Guest Posted April 24, 2007 Share Posted April 24, 2007 Ladies, Your insecurity towards your gentleman friends' viewing of pornography is going over the top. Yes, I am in a committed relationship, and yes, my boyfriend absolutely loves porn... and I will even admit that I am a jealous person. All right, here goes. Scientifically speaking, women think of sex with their emotions, and men think of sex with visuals. This does not mean that your boyfriends necessarily want to have sex with all of the women that they're watching in the pornos. Do you notice that many times there are also MEN in these pornos? Do you think your boyfriends want to have sex with THEM? No! They enjoy the visuals of watching sex in the act! It doesn't mean that they think these women are better looking than you, or that they would rather be with them. If pornography is the least of your worries, I would count my blessings! I mean, personally, as a woman, I'm really not all that into porn. I tried to watch it with my boyfriend once, but I just laughed the whole time and he got mad at me and told me I couldn't watch it with him anymore. ;- ) I mean, wouldn't you rather have them watch porn then go to bars and pick up women? Seriously. If you're so worried about it, why don't you make your own porn? He'll probably watch that even more than the internet porn! (Not only is he watching sex acts, it's a huge ego boost because he's in them!) Also, do you know that scientifically speaking, once again, men masturbate to pictures of hot women or pornos...but women can masturbate based purely on emotion? Think about it, ladies... when you do it, who do you think about? Your current, ex partner, or someone you have feelings for, right? Men don't usually do this! That's why they're visual! Please, please, ladies...forgive your men for their pornography obsessions. Remember...they don't want to be with these women, they just want to watch them have sex. It's not a big deal. I thought I was a jealous person coming on here, and I had just reasons...not just because my boyfriend watches porn! Please, ladies, hide your irrational insecurities from your poor significant others and give them a break! Love Elli Link to post Share on other sites
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