EyeAlone Posted April 24, 2007 Share Posted April 24, 2007 Right now I'm in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend but the distance isn't too horrible. We're only 1 hour and 15 min away so it's very manageable. But we're both graduating from college this May, however I'll be moving to another city. It's 3 hours away from the city where he lives and I'll be going to graduate school there for 4 years. He also wants to move to that city and get a job there. But it's not definite that he'll find a job. It's all making me sad just thinking about it. I'm just worried that I'll end up depressed if he's not able to move over there. I know I shouldn't worry about things that haven't happened yet or that I can't control but I can't help it. Does anyone have any advice, opinions, or words of encouragement? Link to post Share on other sites
catrocks Posted April 24, 2007 Share Posted April 24, 2007 Wait and see what happens before worrying. Even if he doesn't manage to get a job in the city where you'll be studying, if he is trying his best to move there to be with you that's a pretty nice feeling - he obviously really wants to be with you. And if he doesn't manage to get a job there, 3 hours is nothing! You should be able to see each other once or twice a month at least, and during that time he could still be applying for jobs where you live. I'm sure that in the 4 years you're there he'll be able to find something. But for now, just enjoy spending time with him and concentrate on exams and stuff, and try not to think about it too much. There's no need to worry just yet, one way or another everything will work out Link to post Share on other sites
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