself for still wanting you, for missing you and for loving you in the first place. I miss you, but that needs to stop. Link to post Share on other sites
iambookworm Posted June 20, 2012 Share Posted June 20, 2012 I heard that there's a storm in your area. Are you ok? I wish you'd let me know. Link to post Share on other sites
CopingGal Posted June 20, 2012 Share Posted June 20, 2012 I can't believe I'm still crying for the heartache that you put me through. But I still am. You knew that I was already damaged, then you met me, and damaged me even more. How could anyone be so cruel. Same thing happened with me. My ex knew what I had been through, and he still played head games with me and treated me terribly...TERRIBLY and then actually thought I was going to be his friend and when I wouldn't agree to that, tried to force me into it. Link to post Share on other sites
MadSworthy Posted June 20, 2012 Share Posted June 20, 2012 Man, I'm missing you so bad. No matter who you were, no matter what you did... Link to post Share on other sites
CopingGal Posted June 20, 2012 Share Posted June 20, 2012 (edited) When you didn't have time for me because you were the PTA president...I understood. It was painful, but I understood. When you didn't have time for me because of the hours you had to work...I understood. It was painful, but I understood. When you didn't have time for me because you were a single parent...I understood. It was painful, but I understood. When you didn't have time for me because you were a troop leader...I understood. It was painful, but I understood. When you didn't have time for me because you were an athlete...I understood. It was painful, but I understood. Then, the PTA was over, the troop was over and your hours got way better. But what did you do with your time? Look for other women and cheat on me, while using the excuse of spending time with your autistic child. Even after all this time, it still burns how you led me on for three years and did all these things to me and much, much more. You think you are super because you can use and manipulate. You think it is funny that I let you get away with everything and believe all your lies. You thought it was funny to travel all the way to my city and cheat on me with someone that was only blocks away. And yet after all of that, you thought it was necessary to harass me so that I would stay in your life. Then you go on Facebook and brag about how you would not change anything. It's nice to know you would put me through all of that cruelty again. You liked being cruel to me. It turned you on. It made you happy to lie and take advantage of me and run around behind my back and do horrible things to me. I hate you for what you did to me. I hope you die. Edited June 20, 2012 by CopingGal Link to post Share on other sites
CopingGal Posted June 20, 2012 Share Posted June 20, 2012 I had a huge, huge, huge crying fit...thinking about all of the abuse you put me through. I'm worn out. I hate you for what you've done to me. I hate that you think it's funny. And still I feel you did behave normally...for someone with sociopathic and narcissitic traits. What you did was normal. I'm sorry. I'm just not use to sociopathic men. It's my fault. I'm not use to dating mentally unbalanced men. It's time for you to get out of my head now. You're off wreaking havoc on another woman's life. Good for me. Bad for her. Give my thanks to the trailer trash. She's the only woman I know of for sure that you cheated with. I will forever be in her debt. Since you're always in and out of the hospital, I would take advantage of that and speak to a very gifted psychiatrist. That is the only person who can help you now. Link to post Share on other sites
DuchessKaye Posted June 20, 2012 Share Posted June 20, 2012 W..E..A..K Link to post Share on other sites
Edtheduck Posted June 20, 2012 Share Posted June 20, 2012 After hearing your voice last night, who else would I be thinking of today? Terrible day for emotions. First time in a long time, the chest is tight again, and I've no doubt I won't be able to sleep tonight. Have to be stronger than ever. Link to post Share on other sites
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